First impressions are everything.
And when it comes to first impressions with a girl you’re tryna bang, it’s even more
important.
The first impression you make on a girl determines how she’ll categorize you for the rest of
your relationship.
If she categorizes you poorly, then it’s REALLY hard to counter that and change how
she views you.
This is why it’s hard as fuck to get out of the friendzone, but not impossible like
I’ve taught you in my videos before haha.
So now I’m gonna walk you through step-by-step EXACTLY how to make the best first impression
when you meet a girl.
Step 1: Body language
Maintain strong body language throughout the interaction, it’s crucial to display strong
body language in the first few minutes of the interaction.
Head up, shoulders back, chest out, basic shit like that.
I already did a whole video on this but I thought it was important for you guys to know.
Step 2: Lock eyes, smirk, and greet.
THIS IS SO FUCKING IMPORTANT I CAN’T OVERSTRESS IT ENOUGH OH MY FUCKING GOD.
The second you meet the girl, you should lock eyes with her and be sure to not look away
until she does.
This is incredibly important because that initial locking of eyes will display to her
that you’re confident, cool, and not intimidated by her.
And it’s important that you don’t break eye contact with her until she looks away
first because it’ll show her you’re a confident god like me.
I call this the Godly Gaze, and it’s perfect for first encounters with a new girl.
Not to mention, it’s a really easy way to set a flirty and sexual vibe since you typically
only lock eyes with people you’re romantically interested in.
Plus, locking eyes with someone when you first meet them is the EASIEST way to make your
intentions clear.
You know how in the movies when two people lock eyes for a long period of time and you’re
sitting there thinking like “Oh shit they’re about to fuck!”.
That’s exactly what you wanna go for because it has the same effect.
Just make sure your eye contact is strong but not creepy.
Don’t try and snatch her soul from her body, just make flirty eye contact with her to establish
the vibe you want.
As soon as you make eye contact with her, it’s appropriate to introduce yourself by
shaking her hand or hugging her whichever seems more appropriate for the situation.
If it’s a night out, then a hug is probably more fitting but if it’s during the day
time and it’s a more toned down environment then a handshake works better.
As you go to shake her hand be sure to maintain eye contact and give her a flirty smirk to
keep the vibe light and comfortable.
Bonus tip: If you’re feeling really confident and ballsy, you should lock eyes with her
and make a funny joke by introducing yourself as her “future boyfriend”.
One thing I’ll do is say, “I’m Zeus, your future boyfriend, nice to meet you.”
If you say something along those lines, your intentions are clear and the vibe is set from
the start.
Step 3: Confidence
You want to make sure your actions are confident the whole time because you want her to categorize
you as a confident dude.
So make sure you’re well dressed, and well groomed so you feel comfortable and confident
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Step 4: Drive the interaction
Now that you’ve made a good opening impression when you first introduce yourself, it’s
time to solidify that good impression you just made by keeping that vibe throughout
the rest of your interaction.
If you’re out at night, then be sure to have a good time, bust a few moves, and get
physical with her.
Physical escalation is a lot more accepted and better received in nightlife environments
so be sure to make the interaction physical as well.
The easiest way to make a dope first impression in a nightlife scenario is to DANCE.
Literally just dance, have a good time, and you’ll attract girls like a magnet.
And if you attract other girls, then it’ll make the girl perceive you even better because
she’ll see that you’re a dope guy who other girls want to be around as well.
Also, dancing with the girl you’re into is the easiest way to simultaneously build
up that fun and flirty vibe since you’re having a good time and physically escalating
the situation.
If it’s a day time scenario then an easy way to increase the physicality of the interaction
is to playfully touch her throughout your conversation.
Bonus tip: You should be the one to drive the interaction AND the group dynamic.
So if you meet her when you’re out with friends, you should be the one to make the
decisions and take charge if necessary so she perceives you as higher status and the
dominant figure in your social circle.
In most group scenarios, people will typically be indecisive so this is a good tip to follow
in general because it’ll result in you making better decisions for the whole group.
And that’s it.
In summary:
Body language Lock eyes, smirk, and greet
Confidence Drive the interaction
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