- In this video, I'm gonna show you five reasons
that high vibrational people struggle to find love.
I'm gonna show you the biggest blocks, how to remove them,
and how to make the process so much easier,
so that you finally allow love into your life
in a very powerful way.
Now, the first thing I wanna share with this
when it comes to struggling to find love,
and being what we call the high vibrational person,
which is really just somebody that is very focused
on maybe personal growth focused,
and has the value system
of really valuing their body, their mindset,
and is just maybe gone through a spiritual awakening.
There's common themes that happen
on the journey of attracting love for these kinds of people
that I've noticed in my own life,
that I'm also gonna share with you,
so that you are able to remove those blocks.
And the first one has to do
with one of the most common things that I see
that blocks love,
and that is people that have gone through
a spiritual awakening, or that we consider to be high vibe,
many of them may feel like what are called empaths.
An empath is somebody that can feel other people's energy,
somebody that's considered to be a bit more sensitive,
somebody that a lot of times
knows how other people are thinking and feeling about them.
And what happens is empaths
have a very strong tendency on tuning to other people,
because what's happened is in childhood normally,
there was a feeling of things aren't safe,
and what happened is then in order to feel safe,
what people would do is they would then change themselves
in order to get their parents,
other people in their lives to feel comfortable.
And there was a choice that was made
that it's not safe for me to be me,
or for me to feel safe in my own body.
So now I'm gonna tune to others
to make sure everything's okay.
And the challenge with this is that then later on in life,
they're tuning to the love they want to attract,
they're tuning to the other person.
And at the same time,
they're projecting energy at this person,
and they're trying to change themselves.
They're not in their own center of gravity.
They're not in their own frame.
And then what happens is they kind of feel like
a leaf in the wind.
They feel like they're kind of getting
brushed in many different directions.
They're wondering if people are gonna call them back.
And it's a certain level of codependency that happens.
And that literally repels love,
because what is happening is there's a desire,
there's a neediness where there's an energy
that says I need, I desire your approval, validation,
et cetera, so that I can feel safe.
And what that then ends up with is repelling lots of love.
The game changer for me
was when I went from tuning to everybody else,
having trouble to set boundaries,
feeling like I didn't know who I was,
to then being in my own frame and being vulnerable,
expressing the real me,
living with higher level of integrity,
being inside my own body.
Not focusing just on the connection between everybody,
but actually focusing on the separation, focusing on,
because then I was able to feel
like I was inside my own body.
So one of the most common things I notice
with high vibrational people
is that they tune themselves too much to others,
and in the process of doing so, they abandon themselves.
And when we abandon ourselves,
it's very challenging to attract love,
because we're not even choosing ourselves.
How can we expect somebody else to choose us
when we're not even choosing us?
And for a long time, that's the pattern I lived in,
where I wasn't choosing myself.
And it was almost impossible to attract love,
because I wasn't even choosing myself.
When I started to choose myself, the options came in.
It was so different.
And the way that I started choosing myself
was by living according to my own vision,
living to my own,
living to the values of authenticity and vulnerability,
and moments where I would normally stay soft,
and not say anything, I was like, you know what?
I'm actually gonna express the real me.
And I would actually do an exercise
where I was feeling inside my body,
and my feet, and my hands,
and feeling the separation between other people.
And it was like this feeling
of safety that started to develop,
and it changed absolutely everything.
I think many people
that had been through spiritual awakening,
there's an abandonment wound.
Whereas kids, we felt emotionally or physically abandoned,
and we made the choice, it's not safe for me to be me.
It's not safe for me to be inside my own body.
I'm gonna tune myself to everyone else
in order to get validation, get my needs met,
but that completely depolarizes the relationships.
And then everything as a result of that
begins to reflect back like I'm not choosing myself.
So that's the first thing that absolutely changed everything
was when I actually started to choose myself.
The second thing that I found in my own life
for many years blocked me from attracting love,
as what we call a high vibrational person.
And we're gonna talk about the ego
of a high vibrational person here in a minute too,
was that when I went through my awakening in 2012,
I came out of, I went through it,
my friends didn't understand me.
My family thought I went nuts,
and friends thought I went nuts too.
And for a period of time, I felt very alone,
felt kind of like lone wolf.
And I kind of made some decisions.
I said, people don't get me.
Maybe 'cause they're asleep.
That's one way I rationalized it.
There asleep, they just don't understand.
But then what ended up happening is I developed this belief
that there's just not a lot of people out there like me,
and I was also a bit, I wasn't very grounded.
So I think I became very unrelatable in some ways.
And because I was unrelatable,
and I had this belief
that there's just not a lot of people like me.
it was impossible for me to meet people similar to me,
because I had a belief that was blocking that.
So because I was identified as the lone wolf
for like a year or two, what that ended up leading with,
or ended up being is I ended up feeling alone.
