Reason for fight?
Reason was I gave in too much
Ever had a fight?
Stop smoking
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Yes and No, what are the reasons for their querrels?
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I don't fight
Not once
No fight?
Didn't
Didn't make her mad?
No
And now?
No GF
Basically I didn't state my opinion
Everything OK
-You adjusted everything to her? -Yes
Have you ever been scolded by her?
Oh so many times
-Why? -She asked me why I don't state my own opinion
I don't have any
With that!
I told her I don't have any
Then she'll say "You're not interested in me" and we break up
That became the reason?
Yes
You were trying to adjust to her
Yeah, I thought adjusting to her was good, but it wasn't.
There was no solution?
There was no solution at all
It ended before even getting into a fight
Have you had a fight?
Yes, I have. I got blamed for replying late
and got in fight.
Which side?
It was mainly my side.I was too late on replies
How late?
When I can't, I couldn't reply for a day or
times when I didn't reply for half a day was often
-And got scolded? -Yes
There were times I was so busy that I couldn't reply and
she knew about it but
still I got scolded for being late and got into fights
Late reply
For you, do you have an ideal timeline for replies?
For me, reply for once a day is enough
When you can, giving reply is ok but
getting contacts at least once a day is enough
How did you resolve the fight?
All I can do was apologize about it
I couldn't fight back
Get it fixed?
Umm..yes, I did get into many fights though
but kept on getting back
Are you going out now?
No No
Have you ever went out?
Yes Yes
The image abroad may be that Japanese are kind and don't get into fights
No no no, still they get into fights
Reason and solution is what I'm asking everyone
I used to get mad often
Really?
Why?
I probably am short tempered
When we were suppose to meet and she comes late
and we got in a huge fight once
How late?
Not so much
It was about 15minutes
I probably had a bad temper then
and we ended up in a fight
What was the solution?
I apoligized
Why was I angry?
I probably was mad at something simple
I was always the one to apologize
The solution is, since I was wrong
I was just frustrated and took it on someone
So I apologized
and resolved it
How long did it take until you refreshed your feelings?
Well, I don't get angry that long so
I get angry, same something and realize
"Oh, I'm sorry"
That was quite often
"The I'm sorry" voice was very kind
Can I hear it again?
Once more?
Sorry
Oh this is so nice
If you apologize, I will forgive
Reason for fight?
Reason is I adjusted too much
from my side
There are many times like that
And you got in a fight?
She found out that I was going along with her
and said to me that she knows I was doing and doing it too much
There were some fights with that
How do you stop that adjusting?
Try to be careful not to be too caring
More like that
So complicating
That is my character so,
it went into that direction
I would try to be caring. Caring every time
I heard people care too much about the GF
Why is that?
I think that has something to do with men's pride
When we go out, we want to escort them
So there is a mentality of trying to look good
When you're with her, you try to take care of her
How about you?
It's probably because you like her. She was so cute you want to adjust yourself to her
Simply that
You try to prioritize her?
That is right
Hopefully she'll like you back
Um...yes
So you don't ask for much?
Yes, I try to hold it down
I try to care that, too
but I was told that wasn't good
I don't think I would fight much
Oh you don't?
Not much
Ever made a girl angry?
Oh yes I have
The reason?
When I was playing with her and continued saying I am sleepy, she got mad
Solution?
I could only apologize
Why sleepy?
Just tired
and was sleepy so I said I was sleepy
Were you working the day before?
Probably
Basically I'm always sleepy
Ever have a fight?
She told me to quit smoking
What then?
I told her I would lessen the number
but remained the same
Could not....
quit...
Noooo
No solution?
Didn't resolve
Well that is...
Can't quit once you start it
Once you're hooked, you can't quit easily
Fight? I simply don't do any
Been scolded?
I don't think that either
Is he telling the truth?
Oh yes true, since he's stupid
Doesn't realize it
Doesn't know the women's intention
Are you going out with someone? -Yes
Not me
Have you been in a fight with your GF?
Yes
I do
Reason?
Return of text message
You didn't return the text or her?
Her text didn't come
but cannot ask her why she doesn't reply the text
so I was feeling uneasy
so I would return the reply late as well
Such an immature act
Who is slower at returning?
Before I thought she was slower in returning
How long will she not return the text?
A day or so
Quite a while!
How did you solve the problem?
I would talk about it when we meet
I said it's sad when you return the text
Did she understand?
Each person has their own pace of returning or the time they watch their phone or being busy
so she will return fast as possible
Did it make a difference?
Well, somehow
That's nice
Have you had a fight while going out with someone?
Fight, yes
The reason?
Returning text?
Yes
How long did you have to wait?
I don't remember...
It was long text but I didn't answer so much
It was like, OK?
It wasn't much
What did you do?
Back then....I think I said something
Was it satisfying?
You mean, her?
I think so, yes
Does that mean even men want to have text returned and have attention?
Better than late
If you are free, you can return the text quite frequently
but if you have one day of nothing, you get preoccupied
so hopefully get a return when you're open
Maybe lunch and dinner time?
That may be good
How long have you gone out?
Just around 3months or so
So no fights yet?
We both aren't people who get angry so
there is nothing
So peaceful
So, what will make you mad? Coming late?
When you go out in Japan
is there a rule you should keep?
She is a student and I am working
There will be some gap in the hours
so you should cherish the limited time you can meet
There isn't anything special you do when you meet but
When you go to a restaurant and you see couples touching their smartphones all the time
I really don't like that and
when we meet, we want to concentrate on talking
We want to cherish the time
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