Uncle C, back in the office, and in today's video, I'm going to be discussing the exact
masculine body language hacks and or secrets that you can copy paste directly into your
life to get results. Now, the reason why I'm actually making this video is number one,
I've never done anything on body language. Number two, as a person who naturally talks
with a body, a lot of body language, or when I teach, for example, on my whiteboard, I'm
constantly moving my hands, I'm constantly from point A to point B, or I'm constantly
taking up space, there are certain things that you can do based off of your physical
body stature, that you can use either when you're attempting to have conviction within
your workplace, you know, build authority within a new social setting, or status for
that matter, or even be on a date. Okay, all of these things are going to help you not
only just with women, but ultimately with who you are as a man. Now, for those of you
that know, there is four days left in my Black Friday, MBT sale, you can get that at the
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today, I want to just touch on these quick four points. And these four points are going
to make all of the difference between how you carry yourself, how you appear, and ultimately
how you demonstrate value in the world. And a lot of this can be done subconsciously,
you know, keep in mind, nothing makes up for good verbal skills, nothing makes up for good
nuances of speech and frame control. But rest assured these four things are going to help
you in a lot of different areas. Number one body language as a masculine man 85% of the
meat and beans that you have to cut into is going to be based on stature and shape. Okay?
There is no way to fake this one. So you're going to get some people that say well, don't,
don't, don't sit with your shoulders around, don't sit with your back hunched, right, don't
sit with your arms crossed. But let's be real for a second. If you take care of yourself,
if you're in the gym, what like what, if you're in the if you're actually putting in the work,
whether you sit like a hunchback or not, you're still going to have massive shoulders and
wide lats, okay. There's nothing that makes up for doing the work inside of the gym. If
you do the work inside of the gym, you can sit however you'd like with your body language,
and you're still going to look absolutely yoked or massive. Now, I'm not trying to say
him yoke too massive. No, I've been in the gym for eight years. And what I can tell you
is that guys who take care of themselves and put in the work, get eyes from women. If you
want eyes from women, and you want your body language to naturally take care of itself,
you're going to have to meet the criteria in the department that looks strong. If you
look strong, hopefully you are putting in the work to be strong. And if you are strongest
what's going to happen, you're going to get more women that notice you number two, when
it comes to body language and what is the correct way or the correct method for you.
It typically depends between congruence and conviction between what you say and your exact
actions. Here's what I can tell you every single time in my entire life, that I have
tried to match the structure of how somebody else uses game, I have failed miserably. And
every single time I've made game, my own, I've won. This same rule applies for business.
Over the years, I've had hundreds of 1000s of dollars worth of coaches hundreds of 1000s
of dollars worth of business mentors. And while I learned a lot of fundamental principles,
every single time I tried to take certain strategies and tactics directly use them into
what I'm doing, I would fail if it's not in the right format for me, you have to make
stuff your own. So it's not really a differential equation between whether you talk with a lot
of hand expression or not. Whether you are kind of slow moving and mysterious or fast
paced and aggressive. It's not about that. It's that what you are doing has conviction
between what you're saying and how your body is appearing to move. See,
the biggest thing women look for is conviction and congruence within that man. Because if
those two things do not match, what happens is that she senses a lowering of status within
him and a lowering of confidence. This is where if you try to make a you know, a flirtatious
remark or a flirtatious gesture, if she can tell that you're timid and you're bracing
for the hit when you say it and the hit is in rejection, she is going to automatically
know that this man is not who he says he is. You do not want this to be you. conviction
and confidence go hand in hand. And that matches the congruence between how you look and how
you move versus what you say. Number three, your shoulders should be up and back just
a little. Now this isn't necessarily to put on some sort of fake front. And keep in mind,
I don't even necessarily care about your posture, but I want you to watch the shift. If I'm
like this, do you notice how I'm taking up less space and it's more timid. It's more
like I'm slouched and it's more or less like I'm not engaged and I don't care. I don't
care about the perception of me and I also don't care about how I look to the World all
of a sudden, when I go back and up, do you see how that changes things and it opens up
your it opens up your diaphragm, it opens up your ribcage, it opens up everything to
give you more of a V shape or a V taper. This is just a subtle display of dominance or a
subtle display of authority, a subtle display of just conviction and willing to expose yourself
out to the world. And number four, you want your head posture up and straight. Okay, your
head posture directly straight in front of you. This is so you can make good eye contact
with people see most men, what you're going to notice is that when they walk through life,
when they walk through the planet, when they walk through earth, either their head is way
up in space, not necessarily trying to see anybody or their head is down, attempting
to just swivel and get through life and maneuver through people. When you're when your face
is directly straight in front of you. When your eyes are directly forward, you now are
going to be forced to do one thing and that's make eye contact, smile and greet people.
One of the biggest reasons why men have poor body language is because they don't like necessarily
how they appear. And they don't like how they appear because they've never actually put
their will out into the world and smiled or made eye contact with somebody or a woman
and actually got a positive result. The second you start doing these four things. The second
you are going to notice that women gravitate towards you, your workers and bosses will
actually respect you more in the workplace and you will be closing more deals and you
will appear as if you're the type of man you've always wanted to be. So to wrap this puppy
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