In an uprising against what exactly?! Against the black police chief? Against a
mostly minority police force?! Against the black mayor?! Against the black president?
Against the black Attorney General? enough to leap in the crowd and heave a
child in a sinkhole on Cinco De Mayo... What do you consider a fair fight?
Mano-a-mano! One on one! And in a social battle, when it's you alone versus two
three four people the number of people that you're conversing your argument
you're debating with goes up it gets exponentially harder for you to win that
argument why because they team up on you because anything they say or a person on
their team says they support and act like it's really good and funny and
strong anything you say you're the clown you can have the best point in the world
and they're gonna laugh and make you look bad because they have the numbers
so ben shapiro is at i think it's a black lives matter rally where it's him
versus three other people that are kind of on the same side so he's clearly
outnumbered and in this video i'm gonna break down some strategy he uses to come
out on top when the numbers are the numbers and the odds are completely
against him now if we haven't met my name's Barron Cruz I run the charisma
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into this breakdown and watch what he does when he makes a comment and
everyone kind of laughs at him together and he
feels that social pressure what would you do when everyone kind of teams up on
you you say so I was like ah oh you bum what are you talking about well I know
what most people do they kind of shrivel up and they kind of
don't know how to respond and they get meek and small and their vocal tonality
goes down but let's watch and see what Ben does and see what we can learn from
given this disparity how can you argue that racism is not a driving factor in
income inequality because it has nothing to do with race and everything to do
with culture and when you have a culture that doesn't anyone and when you know
what explain to me you explain to me why black kids aren't graduating high school
explain that one to me explain to me why black kids are shooting each other in
rates significantly higher than whites are shooting each other explain me why
13% of the population is responsible for 50% of the murder explain to me why they
why the number of blacks and black kids in prison not for innocent reasons not
for walking down the street getting pulled into a prison is so high explain
if it has nothing to do with culture explain to me why the single motherhood
rate in the black community jumped from 20 percent to 70 percent in the same
course of time that the civil rights movement has made such tremendous
strides is America more racist now than it was in 1960 and if it is please
explain to me how that happen all right let's go back here and see what he
actually did because I think he did something here that may seem like it's
not of high importance that actually carried the reason that this happened is
not a driving factor in income inequality because it has nothing to do
with race and everything to do with culture and when you have a car look at
the response look at the arm go on dude look at the dude dude alive you can't
believe it I mean he's chuckling the gal to his right is the only one that keeps
a bit of composure but look at these guys and listen to the crowd and when
you have a culture that doesn't anyone and okay so he pauses there and he tries
to get a grasp for what's going on and he realizes that everybody's laugh at
and look at the body language of these guys they're completely clowning on him
he knows he has to do something to reestablish the frame you know what
explained to me you explain to me why black kids aren't graduating heights
okay listen to the change of tone from when
he said those things do you tell me anyone and when you know what explained
to me you explain to me why black kids aren't graduating high school
explain that one but now they start to slow down she's still kind of laughs
significantly higher then whites are shooting each other still loose got a
smile and she's smile and honest well for 50 percent of the murder explain to
me why they why the number of blacks and black kids in prison not for innocent
look at their body language they're still kind of loose but now they're not
quite laughs and quite as jovial walking down the street getting pulled into a
prison is so high explained if it has nothing to do with culture explain to me
why the single motherhood rate in the black community jumped from 20% to 70%
in the same course of time that the civil rights movement has made such
tremendous strides okay look at him now is there any laughing no he's completely
re-established a frame and how has he done that okay well he's done two things
he's riddled off facts that fly in the face of the argument that the whoever
was asking that question are stating that fact made but he does them in
rapid-fire but most importantly listen to his tone of voice you know what
explained to me you explain to me why black kids aren't graduating high school
explain that one to me immediately corrects his tonality so a lot of people
when they're reeling like we talked about being this video a lot of people
kind of curl up our natural tendency when we have a crowd against us is to
get in that fetal position metaphorically
so our voice is gonna come in it's not gonna be as strong our body language may
be strong or eye contact and our sub communication we started look at his eye
contact he's staring these people down so he realized he needed to make a
complete switch to reestablish the frame and to re-establish himself as an
authority so he riddles off facts right fact after fact so I play that Eminem
clip at the beginning he sounds like a rapper but most importantly and I would
argue even if he had stated facts that really weren't even directly correlated
to this just somewhat correlated if he would have had his sub communication the
way that he has with this and his vocal tonality it would have had nearly the
same response he's America more racist now than
in 1960 and if it is please explain to me how that happened
okay now they realized they're out class I think this I don't know if this is the
first interaction that they had but these guys have nothing to say and
actually in the video it cuts straight to something else but does it look like
anyone's jumping to respond to him here please explain to me how that happened
okay so very important to understand what he did is he checked all of his
communication the natural tendency of people to get weak he got very
deliberately strong and he was also armed with a lot of facts which is very
helpful you know when people have an argument for you to come back with one
FAC well then how would you explain you know higher violent crime from blacks he
said or gun violence from blacks right that's one thing but how does that
change compared to him just riddling off fact after fact after fact after fact
there's no way they can come back to that and they kind of realized at this
