Uncle C, back in the office and in today's video, I'm going to be describing three core
habits that all guys need in order to maximize confidence and destroy all anxiety.
Now, fair warning, if you stick with me until the end of this video,
I'm going to make one massive promise to you, okay?
The promises that you're going to have more clarity as to how to live your life, you're
going to learn how to get more success within your life.
And not to mention, I'm going to be showing you the key critical areas that will actually
move the needle forward.
To maximize success in any area that you see fit that you're wanting success in.
This is going to include your purpose, this is going to include making more money, this
is going to include building the type of wealth that you have always wanted to achieve and
becoming a higher status, higher value individual.
So with that said, let's dive in the very first thing that all guys are going to need
in order to maximize their success is a willingness to actually want it.
Okay.
I want you to let this sink in for a second if you're a quitter.
Okay, there is nobody on planet earth that will ever help your situation.
Okay, I have met, I've met past friends, okay, I've met people over the years, I've seen
guys on the internet.
Okay, I have noticed a common trend.
If you have a quitters mindset, a quitters mentality, you will give up ASAP.
And the reason why you will give up is because you do not have a willingness to succeed.
So if I look, I'll actually word this word for word, I put a willingness to want it mindset.
The fact is, most guys don't actually want the results that they claim that they want.
Because if they did, their time, their energy, their attention, as well as their focus would
be going there, but it isn't.
So give you some examples, you're going to consistently see guys who maybe are talented
at one thing, and they tell all their friends Oh, yeah, man, you know, next next month,
I'm going to start that business.
Next month, I'm going to finally release that that new song that I've been talking about
next month, I'm going to finally do this and they never do anything.
You hear guys say, you know, next month, I'm going to get in the gym, I'm going to finally
get fit, you know, I'm going to get all I'm going to get my body.
Right, right, I'm going to cure my approach anxiety, I'm going to go meet women and I'm
going to go date the type of companions that I want, and they never actually do it, they
know deep down, they don't actually want it.
If you don't want it, you will never win.
And the reason why you'll never win is because you have a quitters mindset, you could equip
yourself with the best people on earth to maximize your success.
You could equip yourself with the best guides, the best trainers, the best coaches, the best
mentors, you could you could do all of that.
And if you don't truly want it deep down for yourself, a, you're not going to stick it
out be you're not going to go the distance that it's going to actually have happened
when it comes to going through the hardships in life, taking the proper risks, and then
see, you're going to quit anyways even if you did have a proper plan.
So with that said, if you do not have the willingness to want it mindset, you're going
to be in for a rude awakening.
That's number one.
Okay, these are in sequential order.
Number two, the second thing that you need to have as a guy as an individual is you need
to have positive mental affirmations that are consistently going through your head.
If you actually want success in an area, you're going to have to tell yourself positive reinforcement.
Instead of dwelling on your past failures, instead of dwelling on maybe your shit life
or where you don't want to be, instead of dwelling on all of the issues that you've
had that make you anxious, that make you self conscious, you have to consistently say things
in your head that move the needle forward to almost brainwash yourself into thinking
you're a you're a badass, that's the only way you have to do that.
If you don't do that you won't win.
So constantly throughout the day, what I'm doing is I'm giving myself reasons I'm giving
myself excuses why I can do something, I will consistently tell myself Yes, I can grow my
business to XYZ dollars per year, I can overcome XYZ anxiety in life, I can get to where I
need to be, I can do this.
That is what is constantly going through my mind.
If that is not going through your mind, you are going to be having negative self talk,
negative self talk, negative self doubt, all of these issues start to creep in to the back
of your head.
And then what you start to really think is you think that you're not worthy, when in
actuality here's what you need to do.
You need to take an outside look at the whole world, every single person and you need to
look at somebody you want to be liked or that you admire.
And what you have to do is you have to ask yourself, number one, are they living number
two?
Are they human?
And number three, have they gotten results in the thing that I want results and if those
three things check the boxes, it is your duty to understand that they are made of flesh
and bones just like you flushing blood just like you they have a beating heart just like
you and if somebody else can do it, that means you can do the key is actually taking that
initiative realizing that having a guiding compass to never give up and having positive
affirmation affirmations that go across your head instead of negative self talk and negative
self felt like every single other guy on planet Earth does to himself, they lose the race
before the gun even goes off.
And I don't want that to be you.
Number three, this is the most powerful.
You should be taking notes on this video if you haven't number three is extremely important.
You need mentors.
