today we're going to talk about what is feminine energy how to access your
feminine energy and why it's so important hi I'm Schellea this is fabulous
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video and they'll all relate to you I love this topic so much because before I
learned about the difference between masculine and feminine energy
I thought feminine was this I thought feminine was the way a woman
dressed and the way a woman looked but when I learned it wasn't really about
that and it was about something different altogether it made so much
sense to me and I'm really excited to share that with you today
all of us have a masculine and feminine energy but they serve us in different
ways but it feels like these days we spend way more time in the masculine
than we do in the feminine and why is it important for us to access our feminine
energy because it makes us feel good it makes us feel alive and it gets us out
of our head so there's a massive benefit to being in our masculine energy because
it gets things done but being able to access your feminine energy is where all
the magic happens
feminine energy isn't what you look like that's the illusion feminine energy is
an essence it's the essence of a woman inside of the clothes but here's the
kicker when you're in your feminine energy you want to appear feminine you
want to dress nice you want to do your hair and makeup you want to feel
feminine so we've got to access our feminine first and the rest falls into
place this is what I love knowing when I'm in work mode business mode get
things done mode I'm absolutely in my masculine and that's great because it
serves me really well but at my core I'm feminine and when I access that I feel
more grounded and more happy and more at peace and when I'm like that I can bring
that to my family my friends the people around me and I can bring that to you
how do we access our feminine energy because for many of us it's hidden deep
down because there's just so much to do and so little time and I think a lot of
us lose that one we're you know building our career or we'd become mothers and
particularly single mothers because we're doing doing doing all the time
we're switched on and we never switch off and if you want to be in your
feminine energy which is where a lot of your power comes from you've got to do
something every single day take the time to just stop create an environment where
you spoil yourself even the smallest thing like a tea ceremony done with
purpose takes you out of your head make time for self-care allows someone to
massage all the tension out of your body all the aches and pains feel
how relaxing that can be go shopping with the intent to find one thing that
makes you feel girly a piece of clothing that you love the feeling of or a
color that makes you shine just by buying a new lipstick you're
experimenting with color and different shades and it's taking you out of your
head spend time with a friend who makes you
laugh and as women we fill each other up when we let our guards down so spend
more time doing that make yourself spend time in nature
without technology start dreaming and stop thinking
meditation instantly resets your Center you can think yourself and breathe
yourself back into harmony find somewhere to exercise and stretch
everyday and as you breathe into your exercises you can instantly feel relief
and access your feminine energy enjoy wearing perfume a scent that makes you
really happy apply it to your skin and smile as you smell in the scent it
sounds really simple but all of these things work and if you can do one thing
a day that I've mentioned to really help activate that feminine side of you
you're going to feel different I guarantee it because we're programmed to do and
achieve and not be and let go here's a chart that explains the differences
between masculine and feminine and it's really cool feminine is flow and curves
masculine is structure and lines feminine is nurturing masculine is
competitive feminine is allowing masculine is knocking things out
feminine is doing lots of things at once masculine is focused on one thing at a
time feminine is intuitive masculine is
rational feminine is feeling an emotion masculine is facts and fixing
in relationships a feminine energy needs attention needs to be understood and
needs to feel safe and feminine energy gets completely shut down if there is a
feeling of being unseen not understood and feeling of being unsafe and that's
why it's important for us for getting the whole wide world out there is to
work on ourselves to recreate and to bring out that beautiful feminine energy
and here's a tip if you want to keep the attraction alive in your relationship
opposites attract there's got to be polarity for the spark
in your relationship to stay alive so if the two of you are in your masculine
energy or the two of you are in your feminine energy you'll lose the
attraction to each other and you'll just become friends it's the marriage between
the two sides of this chart in two different people that really balances
out a harmonious relationship and the most harmonious relationship we can ever
strive for is the one that we have with ourself so we can't be all masculine all
the time and all doing and we can't be all feminine all the time either but I'm
pretty sure that most of us have lots of experience in the masculine and many of
us have very little experience in accessing that feminine side so join
them together and that relationship that you have with yourself and with others
is going to improve for the better I guarantee you if we're not going to
access our feminine energy now when are we going to do it I think it's time for
all of us just to let it go to stop beating up on ourselves and just have a
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