I have 422 friends, yet I am lonely.
I speak to all of them every day, yet none of them really know me.
The problem I have sits in the spaces between,
looking into their eyes or at a name on a screen.
I took a step back and opened my eyes,
I looked around and realized,
this media we call social, is anything but
when we open our computers and it's our doors we shut.
All this technology we have, it's just an illusion
Community, companionship, a sense of inclusion
yet, when you step away from this
device of delusion,
you awaken to see, a world of confusion.
A world where we're slaves to the technology we mastered,
where our information gets sold by some rich greedy bastard.
A world of self-interest, self-image, self-promotion,
where we share all our best bits, but leave out the emotion.
We are at our most happy with an experience we share,
but is it the same if no one is there?
Be there for you friends, and they'll be there too,
but no one will be, if a group message will do.
We edit and exaggerate, we crave adulation,
we pretend not to notice the social isolation.
We put our words into order until our lives are glistening,
we don't even know if anyone is listening.
Being alone isn't the problem, let me just emphasize,
if you read a book, paint a picture, or do some exercise,
you're being productive, and present, not reserved or recluse,
you're being awake and attentive, and putting your time to good use.
So when you're in public and you start to feel alone,
put your hands behind your head, step away from the phone.
You don't need to stare at your menu or at your contact list,
just talk to one another, learn to co-exist.
I can't stand to hear the silence of a busy commuter train,
when no one wants to talk through the fear of looking insane.
We're becoming unsocial, it no longer satisfies
to engage with one another and look into someone's eyes.
We're surrounded by children, who since they were born,
have watched us living like robots and think it's the norm.
It's not very likely you'll make world's greatest dad,
if you cant entertain a child without a using an iPad.
When I was a child, I would never be home,
I'd be out with my friends, on our bikes we would roam.
We'd wear holes in our trainers, and graze up our knees;
we'd build our own clubhouse, high up in the trees.
Now the parks are so quiet, it gives me a chill
to see no children outside and the swings hanging still.
There's no skipping or hopscotch, no church and no steeple,
we're a generation of idiots, smart phones and dumb people.
So look up from your phone, shut down that display,
take in your surroundings, and make the most of today.
Just one real connection is all it can take,
to show you the difference that being there can make.
Be there in the moment, when she gives you the look,
that you remember forever, as when love overtook.
The time you first hold her hand, or first kiss her lips,
the time you first disagree, but still love her to bits.
The time you don't need to tell hundreds, about what you've just done,
because you want to share the moment, with just this one.
The time you sell your computer, so you can buy a ring,
for the girl of your dreams, who is now the real thing.
The time you want to start a family, and the moment when,
you first hold your baby girl, and get to fall in love again.
The time she keeps you up at night, and all you want is rest,
and the time you wipe away the tears, as your baby flees the nest.
The time your little girl returns, with a boy for you to hold,
and the day he calls you granddad, and makes you feel real old
The time you take in all you've made, just by giving life attention,
and how your glad you didn't waste it, by looking down at some invention
The time you hold your wife's hand, and sit down beside her bed
you tell her that you love her, and lay a kiss upon her head.
She then whispers to you quietly, as her heart gives a final beat,
that she's lucky she got stopped, by that lost boy in the street.
But none of these times ever happened,
you never had any of this,
When you're too busy looking down, you don't see the chances you miss.
So look up from your phone, shut down those displays,
we have a finite existence, a set number of days.
Don't waste your life getting caught in the net,
as when the end comes, nothing's worse than regret.
I am guilty too, of being part of this machine,
this digital world, where we are heard but not seen.
Where we type and don't talk, where we read as we chat,
where we spend hours together, without making eye contact.
Just don't give in to a life where you follow the hype,
give people your love, don't give them your like.
Disconnect from the need to be heard and defined
Go out into the world, leave distractions behind.
Look up from your phone, shut down that display,
stop watching this video, live life the real way.