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so if you put a pair of earphones on at
night with a program of what you would
like to be true in your life that
program is playing it's not playing into
your conscious mind that's shut off it's
now going straight into the subconscious
mind you will be successful because 95%
of day your program automatically will
be seeking your wishes talk to me about
your book the honeymoon effect
yeah what that was all about playing it
okay the honeymoon effect is this this
is the whole story of the matrix matrix
you've been programmed are we going to
take a red pill and get out of the
program okay falling in love is the
equivalent of taking the red pill
biologically scientists have studied
what is called mind wandering I said
what is mind wandering I said well your
conscious mind could be focused on the
task or your conscious mind could go off
into it you know think about things okay
and the relevance about that is when the
conscious mind is staying in the front
you're an absolute control wishes
desires what you want conscious mind
creative you're in control but the
moment your conscious mind takes off
into a thought or starts thinking or
whatever going on it lets go the wheel
the autopilot takes over okay so the
idea is this if your mind is wandering
then you're being run by the
subconscious and it turns out this is
very negative when your mind is
straightforward in consciousness you're
you're controlling the vehicle so I say
falling in love has been demonstrated
biologically to be equivalent to the red
pill because what it does is it keeps
you what do they call mindful keeps you
conscious look you've been looking for
this partner your whole life there are
now in front of your face this is not
the time to go thinking about things
it's time to be look what I got right
here in front of me and I say well think
about it this way your life could suck
every day every day every day every day
and then you meet this person and 24
hours later it's heaven on earth 24
hours they're all like I'm so in love
no even the jobs not so bad anymore in
the food tastes great the music is so
much better and love it oh my god what
the heck happened you had all of this
negative negative and then in 24 hours
you have this heaven on earth and the
answer was it was taking the red pill
that's what falling in love is at that
moment you stop playing the program now
you're operating from conscious mind
which is creative which by definition is
wishes and desires Brian well what the
heck do you want from your life if you
answer that question it's a creative
answer and by definition its conscious
so your wishes and desires are in your
conscious mind and a normal person's
life 5% of the day you're moving toward
that 95 percent you're playing the
program you fall in love 100 it's
actually 90% I think it's the number 90%
from conscious mind 90% of the day you
are now operating from creative wishes
and desires like oh look I said your
life sucked all the way up and then 24
hours of operating on wishes and desires
and not playing the program turned earth
into heaven for you at that moment and
then you go well how come the honeymoon
doesn't last I go because inevitably you
still have to think about things your
job your chores your requirements what
you have to do at some point once you
start thinking then the conscious mind
is shut off and guess what shows up all
those behaviors in the subconscious mind
that were negative 70% and your partner
remember your partner and you fall in
love same time both of you operating
from conscious mind with wishes and
desires and all of a sudden you start
thinking and then this behavior shows up
that was your mother your father
whatever thing you learned and your
partner's like where the hell did that
come from who are you is a response is
like where ya come from I you know we've
been in his honeymoon I've never seen
that behavior if you were to play that
behavior in the first date maybe we
wouldn't have a second date but now it
shows up and I say why did it show up
because I stopped being mindful
so how do you teach people to keep the
honeymoon alive is to change the the
subconscious program and and it's simple
for recent reasoning is simple conscious
mind wishes and desires subconscious
mind program well what if you took the
wishes and desires and made those
programs then guess what you don't even
have to think about it you will
automatically 95% of the day be playing
behaviors to manifest those wishes and
desires so reprogramming the
subconscious with wishes and desires
means you didn't have to think about it
you will be successful because 95% of
the day your program automatically will
be seeking your wishes every night when
you go to bed just when you're just
falling off into sleep consciousness is
disconnecting the next period of your
brain operation while your consciousness
is disconnected is theta which is the
same brain function as in the first
seven years so if you put a pair of
earphones on at night with a program of
what you would like to be true in your
life as soon as your conscious mind
disconnects that program is playing it's
not playing into your conscious mind
that's shut off it's now going straight
into the subconscious mind so it's
called Auto hypnosis you don't need to
go see a hypnotherapist you you just
have to pick out what program would you
like to have that you don't have and
they sell these programs
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