hey what's going on my friends and welcome to my youtube channel my name is victor and today
i'm going to talk about your spiritual awakening process and how it's impacting your friendships
you might find that you're starting to outgrow a lot of your friends spiritually vibrationally
your values are changing dramatically and even though there might be this uh time
investment and even though you might have a strong sense of loyalty and devotion to this friendship
you can't help but notice the dissonance the this the growing disharmony
and the fact that even though what you had was perfect in its time you are changing
you are moving on and the friendship is starting to weaken a lot of us are outgrow
friends because we start to grow spiritually so quickly i know a lot of you right now are hanging
on to a friendship that you know is not right for you because it makes you feel sad to move on
and what i've learned is that just because there's grief
doesn't mean it's not the right decision right now i'm in my home in las vegas and we're gonna
be leaving for the last time we're gonna we're moving in like two days and the other day i was
driving out of las vegas and i was looking at the mountains and i felt a tremendous amount
of sadness i could have cried i felt so sad as i reflected upon the the beautiful chapter now that
this chapter is ending i could i look back and saw all the good all the good all the fond memories
nonetheless it is time for me to move on and i'm not going to let that grief stop me i'm
going to allow it to pass through me and run its course and in the past i would let grief
determine i associated grief with this doesn't feel right because grief is such an uncomfortable
feeling but what i've learned is that it's very fleeting and if we can allow ourselves to grieve
the loss or the the old friendships fading away we can start to sense into the new with every
door closing as you know there's a new one opening but a lot of time we get
stuck in the grief stuck in the resistance stuck clinging on to what we know no longer serves us
and we don't breathe and allow that situation and energy to kind of move through us so that the new
can come in sometimes on occasion there might be something else
keeping you kind of bound to a friendship and maybe it's a friendship you want
to lead you're ready to move on you you've done great you're done grieving
you're like why can't i get out of this why does this person keep on looping back into my reality
if that's the case then there's a lesson you need to learn you've yet to learn there's something you
need to do and it could be a variety of things it reminds me of my friend priyanka we are
i ran a retreat recently in sedona and she's one of my people one of the friends of mine that helps
me run them and she's going through all this in fact that's what inspired this entire video
and she was saying exactly what i said no point of reiterating the exact same situation priyanka
was going through with a friend she had for many many many many years it had long fallen away but
priyanka could not stop but continue to think about this person and kind of fester at times
um and she realized just letting it go wasn't enough there was something else there keeping
her like energetically bound to this relationship even though there was actual distance like like an
actual distance between the two and time there was the enter the cord connection if you will
as people say and priyanka said you know what for the longest time i allowed this person to kind of
you know treat me in ways that i was not treating them there was there's an imbalance there and she
was debating this whole retreat she was going back and forth wondering should i say something should
i express my truth and basically tell this person what i've been feeling and she was like well it
could be messy it could have this reaction but she concluded that i've tried everything
else i've tried forgiveness i've tried writing letters and burning him and letting him go into
the ethers and sending prayers off and there's something there and i think i need to speak up
and that was priyanka's lesson in these situations what's the lesson keeping you bound
you have to ask yourself maybe you're being too passive maybe you need to speak up maybe you
need to see your part in the equation and forgive yourself who knows i don't know i'm not here to
say that but i'm saying if you've if if someone keeps circling around and it's just creating
stress there's something you're doing something unresolved within yourself not them within you
that needs to be resolved and if you can just take the focus off of them for a moment and look within
i bet you'll find it quite easily now another thing that deters people from doing this
same thing for me is you wonder it's like okay i'm out growing these friends but jeez
i'm not going to have anybody i don't want to be alone that sucks even more arguably
the void that's what happens a lot of the times when we let go of something whether it's a friend
or a job or anything as a lot of you spiritual folks know you let go of something something new
comes in however we're living on earth and things take time and sometimes there's this void of
nothing for me the void lasted longer than i would have preferred i will say i let go of all my high
school buddies for the most part i stopped seeing them and thank god i had my wife and my children
but for years we went through life where i felt alone i needed my boys i needed i needed friends
it's great to have a wife but that's different it's beautiful and a blessing to have children
but that's different i needed my friends and i was like man i honestly i went so long without
friends that i just started to like create these this narrative that i'm not meant to
have friends i'm a spiritual guy i meant to be a light worker outcast yada yada and then i had sort
of come to some sort of like half-assed piece in my head about i'm just not going to have friends
the void the loneliness it's no fun it's lonely it's like no one likes the void because it's
lonely we're social creatures we don't like to feel lonely there's an unnaturalness to it
and one time one day during this time i had this uh past life regret this qhd past life regression
and in one of the lives i found myself like on a boat writing a book and you know the practitioner
kept asking me questions and the whole the whole life was very alone i had nobody the whole life
and i i was like speaking to her i was like i said this is okay this is i'm good i'm good
being alone and eventually we came out of the session and she's like victor it's still good to
have friends you know it's still good to be social you know so my point is it's it's it's not natural
that we are alone our whole life we will feel like something's missing in our life and even if you've
already let go of your friends and you're finding yourself feeling alone right now my message to you
is that there's a lot to be learned in that alone time sometimes we need to clear off our schedule
and detach to an extent where we can go within ourselves and find out who we actually are who
am i what what kind of friends and relationships do i want what do i like what's my passion what's
my purpose and as we go through this like what i call the hermit phase is self-discovery phase and
and come to greater awareness of who we actually are as a soul as a person as a character as a
as a vibration then we start to go through life with that vibration that vibration which is more
or less influenced by our past by our conditioning more of our true frequency is now being spun out
into life into the cosmos and at that point you can you can just feel it new people start
to come in faster than you can imagine like a freaking wave like a gust of wind
friends soulmate relationships new acquaintances new opportunities business partners the person
who cut your hair you'll resonate with everything and it's like oh my god your life starts to become
filled with people that you just love to be in your reality people you resonate with truly people
that exhibit the qualities you've been looking for but thought were not around you gotta let go
you gotta go through the inner work you gotta let yourself be alone a little bit you gotta find out
who it is you are and if you do this which you will because that's where life is taking you
right now and mark my words there will come a day when you will be your life will be filled with
badass people awesome people and it doesn't matter all the cool spiritual awakening uh benefits you
achieve along the way it's the people it's the people that will make your life rich
it's the people that will make your life abundant it's the people that will allow you to experience
those higher octaves of love and joy so don't quit before the miracle happens continue down your path
doing the next obvious thing you intuitively know to do and i promise you you will you'll remember
vic said this would happen and it will happen it will happen for each and every one of you i
promise you don't lose faith okay my friends if you find yourself in that void space we've already
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