Nobody got me, everybody else was asleep,
and therefore, how could anyone be attracted into my life?
It negates my own belief system.
Remember, our beliefs are creating our reality.
What I had to do is I also had to
stop judging people so much,
and putting them in categories of like high vibrational,
not high vibrational, because what that meant as well
is I was creating more separation
between me and other people.
The more I began to accept other people,
the more I stopped labeling other people,
the more then high vibrational people came into my life.
So one of the things that I would recommend
is if you're dating people,
or you feel like you're alone, and you're not dating people,
maybe part of the reason
is because the story you're telling yourself
is just there's not other people like you.
I'm here to tell you
that there are a lot of people like you.
How do I know that?
Well, look in the comment section below,
there's over a million subscribers on the channel.
And that means that there's a lot of people
that are into this kind of content.
I'm not saying it to brag, by the way, I'm just saying.
I have 1.3 million subscribers, it's not about that.
I'm saying there's just a lot of people
that are waking up right now.
It's more of a symbol of that than anything else.
And realize you're not alone on this process,
and that will help you to rewire the belief
that there's actually more people out there
that are like you.
So that's the second thing to realize
is you become more relatable
the more you integrate into reality,
stop labeling this as good and bad, and things like that,
and you'll open up more opportunities for you.
And it really allows things to be much easier.
Now, the third thing,
and the third thing that blocks high vibrational people
from attracting love into their life
is this idea that I want to share called the anima
and the animus.
Now the anima and the animus is psychology.
I think it's by Carl Jung, Carl Jung in psychology.
The anima and the animus.
What happens when someone goes through a spiritual awakening
is for a period of time, their polarity actually flips.
And what that means is if they're normally feminine,
they then go to the masculine side.
They're normally masculine, they go to the feminine side.
And one of the reasons they're doing that
is they're going to the other side of their polarity,
so that they can heal their childhood stuff.
So this is why you see a lot of soy boy feminine dudes
that are kind of just like in their feminine flow.
They're creating art, they're doing all this
kind of like really feminine things.
Or you see kind of, woman may go through a spiritual,
or feminine, masculine energy,
doesn't have to be gender specific,
if you're listening to this.
It can be feminine or masculine,
depending on your sexual orientation, and all of that.
However, sometimes you'll also see women
that are more masculine,
and they're going more into their masculine.
And one of the reasons being
is because they flip to kind of heal the dad stuff,
or their mom stuff.
And for a period of time, they go through that,
so that they could heal it,
and then more closely integrate back into it.
For a period, a couple years ago, I went through that.
I was becoming much more feminine in different ways,
and I would find that it was harder for me
to set boundaries.
And I was going into my mom wound,
and all of these things, so that I could heal,
and then come back.
And I've seen a lot of women go through this as well,
or feminine people go through this,
where they go into their masculine for a period of time,
and then are able to reintegrate that back.
Now, the reason I share this
is a lot of times, I'll see people that say,
well, I'm attracting very feminine men,
and they're a woman that wants to attract
a more masculine man.
And one of the challenges with that is,
is it means that some level,
maybe there's some type of dad wound that is there.
Maybe they're, have too much masculine energy
that's activated inside themselves.
And therefore, it's blocking
love from actually coming into their life.
It's blocking the masculine
from actually coming into their life.
And remember, people are reflecting back to you
the energy that you're putting out.
As I became more in my masculine,
I started to then attract more feminine people into my life.
And that is something that comes as a reflection
of your own energy.
So one of the things I would recommend is to focus more on,
maybe it is doing the inner child healing type stuff,
healing the mom or the dad wound,
understanding what is called the anima and the animus,
and going through that process.
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And now we'll move on to the fourth thing.
The fourth thing that will happen
when you're on that of this journey
of being what you consider to be high vibe
is you may start to have this standard
where you're high vibe,
and now all of a sudden,
there's this ego that comes into place.
And it was kind of similar to number two,
but I really have to emphasize it here.
When I went through my awakening,
I was like, okay, now I'm high vibe.
And there was a level of significance that came with that.
This happens a lot of times,
I call it being what's called a significant star seed.
It was these people, they're like,
oh, I'm a star seed, I'm from this planet.
And there's this specialness that comes with it.
It's like, well, I'm from this planet.
I'm this kind of person,
and there's this superiority that comes with that.
When that's being projected out, it repels,
and not only does it repel,
but it's coming from a level of ego.
Sometimes when people go through a spiritual awakening,
they will let go of one aspect of their ego,
which is like for me, the ADHD version of me
that was drinking and smoking a lot,
I let go of that version of me.
And then up through the back door came a spiritual ego.
I study all these books, I'm doing all this self-help stuff.
I'm looking at my own shadow.
I'm meditating every day, I'm in the sun, sun gazing.