Let this sink in, every single place that I've ever gotten to in life was because I
had mentors show me a roadmap, there is one thing in life that is the most valuable.
And it's the most valuable of all other things because you can't buy it.
And it's your time.
Your time is extremely crucial.
Your time is extremely valuable, valuable.
Your time on this earth is limited.
And because it's limited, it's your duty to put that time where it should be going.
Here's how you do this.
You have to have mentors.
When you want when you when you want to achieve a certain goal.
Here's the kicker.
If you don't have mentors, if you don't have coaches, if you don't have a roadmap, if you
don't have somebody in your corner, who has actually been there, done that and had success,
it's going to be extremely hard for you to get it and here's why you're shooting from
the hip, you're going off the cuff, you're doing what's intuitive, and what's natural
to you.
And I can't tell you how many times in business, you know, like in my younger years, my younger
20s I was constantly stuck at 10 20k a month.
And it's like as soon as I finally put mentors in place and people who are ahead of me in
business to actually show me roadmaps showed me places where I need to be showed me blind
spots within my own life that I wasn't even paying attention to.
All of a sudden, it was like the thing took off.
And all of a sudden the needle was moving forward with only half the effort that I was
putting in before.
The key is actually taking a second and humbling yourself and realizing that other people might
know something that you don't.
And if you tell yourself, I'm a constant student, I'm a student for life, you will win every
single interaction I go into, I think that the other person might know a bit about something
that maybe I don't, and maybe I can learn something from them.
And if they have success or more success in a specific area that I don't I every single
time 100% will listen.
With that said I have a client that I recently mentored, he just gave me one of these testimonials.
And when he gave me this a it was completely random b I didn't know it was coming and see,
this is probably one of the most genuine from the heart testimonials I've ever received.
So I'm going to play this end to end, I'm not going to cut anything out, I'm going to
leave it wrong.
I'm going to leave it truthful.
I want you guys to watch this because it is truly remarkable.
Like when guys actually have a template, have a mentor have a process, they succeed.
And you can see the total transformative shift in this guy.
So without talking too much.
Let's just dive in.
Brennan here, the get whisperer, totally different video, from what you're used to stay tuned,
I'm certain there's going to be a lot of value for someone.
So let's dive right in.
Over the last little while.
About a year now I have found myself in a relationship for the first time in a really
long time well over a decade.
I absolutely adore her.
She's fantastic.
love her a lot.
But over the course of us getting more and more involved, I started to develop certain
behaviors, develop insecurities, really some underlying issues that I never really addressed.
And I became quite feminine in nature, like overbearing, wanting to see her all the time
seeking validation seeking intimacy, almost like forcing intimacy, seeking approval, all
of these things.
I didn't feel like I was truly behaving the way that I'm supposed to.
But I just couldn't control it.
It was almost as if I felt that I needed to be more dainty to make her be more attracted
to me like more feeling, but it's completely the opposite.
And trust me, women do not want that women want a strong man.
And this brought me to looking online and searching for lessons and videos and coaches
to teach me because I knew I was doing things wrong.
So I came across this video on YouTube and it's called stop rewarding bad behavior.
And I need to sort of qualify this.
It's not like my girlfriend was being bad or she was misbehaving.
And I was looking to her I was rewarding her bad behavior.
That's not it at all.
What I was doing was I was acting out of my own nature out of my own purpose.
And all of these things were just making the relationship worse and worse.
And meanwhile, she really didn't change.
I was the one that changed.
So I found it and the guy's name is Casey Zander, and I'm gonna put a video right up
here really quick.
It was incredible.
And at one point, he says and he just stops what he's doing.
He looks right at the camera and he says, At what point did you become a pansy ass?
And I was like, holy shit.
It's true.
I'm being a little bitch.
I'm acting like little bitch So, at the end of the video, he you know, I hit a subscribe,
I hit a light.
And then I started consuming his information, his free information, really just learning
about his demeanor, his delivery, I liked him a lot.
I like everything that he represents.
And then so I decided to purchase one of his programs, it's called a masculinity blueprint.
And let me tell you, I've, as you can see the books in my background, I'm a very educated
individual.
I love business, I love learning, I am a lifelong student, I bought many, many courses.
This is hands down the best course I've ever enrolled in, in terms of like, video modules,
everything's broken down, Casey literally breaks every single thing down, I'm gonna
really quick, I'm gonna read some of the modules here.
Not all of them, because some of them might be confused, as like, tactics for manipulation.
But that's not it at all.
