Cheating Wives And Crazy Girlfriends
hello everyone i hope this day finds everyone
in good health amid this pandemic i have a few crazy stories for you
regarding violent and unfaithful women stay tuned
cheating wife wants to take divorce slow soon to be
ex-wife asked for a divorce last month refused counseling
no chance of reconciliation just asked that i'd be patient while she found a
job she cannot support herself on her own
found out last week she has been seeing another man for many months
the day after my birthday my wife informed me she didn't want to be
married to me anymore the feelings were gone i didn't treat
her right she refused to try counseling said we've talked about it
all before but she refused to try marriage
counseling then too i'll admit i have not been the best
husband been in denial about my depression for so long
i only sought help after she dropped a d word
been trying to be a better me more like the old me
hoping she'd see that i could be a better me with help
she then asked me to be patient to give her time to find a job
that she can support herself on i was glad to give her time
i thought it was a win-win if we're still cohabitating
maybe i could show her i was willing to change
willing to face my problems and get help and if not
her wanting to find a well-paying job was a good sign we'd be able to have
an amicable divorce but the weeks have been hard
where we're supposed to be civil to each other at least be good roommates and
stay friends but she constantly avoids me
goes out of her way to leave the room if i enter
and can only muster up about 30 to 45 minutes of polite conversation a day
sometimes only every other day the cold shoulders
mean looks the refusal to communicate all were still there
so if i figured the best i could hope for was the
amica divorce since she was clearly sticking to her stance of
no reconciliation so i started reading up a divorce
online resources friends that had been through it
i learned about the process and started to make a plan
one piece of advice was to start talking with her about the plan for divorce
oh boy was that a weird conversation she was surprised at the amount of knowledge
i had acquired about the process and admitted that she
didn't know anything about what to do she stated the only action she has taken
so far was to apply for new jobs not any job that could support her not
just a very limited job field she was working part-time in
while we were married not a job that usually pays well enough to live on
and certainly not at part-time hours it was like she was content to have
told me she doesn't love me anymore doesn't want to be married
and go on living her life the way she always had
just with my role being demoted to unwanted roommate
fast forward to last week when a mutual friend dropped a bomb on me
all those nights she was out at her girlfriend's or meeting the girls
or going to bible study etc four to five times a week for four to six
hours a night she was instead going to her boyfriend's house
sometimes just a couple of hours before and after her
actual event but other times for the whole
evening so now i have no patience left i don't want to wait
i just want to file and get this thing done the pain of being stuck
in between places is just too much and the betrayal
is unforgivable buddy my advice you should have been going a long time
ago
26 year old male says his 26 year old wife is a cheating
bipolar narcissist they've been together for eight years
married for six when our daughter was born six years ago my wife changed
i dealt with her abuse for approximately a year nothing i do was right
or good enough i was a horrible husband horrible father etc
one night we were fighting and i was holding my daughter consoling her from
her mother's screams she screamed at me and told me that i
didn't care about my daughter at all and i was a piece of shit and
started assaulting me my daughter is autistic and if i got a
divorce i'm afraid it would ruin any and all progress she has made well after
that incident she was very distant with me so
in my stupidity i look for an affection elsewhere not physical affection mind
you but i would flirt with other women just to get some kind of affection
i'm a piece of shit i know but i realized what i was doing and stopped
myself fast forward three years wife still has
her episodes but she finds out about my flirting goes
berserk and then come clean and work my ass off to make
things better during this time i found out from my
co-workers that she had sent pictures of herself
to their cousin who lives just three houses down from us
wow now these aren't normal naked pictures mind you these are pictures she
took in lingerie i bought her that she took
from me that she sent to this guy it's
absolutely crushed me i haven't been the best husband but
still this crushed my soul i fell into a dark pit drinking non-stop
contemplating suicide wondering why all this happened
i'm better now but i'm still with my wife and kids
we have a two-year-old boy now but i just don't know what to do i have tried
and tried to get her to see how she is but nothing
is ever her fault everything is my fault i don't know why
i even talked about this to be honest i know
what i should do but i don't want my kids to go through a divorce
like i did when i was younger and i know my wife would try to keep them from me
and that would kill me well this is a tough one
but it sounds like if you do get a divorce
