want to know the number one attraction killer for all women
it's not this but it's something that so many guys do but don't realize how
colossal it actually is this attraction killer i'm talking about
is over pursuing too fast and too soon or as i see it and most women see it
neediness not only is over pursuing an instant attraction killer it's also
extremely irritating and it tells women that you have low
self-esteem little to no confidence and a ton of insecurities which are all
major turn-offs but here's where most guys get things
wrong they think that the needy things they do are not
only harmless but positive after all they're showing
interest right which is no big deal in this video i'm going to lay out not
only the steps you can take to kill the neediness
but i want to show you the behaviors you might be doing right now
that are putting out needy signals to women you're pursuing
and you might not even know you're doing them so pay attention and keep watching
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the reason men come off as needy to begin with all
things being equal the best way to appear non-needy is to
you guessed it not be needy to begin with the way to do
that is to be in an abundant state where you know
there's always a plethora of women you can date at any time
where you recognize your own self-worth as a man
of value that you bring so much to the table
that any woman would be insane not to date you which is
easier said than done right it takes most guys time to get to this place
emotionally but there are outward steps you can take
right now to curb your neediness and give off that
vibe without overhauling your personality or already
being successful with women so you want to hear them of
course you do so here they are number one you want to
limit your contact with the women that you like
one thing you should do early on when dating is limit the texting
you do in the beginning you want to text only
to set up your date logistics only i can't tell you
how many times i've watched guys shoot themselves in the foot
by texting way too much before the date they think the date is in a week
so i'd better stay in contact or else she'll get over me and find somebody
else which is totally not true so they text a bunch
with empty messages and turn her off in the process
and the date never happens this is a formula
for getting ghosted now this isn't to say you shouldn't be texting at all
but always text with a goal in mind everything you do should have a goal in
mind a goal being i want a banter with her i want to flirt
i want to know something about this girl that is important for me to know
i want to set up our date that way you're always setting
your intention straight with her and cutting out the needy texting that you
might do a little tip i give to some of my
clients who get trigger happy with texting back
too much and too fast is i tell them that
once they get a response from a girl to throw their phone behind a couch or
something and by the time they have to bend over
reach for the phone that need text back right away should
have decreased and they can logically think to
themselves do i really need to text right now or am i doing it from a place
of neediness all right number two you're the
designated first texter if you find yourself being the first one
texting all the time or contacting all the time
i've got bad news for you let's be clear though texting first in the beginning
is totally fine like i said in the first point you should be the one
setting up logistics if after the first few dates
you find yourself constantly being the one texting first
you might be coming off as needy a good rule of thumb to follow is
every time you initiate a conversation she should be initiating the
conversation be warned though these aren't hard rules they're meant as
guidelines that you don't accidentally come off as needy whenever
you begin to ask yourself am i being needy right now think back to
the guidelines i've laid out for you here
all right number three needing reasons why or understanding
why she did something one of the biggest red flags i see
guys waving around for everyone to see is asking for
reasons why usually it comes up when a day gets cancelled or changed
remember how i said these are guidelines think of this as a
commandment if she has to cancel don't ask for an explanation if she says hey
can't make it tonight so sorry here's how i want you to reply
or this is an example of a good reply no problem i hope everything's all right
we'll do it another time or even better if you throw in a cute joke and say
something like this my new shoes are going to be really
disappointed breaking it to the now have a great night or here's another
cute one that my girlfriend just got okay no problem looks like these new
pants are just going to have to wait another day for their maiden voyage
i mean i thought that was adorable and so did my girlfriend so adorable
that she wrote back an hour later saying that thing
that made her have to cancel just got changed and she can go out again
see then it's in your hands now this is an example of a
terrible reply why do you have to cancel or
not responding at all like a big sour baby you want your reply message to
do something that shows her canceling on you didn't ruin your world
and you didn't need her to have fun and you'll find something else to do there
are a million reasons she couldn't make it
she didn't feel good or she just wasn't at her best or she realized she just
wasn't as into you as she thought whatever the reason is take it say okay
and then let her come back to you because at the end of the day it doesn't
matter right if she ever intended on seeing you
in the first place acting scolded or scolding her won't
make her want to do that any sooner the sooner it
doesn't matter to you the sooner the neediness will stop all
together so here's the real secret to non-neediness the rules and
guidelines i've outlined in this video can
definitely help keep that neediness in check and
they'll get you by but the neediness will still
be there in the back of your mind so how do you
eliminate it get rid of it how do you get into an abundant mindset like i said
in the beginning of the video without faking it truth is that a
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as needy when you're not really needy if you feel like there's subconscious
coding inside you that prevents you from being able to
talk to girls comfortably and not be needy and you want
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