point they were outclassed okay in this next example this was great this is
actually the one that I put Eminem rapping after it a lot of his responses
are rapid-fire like a rapper but in this one she makes a statement the gal here
on the left and here's how he comes back to it this is basically this is not as
exaggerated as the thing where the whole group is against them this is just an
example of where somebody has a point that you don't agree with and you have
you know once again other data to confront that with let's see how he does
it so my thirty second answer is I feel the frustration of what's happening in
the community and I think it's a symptom the uprisings are a symptom of a
pressure that's been unaddressed for too long and I'm offended by the language of
uprising applied to people who are breaking into other black people's
stores and looting them this is not this is a lack of values and people who
people who are destroying private property destroying cop cars in an
uprising against what exactly against the black police chief against a mostly
minority police force against the black mayor against the black presidents
against the black Attorney General against the entirely against a City
Council that is 9 and 15 our black and all 15 are elected Democrats what is the
uprising against what is it seeking to achieve okay
so in this one I want to point out and this is
a more advanced thing I mean you can basically see he does the same thing he
has a ton of facts he's peppering her the reasons why what
she says isn't true but I want to talk about his delivery because he is so
planned out and so deliberate with his rhythm
it gives him more authority so listen when he starts out he starts slow and
says I'm offended by the way that you equate this to this how about this how
about this how about this how about this how about this listen to how he chops
that up it just makes you seem like you have your stuff together it's kind of
like someone when they hand in a test like let's say it's an essay test and
someone hands their paper to the teacher and it's just garbage chicken scratch
right it just looks like somebody wrote it with a fist around the pencil
scribble and back and forth versus someone who hand this is back when
people used to write answers with pen and paper but versus someone who is very
beautiful manuscript it just looks more composed and when he speaks he clearly
has a rapid-firing brain but when he puts it in an eloquent way it just
sounds better our subconscious is wow this guy knows what he's talking about
community and I think it's a symptom the uprisings are a symptom of all right
note the rhythm that's for too long and I'm offended by the language of uprising
applied to people who are breaking into other black people's stores and looting
them this is not this is a lack of values and people who people who are
destroying private property destroying cop cars in an uprising against what
exactly against the black police chief against a mostly minority police force
against the black mayor against the black president against the black
Attorney General or in this last example I want you to compare in your mind the
difference between Ben Shapiro and this guy with his hand on his head right now
okay I'm guessing these guys who came in to debate him had no idea what they were
up against they probably just said it's gonna be a panel in an open forum and
you know ben shapiro went to like harvard law clearly he's very
intelligent clear he's well-spoken and and knows the facts probably ought more
than these people cuz he lives and breathes and stuff but this guy listened
to the tactic that he takes and more importantly listen to his sub
communication just listen to his tonality watch his
body language and see how much less effective he is in his convincing or
maybe you'll feel differently but watch it and let me know who's more convincing
even if you were to back out the statistics and the evidence just in the
pure presentation how does this strike you just because there's inequality does
not mean there was inequity okay so he now Ben Shapiro I don't want to get too
much into the arguments but Ben Shapiro basically said there needs to be
evidence to prove something and this instance he's referring to racism and
this guy's reeling so much and doesn't have any facts that he says I don't know
what you're even talking about dogs I'm talking about humans
I don't I don't think that even him looking at this now would say that makes
any sense but he's reeling but note his delivery as well his delivery is also
communicating I don't make sense I'm not competent in this is that a way to
convince people I don't know I don't know I don't know versus boo-boom
boo-boom boo-boom boo-boom fact after fact after fact confident delivery
rhythm he comes from planet Earth okay so ben shapiro is arguing with all
of these different facts right he has all this fact to back him up and the guy
who's asking the question is setting the tone of this debate with facts this guy
feels like he needs to say something she probably hasn't said anything the whole
time but he's so scampering and so reeling
that all he knows how to do it's kind of like the old third grade recess trick
what planet do you live on planet earth what is this but he's not using that in
the right context that can be effective but first he needs to point something
out that's wrong that shapiro said and then you can be like listen i live on
planet earth clearly you with your facts have no idea what you're talking about
but he doesn't even set that up at all he's just reaching he's grabbing at
straws ask you questions so your default your
default is that when there is no evidence racism is the deciding factor
no no no it's not saying it I'm just saying that that you're gonna have
sexist you're gonna have racist you're gonna have all this stuff I'm just say
that I agreed it's just but the problem that I'm seeing it in and you see how
easily Shapiro talks over him do you watch the UFC we're seeing the
UFC fight so at the end of these fights like what if a fight goes to the ground
in the first round and the guy is in good standing and has a lot of energy
it's really hard to choke him out to submit him right you cut off this air
supply and he kind of passes out in the fights over but as a fighter gets more
tired and beaten it's much easier to do that and a lot of the reason is because
the will is gone okay I want to equate that to this this guy he almost walked
like at the end of those fights some of these guys want to be choked out cuz
they're tired of getting absolutely beat up right they've got no fight left in
him this guy wants to be talked over he doesn't even try look how easy it is for
Ben to talk over him because he knows he's got nothing he was looking for that
there's no solution and simply saying there's racism out there no here's where
you can participate people look at things differently especially when it
comes to people with political stances as Shapiro does what do you think about
the debate what do you think about the techniques he used versus the other
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