Casey: Flirting tips via text.
Got a question from a subscriber and they say, "Casey, what are your top five biggest
tips to flirt via text message?"
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points that it's actually going to take to make sure that interest is maintained and
how you can flirt and make sure that she responds and make sure that you never get left on read.
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Casey: Number one, the top flirting tip when it comes to males and texting, flirting tips
through texting is do not over pursue, okay?
You are using the phone as a bridge to get her on the date.
You're not trying to always see how her day is going.
You're not trying to see how her weekend is.
You're not trying to see what's up, because let's be real.
You probably don't give a shit anyways.
Let's man to man, you probably really don't care.
You're trying to meet up with her and you think she's hot.
So let's just be real for a second, you don't care how her day's going.
You're just saying it to hopefully raise attraction.
It's not working though.
So A, do not over pursue.
Be upfront and honest with what you're trying to do.
If you're trying to get her out on a date, tell her you're trying to get it out on a
date.
See if she's fun, okay?
Keep it flirty.
Keep it fun.
Casey: All of the males that over pursue is just coming from a society right now where
everyone's relying on social media.
I'm 23, everybody's means of dating right now, even people up to in their forties, it's
like no one knows how to talk anymore, right?
It's just all fingertips.
Fingertips, fingertips, Tinder, Bumble, Snapchat.
Don't over pursue.
If you're constantly getting left on read, if you're constantly always being the one
who is left in the dust, what you have to do is you have to pull back, right?
One text a day in the beginning.
Until you've met up in person, raise her attraction or maybe slept with her, she gets one text
a day, right?
Maybe two if it's spaced out enough and she has some high interest, but number one do
not over pursue.
That's tip number one.
Casey: The second tip that I'm going to give you, this is the second most important, okay?
The second most important is to keep it fun and keep it flirty.
And remember, you're not trying to necessarily get to know her through the phone.
That's the whole point of the date, you guys.
The whole point of the date is for you to meet up with her in person.
The whole point of the date is to get to know her then.
If you're wondering about her vacations and where the fuck she works and what she's doing
in her free time, that's the time then to take advantage of that.
But you're not doing it on the phone because you're going to run out of things to talk
about.
And the thing is, is as a man, you shouldn't have time to text her like that all day.
Women want men in demand.
Casey: Women want men who are on their purpose and are high value.
So if you're constantly having time to text throughout other day, it looks like you're
not doing shit with your life.
So when you do text her, keep it flirty, right?
Keep it fun.
It should be flirty stuff.
It should not be get to know you type stuff.
It should be, you trying to raise her interest to flirt with her, right?
Because you want to seem like a guy who can seduce.
You want to seem like a guy who she's going to consider as a sexual option, not just a
friend zone.
And for most guys, what happens is they're not willing to offend, right?
They're so used to being Mr. nice guy.
They just will text, how was your day and what are you up to and all that surface level
stuff.
Casey: Which brings me to my third point, the third most important thing that you have
to do is be willing to offend, right?
And that helps with flirting because every time you flirt with a girl, every time you
put your sexuality out there of thinking she's an option for you, and you're an option for
her, you're taking a risk, ultimately.
It's a risk that this girl may or may not like you.
If she likes you, great, that's amazing, but there's a chance it could backfire, right?
Casey: There's a chance it came on too strong.
There's a chance that it didn't resonate with her.
There's a chance that she maybe thought you were creepy, but that doesn't fucking matter.
Because the fact that you are willing to risk and willing to offend in the first place,
the fact that you are willing to say something flirty, shows that you're probably a dude
that doesn't give a fuck.
And that you're a dude that doesn't get ran by the girls, but he just like does his own
thing and he picks and chooses what he wants to say, right?
So you're willing to offend.
You're willing to say kind of the high risk flirty thing.
Casey: Fourth most important tip is, dude, just ask.
If you've ever seen the scene in fight club, there's a scene when Tyler Durden says to
the other character, he goes, "Dude, just ask."
He goes, "I know you need a place to stay tonight.
I can tell that you need a place to stay.
I can tell you want to ask, but you just are too scared to."
He goes, "Dude, just ask."
Video: Hotel.
Video: Yeah.
Video: Just ask man.
Casey: And the guy tries to play it off, what do you mean?
What do you mean?
He goes, "Dude, just ask."
Okay, I'm going to translate that into girls.
The fourth biggest texting tip is you just got to learn how to ask for the date, right?
You're got to to eventually just ask for the date.
You got to ask to see her in person.
Now, don't make it too soon and don't make yourself too available, but there comes to
a point when it's like, you have to move the messages to meeting up in person because that's
when the real magic can actually happen.
If she does like you, if she is considering you as an option, it's only going to come
in person.
There's no way a girl's going to make up her decision about you if she views you as XYZ
material, unless she's meeting you.
And unless she's getting physical with you or sleeping with you or something like that,
she probably has another guy she's already doing that with, so you trying to get to know
her through the phone is virtually impossible and just a very, very, very big waste of time.
Casey: Tip number five, use texting as a means of escalation to a phone call or a FaceTime.
Now, you have to think of this from a girl's perspective, right?
Between social media, between her Tinder DM box flooded with a bunch of thirsty guys,
women have the upper hand in dating.
And what you have to remember is that since she has the upper hand and there's a very
high chance she has more options than you, you have to stand out from the crowd.
You have to get more of her buy-in investment.
So while most guys will only text message and try to get a date that way, what I like
to do is I like to use the text and use the flirty gestures in the text to set up a phone
call, or even better yet, if she's not too shy, you could get her to FaceTime.
And that's when you get to show a quick, five, 10 minute glimpse of your personality to her
face, right?
Casey: Because if you're doing that on camera to her, well now she's more comfortable to
go out on a date with you.
She knows how your smile looks, she knows how your voice tonality is.
She knows what type of gestures you make.
She starts to understand how you are as a guy, because you got to realize with women
there's a fine line between aggression and dominance that they want, with comfort.
And if you can learn to meet that so you're that comfortable guy.
that they're willing to invest with or give themselves to you, that's when you're going
to hit the sweet spot and have a lot of success with women.
Casey: So those are my top five texting tips.
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