I'm soaking in the sun, and all of that.
I'm eating certain types of food.
All of these things changed,
and there was an identity, an ego that came through,
and that ego that came through
really did block a lot of love.
Because at the same time,
I thought that I was in a way better than everyone else.
And nobody else was on my level.
It was so hard for me to meet people
that are also into the same things as me,
because I'm so special.
And that created block, that created resistance.
So the reason I'm sharing this with you
is that I see it sometimes in the spiritual community,
probably not you,
but maybe you know a friend
you can give this message to, right?
Where as a protective mechanism,
maybe what we've done is we put all these checklists.
This person needs to eat this kind of diet,
needs to be this kind of way,
needs to think like this, do this,
long list of things to this high standard.
And if people don't meet that,
immediately, they're nixed out.
Well, guess what?
If you bring that long list with you everywhere you go,
it's gonna be very hard to connect with people.
Not that you can't have standards,
but have those standards be moreso values.
I value someone that is an integrity with themselves,
someone that does what they love for a living,
someone that follows their passion,
somebody that's loving, and thinks of others.
These are values you can find in a partner much easier
than all these very specific high vibe things.
And also even with the word high vibe,
it's kind of an egoic word, isn't it?
I'm high vibrational.
You are somewhat low vibrational.
When we start getting into a little,
when we start getting into a whachamacallit,
that's how we're thinking.
We're thinking in terms of your low vibe and your high vibe,
we're starting to separate ourselves from other people.
And then we put ourselves on this little ego pedestal,
and it makes it a lot harder
for us to connect with each other.
It makes it a lot harder for us to even meet other people,
because we're so superior than everybody else.
Now here's the last thing,
and probably one of the most biggest blocks
that I noticed with spiritual high vibe people
is they give these crazy labels
to what they need to find in a partner,
like it needs to be my twin flame soulmate,
other half divine union.
All of these things that high vibe people are looking for
creates all this importance.
It creates all this energy of heavy pressure,
and then every person they meet, like are you my twin flame?
Are you my twin flame soulmate?
You ever see that, there's a Dr. Seuss book.
I think it's called like, "Are You My Mother?",
or something like that,
and it's this little bird that's walking around.
It's like, are you my mother, are you my mother?
And it's like going over to a broomstick.
It's like, are you my mother?
And then the broomstick doesn't say anything,
so then it walks over to a pole, are you my mother?
And then rocks all over to a chair.
Are you my mother?
That's what spiritual people do with twin flames.
Are you made twin flame, are you my twin flame soulmate?
And then goes to someone else, are you my twin flame?
Are you my twin flame soulmate?
And guess what?
It's putting all this pressure on other people.
And the label itself becomes very, very heavy.
In my own experience, what I have learned
is to let go of labels,
because then you're on this lookout
for this magical twin flame soulmate thing,
and it's this big unicorn with all this pressure on it.
And sometimes I even see it on my YouTube channel,
by the way, people comment,
and they're like, so my twin flame is running from me,
and he's running,
and I don't know why he's running from me.
And he doesn't know it, but he's my twin flame soulmate
from the ninth dimension of the Pleiadian Galaxy,
and he doesn't know this.
And I'm like, that's so much pressure you're giving to it.
And a lot of times, from what I notice,
it's like this energy of, it's moreso a childhood energy
where mom and dad aren't present,
mom and dad, aren't paying,
mom and dad isn't paying attention to me.
Mom and dad are running, and not around,
they've physically, emotionally abandoned me.
And what you want is this person's my twin flame soulmate.
And by twin flame soulmate, they're actually just running,
and really what you're saying
is this feels very similar to mom and dad.
This feels very similar to mom and dad.
They're both running from me energetically.
So the key to this point is let go of labels,
let go of the soulmate twin flame
divine union Pleiadian star seed unicorn,
and instead, focus on connecting with other people.
Focus on being present, focus on expressing the real you,
focus on being vulnerable.
When you drop those labels of all those heavy things,
you let go of importance.
When you let go of importance,
it's more natural for you to be in your loving energy.
Realize you are love.
You might be trying to attract love,
the key to attracting love,
but everything on, to summarize this whole freaking video,
the real answer is just for you to be yourself,
to be the real you, feel safe in your own frame.
Don't tune to other people
to try to find validation, approval,
to get your inner childhood needs met.
Instead, focus on being yourself,
and being the love that you're craving in somebody else.
And part of being the love means not judging,
means not labeling, means being present.
And as you do all of these things,
you'll notice that things change in a powerful way,
and let go of the labels, the label of being high vibe,
the label of the twin flame Pleiadian unicorn
from the 11th dimension, let go of all that shit,
and you'll find it a lot easier for you to attract love.
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Attracting love is not something that we attract.
It is something that is reflected.
It is reflected back to us
depending on how much inner self-love.