What it is, is understanding behaviors, women behaviors, and men behaviors.
And when you really understand this content, you start to really value yourself more and
understand that in order for you to really have a successful relationship, the man must
be living in accordance to His purpose, he really must be doing the things that are fulfilling
for him because a woman wants a man that is driven, a woman does not want a man that is
revolving everything around her, they don't want that.
And I've learned this and I've learned that really a man in his purpose will attract the
women without any effort.
And now I am not looking for multiple women or dating or anything like that I
found my unicorn.
And trust me when I say this, I have a very colorful background.
In fact, I used to be a male exotic dancer for almost 15 years very successful.
I have experienced a ton I digress.
But I just need to say that because women have never really been a problem to me, but
learning about true masculinity and true masculine energy, and feminine energy.
I knew nothing about it, maybe some little things intuitively.
So anyways, Casey, he's 24 years old recording these video modules.
And I have learned a ton.
I'm 39 years old.
And I've learned so much from him.
He is one of my new mentors.
I absolutely adore him, I love him.
He's an incredible individual.
I've never met him before.
I'm not getting paid to make this video.
But I would be doing a disservice if I don't share this information.
So if you are a guy, and you're struggling in a relationship, you're struggling in the
dating marketplace, you're struggling with your wife, you feel as though that you're
retracting in your own manliness and your own manhood, you need to learn these principles
because it's going to get you right back on track.
This, this information literally saved my life.
Because I was going down a path of just just being a little bitch emotional and needy and
like, nothing sexual, nothing sexy about me at all.
And here I am a muscular, good looking guy.
I've got my stuff together, and I'm just being a little bitch.
So Casey just literally kicks my ass in all of these videos.
So here's some of the video modules phase one masculine mind.
Phase two, how to approach a woman.
Phase four, how to first date phase five female games.
Now again, this is not about manipulation.
This is understanding how women are genetically made up and how women truly think, with this
understanding, it's like the veil has been lifted, you're like, Okay, I get women now
I know what they truly want, I know what they don't want.
So then you can behave accordingly to attract the right woman that you're looking for.
Not to please them but to to be sexy, and attractive yourself.
And that really ultimately means is getting your shit together, going to the gym, getting
your nutrition, right, working on your finance, working on your business, working on all the
things that you want to become and working on all the things that a woman truly values
and is attracted to to become that alpha male that you truly want to be and become that
alpha male that we're all destined to be relationships go south masculine charisma, managing a quality
long term relationship.
Identity.
This is huge.
I truly was struggling with my identity.
And by doing these this course, this program, I really learned what my identity is, again,
I refound it.
There's a few more modules, guys.
I am so thrilled I did this course Casey's amazing he is worth every single penny.
If you are struggling, if you're feeling insecure, if you want to learn more about masculine
energy and feminine energy if you want to grow your balls back.
You really need to have faith in Casey Have faith in me.
I'm a man of my word.
And I value him so much.
He's absolutely incredible.
To this day, I wonder how a 24 hour 25 year old guy has learned so much and is so eloquent
with his words.
This honestly guys he's the shit He really is the shit.
And I'm so grateful.
And so that's why I wanted to make this video because if you're struggling, you need to
enroll in one of his programs, I enrolled in the masculine blueprint, hands down.
So happy.
So I'll be now some of the things are a little bit dated in terms of like, if you're an older
guy like me, you may not be doing the social media, dating sort of thing.
But I listened to every single video module and I learned because you got to put your,
you got to put your ego away, leave your ego at the door because you're going to learn
stuff.
And I learned so much and I'm so grateful.
So again, Casey, thank you so much.
You're the man.
I'm gonna put a link below if you want to sign up, you can save 100 bucks.
Again, I'm not getting paid for this.
But I'd be doing a disservice if I don't share this with my community.
So again, masculine blueprint, Casey Zander, you're the man, thank you so much.
You saved me and you saved my relationship.
My girlfriend and I, we took a break for a month and I focused on this.
And I focused on the content and I focused on getting myself back the way that I used
to be and should be.
And the relationship is better than it's ever been.
I'm happy I'm masculine, I'm confidence.
I'm secure.
She's noticed a night and day difference.
So have I I'm so thrilled.
Thank you so much, Casey from the bottom of my heart.
Thank you.
And if you're watching this, go find him on YouTube, subscribe to his channel and just
enroll hit that hit that order button and commit because I guarantee you you're gonna
learn some incredible stuff and you're gonna change your life and you're in change relationship
out