And when one becomes a Zakir e Qalbi, as I said to you before that one of the signs of a Zakir e Qalbi,
is that when you become a Zakir e Qalbi, you fall even more in love with your wife. So that’s the secret behind it.
The Secret of a Zakir e Qalbi’s Masculine Strength
Mohammad Masood from Dhaka, Bangladesh says:
Gohar Shahi Marhaba. Assalamu alaikum wa rehmatallilahi wa barakatahu.
As far as I understand, spirituality is about strengthening the souls with divine light and weakening the lower self.
Many sages would adopt spiritual asceticism in order to weaken the lower self,
and in doing so they would shun even lawful pleasures.
This process also weakens the body.
We are incapable of understanding spirituality more than Maula Ali and Abdul Qadir Jilani.
So my question is regarding Maula Ali and Abdul Qadir Jilani and their many wives and mistresses.
How did they fulfil their rights equally?
Is it possible for the lower self to be strengthened with the diet of divine light? I’m really confused.
How Maula Ali (a) and Abdul Qadir Jilani (ra) fulfil the rights of their wives and mistresses equally is something we cannot answer.
Nor do we need to interfere in their personal life because this has nothing to do with their spiritual ranks.
How they would fulfil the rights is a matter relating to their personal life.
I believe we should be respectful when it comes to these eminent personalities,
because saying anything even slightly negative in regards to these personalities can potentially jeopardise our faith.
Maula Ali’s personality needs no introduction.
Abdul Qadir Jilani’s personality needs no introduction.
We cannot compare to the grandiosity of these great personalities.
Alright, so what we need to understand is that ‘Allah Hoo’ emits the personal divine light of God and this divine light is a form of energy.
When a man’s heart is enlightened and divine energy enters the bloodstream,
his masculine strength becomes 400 times stronger.
Due to the Activation of the Heart.
Mevlana Rumi wrote in Masnavi: a momin male never ages.
The directive of the Qur’an that permits a momin to marry four times - this also mentions a momin, not a Muslim.
So, Zikr e Qalb can also increase a man’s masculine strength because divine light is a form of energy.
Divine light is God’s personal energy.
That divine light is so powerful that it transports the spiritual heart’s zikr to the Empyrean of God.
So masculine power doesn’t hold a candle to that.
[Due to divine light] a Zakir e Qalbi’s masculine strength increases so much that he harnesses the strength of four men.
So now the sages upon whom daily divine theophanies would fall, how would you calculate their masculine strength?
Well, that’s the reality, isn’t it?
Now, Hazrat Ali (a) had many wives and Abdul Qadir Jilani (ra) only had four wives, not many. Only four.
But what about Prophet Solomon? He had a thousand wives.
His Divine Eminence’s wife also posed a question regarding this to HDE one day.
She said, ‘Sarkar, Prophet Solomon had one thousand wives, so how would he fulfil the rights of his thousand wives?’
His Divine Eminence responded, ‘I don’t know. You should go and ask him’.
‘I don’t know.
You should go and ask him’.
Obviously, they must have had the strength to fulfil the rights of their wives since they married so many.
We learn from the narrations that the son of Hazrat Ali (a), Hazrat Hassan Mujtaba (as), married two thousand times.
It’s in the narrations.
Although, everyone here would want that for themselves, to marry multiple times,
I’m sure that’s the case but they conceal these desires but the fact of the matter is that we are not Imam Hassan.
We are common human beings. A common human being mustn’t compete with such grand personalities.
God has bestowed them the required strength in accordance with their spiritual ranks.
If you want to marry as many times as Maula Ali,
my son, my advice to you is this: can you lift the gate of Khyber?
Let’s see if you can do that and if you can, then go ahead (and marry as many times as you want).
My only advice to you is that you must not pry into the personal lives of these great personalities.
You must be respectful.
They had so many wives so how would they fulfil the rights…
I mean, what does that have to do with us?
We have nothing to do with this.
This is a matter of their personal lives.
Even a regular person wouldn’t appreciate you asking such personal questions.
So why should we take interest in their personal lives and wonder how they fulfilled the rights of their many wives,
because that is not our problem, it’s for them to worry about.
They would not have married so many women if they weren’t capable of doing so.
They must have been aware of their own strength and power which is why they married multiple times.
Because when you become a Zakir e Qalbi, the divine light that is generated also enters your bloodstream.
And when one becomes a Zakir e Qalbi, as I said to you before,
that one of the signs of a Zakir e Qalbi is that when you become a Zakir e Qalbi, you fall even more in love with your wife.
So that’s the secret behind it.
Your spiritual heart becomes strong so you feel an even stronger inclination for your wife.