Hey everyone, welcome back to he'll survive and thrive. I'm so glad you're here and I'm so excited for today's episode
Hey guys, welcome back. I'm so excited that you're here this week because we are gonna dive into being a high-value
Woman and this is something that I think is really important to understand because we all want to be this woman
This is the woman that when she walks into a room
You can just tell by her energy that she's high-value that she has confidence. She is friendly and sweet and
approachable and authentic and
There's nothing really about her that we don't want to be that we don't aspire to be so you can tell
By the way, she carries herself that she really values herself
You know
There are a few things that make a woman high value in my eyes and in the eyes of other women and men
Number one is she's confident
So her confidence is about knowing who she is and loving everything that makes her who she she is
She loves her appearance. She feels beautiful
Um, she loves the woman that she is and doesn't compare herself to anyone and that's really really important
She doesn't try to be something she's not she doesn't you know
Look at another woman and wish that she had was something that that woman has
She's just very secure and confident in who she is. So she doesn't try to be
something that she's not and she just loves everything that makes her who she is so confidence is about being able to take
Criticism and not get defensive
You know
It's able to fail at something and be able to pick yourself back up and continue on that's true confidence in yourself that
you're able to really take care of yourself like that feeling confident is about knowing
What you feel and knowing how to take care of yourself in any given moment
So it's that ability to be able to connect to ourselves to know what it is. What do I need?
what do I feel what do I think and how do I
Fill myself up inside. How do I give that to myself that's true confidence and being a high value woman?
You know a high value woman also has a lot of self-worth
she has a high level of self-worth and that means that she knows who she is and all the things that make her an
Amazing person woman mother friend girlfriend wife daughter, you know co-worker
It doesn't matter. She knows what she brings to the table. This is the woman that
Knows what she wants. She's determined to create the life that she wants because she knows she deserves it
I'm a high-value woman is a woman that knows her Worth and isn't afraid to leave
Relationships she's not afraid to leave people. She's not afraid to leave a situation
That isn't serving her highest good or helping her
Bring her closer to what it is that she wants in her life
So she doesn't allow those fears to take over and keep her stuck in those relationships
And surrounding herself with people or situations a job or anything that isn't bringing her. Joy and happiness
It's not bringing her to the life that she wants to live
So a high-value woman knows what she wants. So there are no mixed signals with this woman
She has high standards and she goes after what she wants
She's not afraid to like I said fall and pick herself back up because she knows at the end of the day
She's going to get what she wants in life
So knowing what you want is your ability to?
Identify the value that you bring to people's lives and in return you demand the same level
high level in return out of people
so if I know what I want then it's
easy for me to see when I meet someone if I'm in a
Situation if this situation is is what I need and what I want and is this person what I need and what I want
So that's why I always say it's it's you have to start with
Are you really clear on what it is that you want in your life?
Are you really clear on the person that you want to bring into your existence?
So a high-value woman
She knows how to set standards and boundaries with other people and can do this in a loving way and what this means is
She does not become angry when someone doesn't treat her the way she deserves to be treated
she simply sets her and if someone cannot love her and treat her the way that she
would like to be treated then she's able to walk away with absolutely no regret and
No fear of the future
She's not a woman that kind of sits in fear and lets that fear take over herself
You know, she doesn't a high value woman. She doesn't doubt herself
She that confidence that self-worth, you know
That that ability to not doubt herself means that she believes in herself that she really truly loves herself
You know
She doesn't doubt herself and the decision that the decisions that she makes
She knows and trust that the decisions that she makes are in her hires highest good and her
confidence and self-worth will not allow her to doubt that what she won exists and
is out there for her, you know a high-value woman she demands respect and
Since a high-value woman loves herself and respects herself. She demands it in return
She does not beg and wish for people to treat her differently
She has enough self-respect to let people be who they are and she doesn't feel the need to fix anyone. It's not her responsibility
To try to change someone into being who she would like them to be. She merely
Looks at situations looks at people and says is this person who I need in my life, and she takes people at face value
She communicates her standards and does not allow anyone in her life that
Doesn't first give her the respect that she needs and again
Isn't going to bring her to her highest good so if what I want in my life, I know what I want
My life is this person bringing me to that place?
When a high-value woman respects herself, she doesn't allow unhealthy or abusive behavior to continue
This woman knows that everyone in her life
Treats her by what she will tolerate so she knows that while she can't change anyone
She can only control herself and by tolerating behaviors. She's basically allowing the abuse to continue
She's saying that the beus is okay
so a high-value woman is also
very very comfortable with being vulnerable and there's a difference between an approachable and
Valuable woman versus a hard-ass woman with walls up, you know
And I'm sure we've all seen that woman before that
She thinks she's strong and she thinks she's high-value, but she's got walls up and you know
She might even call herself a bitch. Like hey, I'm a bitch. I have walls up. You know, I'm a tough girl
I don't need a man
she a high-value woman is not that kind of woman this woman often often times betrays herself as
You know that strong strong female
But what strong is being able to be real and to be vulnerable?
With people and letting people see who you really are
That's real strength and that's vulnerability and that takes courage especially if you've been let down you've been betrayed, you know
You've had abusive relationships. And now you have these these walls up because of the wounds that you've had and that's perfectly
normal based off of maybe the situation's that you've been in but to
Overcome that fear in those walls is to become very vulnerable with
this is who I am and I love me for who I am and
Someone either needs to accept me for who I am or this isn't going to work
So a high-value woman also knows she understands her boundaries and she understands and knows
how to say no without feeling guilt so
She knows how to self-soothe herself
She knows how to not take on manipulation and a high-value woman doesn't take on someone else's stuff
They're projections their insecurities. So I hope that this has helped you guys understand what a high-value woman is
I mean, I know we've all seen this woman from time to time
But I think it's so good to listen to these messages and just think of like, okay
What are the things that make me high value and what are the things within myself that I know I need to work on in
Order to really be that woman and to you know
Walk that walk and be the person that I really want to be in my life so I can attract great
Relationships and go after the job that I want with confidence and not doubt myself in the decisions that I make
So, I hope that this has helped you guys and I will see you next week
So that is it for now. Thank you guys so much for tuning in and I will see you in my next episode
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