Once you’ve been hurt, it can be tough to open yourself up to the idea of loving someone
again.
But, as terrifying as dating and the vulnerabilities that come with it may seem, it can also be
a lot of fun!
Hey ladies, Amy North here, and today I’m going to teach you how to love dating again.
This means it doesn’t matter if you’ve been through the dating hell before, once
you put these tips to use you’ll feel like a new woman, ready to meet and mingle with
all kinds of new men.
Before I share these with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts on dating, more specifically,
first date etiquette.
The question I have for you is this: On a first date, would you rather do something
traditionally, like dinner and a movie, or would you rather go on an adventure together,
and do something totally new?
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Now, let’s talk about how to love dating again.
To keep this process as easy as possible, I’ve broken it down into four easy steps.
So, from the top!
1.
Let Go Of the Past
If you’re not a fan of dating, it’s probably for a reason.
And I’m willing to bet that the reason has to do with crappy experiences in the past.
As tough as it can be to forget about those unpleasant encounters, it’s important you
do.
If you forever hold onto the idea that dating sucks or worry about getting hurt, then you’re
never going to be able to properly open yourself up to new experiences and meet potentially
great guys.
Obviously this is easier said than done, and it makes sense why you’d have your guard
up in this situation.
But, if you’re carrying around your baggage with you it’s going to be hard to make room
for any new romantic interests.
Don’t let old wounds get in the way of new love.
For some helpful tips on letting go of the past to become the kind of woman any man would
be head over heels to date, visit my site and watch the free video presentation.
The URL is www.coachnorth.com and I’ll be sure to post it in the description below.
2.
Be Open to New Ideas
Let’s say you meet a man and the two of you seem to be hitting it off.
You have quite a bit in common, and the conversation is flowing naturally.
Then he pops the question: Will you go on a date with him.
At this point, one part of you is really excited about the opportunity, but the other part
is nervous about putting yourself out there again, and feeling uncertain about what it
is that he wants to do with you.
If you’re looking to love dating again, then it’s important that you’re open to
new ideas and experiences.
Here’s the thing: every man admires and wants to be with a woman who is carefree and
goes with the flow.
This means that when the opportunity to go out with a guy you’re into arises, you should
always say yes – regardless of whatever it is he’s proposing.
So, whether it’s a picnic lunch or or ziplining through trees, be open to trying new things.
Not only will you discover new things to love, but really, what’s the worse that could
happen?
3.
Don’t Take it Too Seriously
Dating is meant to be fun, so it’s important that you take your guard down and let loose.
By embracing a playful mindset you’ll not only enjoy dating more, but it’ll also make
you much more attractive to men.
Since dating is simply a matter of two people getting together, you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable
or pressured while spending time together – and if you do, well, you’re doing it
all wrong.
Sure it’s normal to have first date jitters, but instead of letting your nerves get the
best of you, realize there’s no reason to be taking things too seriously.
Yes, you may be looking for a potential mate, but at the end of the day you want to be with
someone you can be yourself around, so why not show him your true colours from the start.
And this goes without saying, but don’t be afraid to flirt!
Flirting is a great way to make you both more comfortable on your date, and it can help
to build a connection between you.
If you’re looking for some helpful tips on flirting, then be sure to check out some
of my other videos!
4.
Focus on YOU!
While on a date, it’s easy to focus on and pinpoint the qualities you like and don’t
like in the guy you’re with, but it’s important that you focus on your own as well.
This means you should pay attention to what makes you smile, gets your laughing, or gives
you goosebumps.
Make note of what conversations make you a uncomfortable, and the topics that show your
best self.
Since dating is a great way to learn more about yourself, do.
The things you discover you can use to your advantage on future dates.
For instance, if you know that you get nervous when it comes time to pay the bill, you can
prepare yourself for it in the future and pre-plan your gameplan.
Or if you’re not the best at small talk or initiating conversations, then you can
come up with some topics to chat about before meeting him.
Again, knowing your strengths and weaknesses can improve your dating game huge, so be sure
to focus on you!
Well, that just about does it for this video.
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Remember ladies, dating is meant to be fun so don’t let the fear of striking out get
in the way of playing the game.
And until next time, take care and good luck!