Josiah: Do you ever want to just go out and meet some beautiful ladies but instead you
decide to be lazy? Maybe even chill out, catch a couple videos on ****hub.
Learning how to meet women takes practice and discipline. but sometimes
lack of motivation and other priorities just get in the way so, when times get
tough, how do you motivate yourself to get the reps in? "Just do it!" I'm Josiah
Prise from The Attractive Man and I'm gonna give you four motivational tools to help you
meet more women! My name is Josiah. Narrator: Josiah is a master at day game. Matt: we've
done all the testing. We know what works. Josiah: Alright, tip number one. And you guys
should have seen this coming; no fap. You know what I mean. No masturbation.
Although studies have actually shown masturbation has little to no effect on
your sex drive, it does affect your motivation to go out meet new women.
Think about it! If you go to visit your old friend "Hand Solo" and you get all the
chemical rush you need without ever leaving your man cave, then why go out at
all? Mentally, there becomes less of a reason for you to go out and hunt, but
it's the hunt that makes you strong! In fact, the failures that you face make
those sweet taste of success all the better! Every time you make a choice
you're building a habit so why not choose to go out and master something
that's gonna affect the other aspects of your life and something you could hold
on to forever? So instead of taking the road of instant gratification make a
rule for yourself - there'll be no release for you and so you go out and find a new
girl. Tip number 2: find yourself an accountability partner. So when I started
my journey to deal with my social anxiety and get better with women, I had
three guys around me, they're all in it for the exact same thing. We accomplished
going out every night for 90 nights in a row in Las Vegas. And on top of that we were
doing day game sessions on the weekend. And to be honest if it wasn't for them I
probably would have fallen off the wagon in the first month. See, we may have had
our moments of disbelief or frustration, but with four of us, those things never
happened at the same time, so there's always someone to back us up. And when it
came time to go out no man was ever left behind! Which leads me right into tip
number three: just take the first step. I remember a few times in that 90 day
marathon where I just didn't want to go out. I'd whine and complain to my
roommate about how I didn't want to go out or how tired I was but he was a pretty
crafty one! Matt: Come on man let's go out for like thirty minutes, we'll be back by
midnight. It'll be fun, let's go. And of course with it being a low investment to
me, I would always end up going out. But it never ended with "just midnight" because
once I got rolling out and started having fun, I just lost track of time. So
if you're having issues talking to women just start showing up in the places
where women are available to socialize. For working out,
they say showing up the gym is half the battle? Well the same is true when meeting
women. Alright guys tip number four: create a
reward system for your efforts, not your results. Look, maybe you're like me and
you love video games but look, we all know the likelihood of you finding a hot
girlfriend with some video game skills is little to none. But like cake, if you
indulge too much, you're gonna get fat. If you don't take some time to burn off the
calories. It doesn't mean that you can't have it but you need to use it as a
reward. So say for every night that you go out and approach at least five women,
you can get one hour of video games. So if video games aren't your thing just
substitute that for something that is, maybe get yourself a nice massage or
have a fancy spa day. The key to this tip is to reward yourself with effort. Think of
it as kind of one of those new age kids participation trophies, and it's like a
consolation prize for at least doing something. By the way, if you aren't
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Because we got more videos coming out every week. Now you're motivated to go
out, we got a special tip from Matt Artisan himself! Matt: Listen man, when you see
that beautiful woman that you want to approach, there's gonna be some
nervousness and sometimes fear that builds up, especially when she's really
beautiful and you have a choice; you can either let fear win or you can let
courage win. You can step into courage and go approach her. When you do that
it's like building a muscle. Proverbial courage muscle, you're becoming more
courageous every single time you approach, you're becoming more confident
every single time you approach and therefore more attractive. On the flip
side, when you decide not to approach, you let fear win. You actually become more
fearful and women are not attracted to men who let fear run their lives. So it's
up to you, you have that choice. Approach that beautiful woman even if it goes
horribly wrong, you're still becoming more courageous and more attractive... when
you don't, you're becoming more fearful and less attractive. Josiah: So if you're still
struggling to find a reason to go out, we got one last tip for you right now: "Don't
let your dreams be dreams! Yesterday, you said tomorrow. If
you're tired of starting over, stop giving up!" *Awkward pose* Josiah: Now that you're meeting women
live in person we want to help you take it to the next level! That's why we
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make her want you. You'll get our top conversation starters for any situation,
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