Hi everybody.
It's Jack and Clayton.
And we are here in sunny Florence.
And hey, we're using the selfie stick, we’re going a little bit of low-tech here.
We just we’re walking in the park this morning.
We love this view and we thought we'd turn on the camera.
And answer a question that we get pretty commonly which is, how can you tell if a guy likes
you?
How can you tell if a guy wants a relationship with you?
Yes.
This is going to be 5 signs he likes you.
So, this maybe 5 signs.
I'm gonna get right into it.
So, Clayton take us away.
Alright.
So, the first sign that a guy likes you is that he's willing to see you more than twice
a week.
I think the ideal is around three, right?
So, if you've seen you any less than three and it's only two times a week, there's something
happening in his life where he's not actually making you a priority.
Now this doesn't mean necessarily that you are physically seeing him.
It could just be that the two of you are connecting three times a week emotionally.
It could be – some people get into relationships especially in this online world where the
relationship is a bit long-distance, so if you're connecting emotionally for three times
a week, chances are that he's into you and he's making you a priority.
Right on.
So in at number two we've got vulnerability.
Now we talk a lot about feminine vulnerability but in this video, we’re talking about masculine
vulnerability which is how much is he willing to reveal himself to you.
How much is he allowing himself to deepen in the relationship because guys can hang
out with women quite a lot and keep you in the more of a dating friendzone.
If they're not really revealing their problems, their challenges, their edges so you might
want to pay attention to this.
How much of his inner world, his deeper world is he really revealing to you?
And if he is that's a good sign that he might want to be in a longer-term relationship.
And just to that point Jack I wanted to say one thing about the emotional vulnerability.
He's not saying – he's not being vulnerable in a way to actually keep you at arm's length,
right?
So, he's not talking about all the problems, and how he's overwhelmed in life, and he doesn't
have time for a relationship, that can be often mistaken for vulnerability but when
really, he's using his emotional experience to keep you at bay.
So, it's more like he's bringing you in almost asking for support or fighting your support.
Yes.
Totally.
Yes, alright.
What do you got at three?
So, the third one is Inclusion.
When I say inclusion, what I mean is that he's including you in conversations and in
plans with coworkers, friends, and family.
If he's bringing you into any one of those domains, chances are that he likes you.
Because most often what's happening is he's got his co-workers, or his friends, or his
family, they're talking.
They're in conversations with him about you, when you're not around.
And there's a certain amount of investment, there's a certain way, that he sees you beginning
to be included in his life which may even involve future planning as well.
So, to build on that at number four we've got what we're calling Integration.
So, integration is how much he's inviting you into the different domains of his life.
Is he including you in his homelife?
Is he including you in his work life?
Is he including you in his hobbies?
Is including you with the people in his life?
Said differently, is he allowing you a place in his life does he actually want you as his
go-to person as his champion, as his support, as he's going through life?
Or, are you kind of contained to one round?
Like we do hobbies together, but we don't really hang out at home, or he invites me
to his home, but we never go out.
If that's happening that might be a sign that he's not actually willing to invest.
So finally, at five we have he is creating a future vision that he's including you in.
Now this might not be explicit.
He might not be saying, “Hey.
Look I see a future with you.”
He might not even be in a relationship a committed monogamous relationship with you quite yet.
But if he is making plans that is including you in the future, if he's got plans a week
out, a couple weeks out, a couple months out trips, that you're gonna take of events different
things that you can be involved in, chances are that this guy is into you.
Because he's building a vision and he sees a future version of himself out there somewhere
on the horizon with you in that picture.
Totally.
So just a recap we've got Investment, Vulnerability, Inclusion, Integration and Future Plans, that's
your hot five.
And if you've liked this, you may want to join us for an event that we've got organized,
which if you look below this video, we have a link.
You just click that link and choose a time.
And it's a webinar, the webinars called the Three Keys to Attracting and Keeping A High-Quality
Man.
90 minutes of some of the best content that we've created around helping you begin to
remove the blocks that are within you that are stopping you from being able to create
lasting love with a high-quality man.
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Join us on this free webinar, we think you're gonna love it.
Yes.
We'll see you there.