you're gonna have to let the courts step in and be the referee of this
since you two have kids together
34 year old man says his wife 27 has sent pics and videos to over 30 men
in nine years my wife has a habit of infidelity
when our relationship isn't going well it's her
go-to i'm unhappy move she says she tries to tell me and i just don't
pay attention but here's the thing she's never told me directly it's always
subtle hints or nothing at all like i said it's been
nine years i've learned a few things like when she's upset i may not know why
but i see when something is wrong nine out
of ten times the conversation goes me babe what's
wrong her nothing me are you sure you look
upset sad angry confused whichever may be
her no i'm okay and at this point if i press any further
she clams up even tighter then shortly thereafter
i find messages from men yes i've snooped through her phone but only after
seeing the familiar signs of her being
unfaithful she then tells me how i don't make her
feel loved wanted sexy or all of the above and that if i
paid more attention it wouldn't have happened right
through all the years and all the infidelity i have never once
brought it up or threw it in her face doing any arguments whether they
were related or not i've also never cheated back
i thought about it but i haven't i didn't want
a tit for tat thing going on well anyway i called her again recently and this
time i can't just let it go because this time i found out the full
extent of what she was doing over the years as the title says i say
full because i'm not sure if it ever got physical
she says no but honestly i don't know if i believe her
i want to but i just don't know we've been trying to work through it
all this time around but i don't feel like she's
as dedicated to fixing it as i am because she thinks she really messed up
this time but by exhibiting the same behavior with
a few female friends i've met them
she's not bi so i'm fairly certain nothing like that is going on
but i definitely think something weird is going on
i just don't know anymore she agreed to go to couples therapy i'm just worried
about it all i will say watch for more signs
although you already have them you really don't need any more clear signs
but i don't think this one is going to survive
god says his wife of 10 years maybe possibly cheating on him
my wife of 10 years we ended up together through her
infidelity with her children's father and also
mine as well with my ex-baby mama wow although both hers and my
relationships were toxic for both of us she was being abused and cheated on as
well very often my baby mama was bisexual and always
screwing around drunk and abusive but statistics say
if you end up together due to infidelity this is more likely to be the demise
of a relationship as well my wife for 10 years her and i don't have
intimacy very often due to sleeping in separate rooms
her excuse is that i snore and she is a light sleeper
who has to get up when the birds wake at 5 am
every day for work in which we have alternating schedules
and don't see each other very often she is always on her phone which is always
on silent and she hides the screen from me and i
know for a fact she deletes messages and also
texts she receives on her phone i looked at her phone one time and seen
on messenger her waving at my cousin who she was intimate with in the past
what lately her demeanor has been somewhat more distant
and she seems to be more argumentative and wants to push me away and is always
telling me to relocate her excuses due to her deteriorating
health which i'm not buying her and i separated
once during our marriage for like seven months
where she relocated to a different town in which
then we were supposed to be talking and working things out to reunite
why are you staying with this woman which we were in separate towns where
she had apparently gotten into another relationship
with another man with her teenage children
at the time and her kids loved me due to me being
the only dad they can remember somehow i'd find out
she was in another relationship in this other town with this man
and managed to talk to my stepchildren about her new relationship
one of the kiddos had admitted to me about mom having a
new relationship the kiddo who told me said she was tired of going to the sky
so mom can get drunk and hump this guy every day
i had confronted my wife about this and she finally came clean
and admitted to this and also the humping every day
this is absolutely wild fast forward to her return and she ended up
maintaining contact with this guy saying she missed him
and wanted to go back to him why why why leave this woman alone kick her to
the curb the interesting thing about this about
her sexual relationship with sky and myself is she said to me that she
didn't care for intimacy because of her being sexually victimized
as a kid really but she's humping this other guy
while you are a fool but yet was humping this guy daily
for her kids and also her admission now her wanting me to relocate i am
feeling that she is still hiding sexual activity with other men
due to our lack of intimacy and also her having private messages on
messenger and also texts i'm sure with other
people i haven't called her but statistically speaking i believe i
have pretty good odds that she is being unfaithful
should i be worried what what kind of question is that
she's giving you all the signs your next step
is to get a divorce
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