what is the most powerful NLP model not only am I going to answer that question
in this video I'm also going to explain what nor linguistic programming is
really all about keep watching this is life mastery gym I'm Damon Cart and I
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this video because I'm going to show you a way to take this even deeper and keep
it really really simple NLP began with the recognition that while scientists
are focused on discovering objective truth through experimentation that
subjective truth is just as important as objective truth because everything you
experience all of the information that's coming to you through your five senses
must pass through your subjective filters in other words your thoughts and
beliefs now before I really dive into this I'm
curious about you I want to know more about you how many of you out there know
that NLP was really created for modeling how to model people if you knew that or
if you didn't know that let me know in the comments below type yes or no NLP is
based on the idea that there is a structure to subjectivity and to ignore
that structure to ignore subjectivity is to ignore what makes us human and if you
think about it if subjectivity wasn't powerful if it wasn't really a factor
then you could see somebody who was depressed and you could walk up to them
and say okay I know what your problem is your problem is you're depressed what
you need to do is be happy so just focus on the things that make you happy
because you have so much in your life that should make you happy
to be happy now if you've ever done that or something like that first of all you
know that it doesn't work if you've ever been that depressed person and someone
came to you and said that to you if you could have mustered the energy you
probably would have wanted to hit them recognizing that not only does
subjectivity have a structure it's also the difference or what makes the
difference between someone who is happy and someone who is unhappy it's also the
difference between whether or not someone's going to be successful or
unsuccessful so in recognizing that the founders and developers of NLP set out
to study that structure elicit that structure and really map that structure
which later became what we know today as NLP neuro-linguistic programming
in other words NLP techniques and processes are the discoveries that
Richard Bandler and John render made along with the other developers of NLP
along the way of studying and exploring that subjective experience structure NLP
techniques and processes are actually the discoveries that John render Richard
Bandler and the developers of NLP made and as a result they created a model for
this structure of subjectivity and that is what NLP is so NLP is actually a
model a model for modeling and more specifically it was created with the
purpose of modeling success so we could find out why certain people get what
they want or six are why they're successful why they're happy and find
out well what's that structure like and what is the difference between that
structure and the structure of someone who is unhappy unsuccessful or who
doesn't get what they want you might have even found yourself asking the same
question how is it that two people with basically the same external resources
the same level of intelligence and living basically in the same place or
the general area the same city the same part of the country why is one very
successful and one not why is one happy while what is not you can have two
people who have pretty much the same stuff and the same life the same
internal makeup the same external resources yet one is has something or
one's having a completely different experience than the other person
why is that so that tells you right there that objectivity isn't the the
difference that makes the difference it's something else that's going on
there and it is that subjective experience that each one of us is having
our own experience and in that sense each one of us is having our own reality
and that reality in that subjectivity can actually be studied it can be mapped
because there is a definite structure to it early on the developers of NLP used
therapist therapists who were getting extraordinary results like Virginia
Satir Milton Erickson Fritz Perls they looked
to them to find clues as to what were the differences between people who were
having a healthy life experience or a successful life experience and learning
how to model that and then looking at people who were having the opposite
experience and then what they would do is they would create a model based on
what they found successful or happy people were doing what was the structure
of their subjectivity and then seeing what would happen if you place that
structure on the person who was not experiencing that using that kind of
model could that person who was not experiencing those things like happiness
and success would they suddenly start to change and respond to that basically
that's how you create an NLP model you use the neuro-linguistic program to that
subjective structure and then you go and test it you you bring it you map it
across to that person who doesn't who isn't having that success experience and
you find out does this work and if it doesn't then you go back to the model
the person you're modeling and you keep figuring out okay what's different what
do we miss what's the difference that makes the difference then you go back
and you test it again you just keep doing this back and forth until you find
something that works and then you keep testing it on other people so the more
you test it the more you you strengthen that model and you create a very very
strong model that is consistently getting results with other people so the
more people you test it with the stronger that model becomes as you add
to it or take away from it based on what is really working
consistently this is where people really get confused about NLP because they see
somebody like Tony Robbins very successful he uses NLP and people think
well I'm gonna go learn NLP because NLP is a personal development and self-help
tool and yes it is but that's not all it is in fact there's a lot more to NLP NLP
is not just the processes and techniques of NLP it's that aspect of modeling and
from that you get these processes and techniques now I hear for people all the
time because they are confused about this they want to be a coach they go
take an NLP practitioner training and when they're done they don't feel like
they actually know how to coach people the reason for that is NLP is not
actually a coaching model it's a model for modeling and so you can learn a lot
of wonderful techniques you can learn a lot of wonderful processes and you can
learn a lot about how we function on a structural level to create the results
that we want in our lives but what you probably need then is a
coaching model and there are plenty of NLP coaching models out there in fact
there are plenty of NLP models period there there are hundreds if not
thousands of NLP models so which NLP models should you learn
well before I answer that I would say it's very helpful to get very clear
about why you want to learn NLP it may serve you very well to take a
practitioner training and you might already be a coach or a therapist and
that practitioner training will add so much value to what did you already do
and so much more skill and understanding an insight or you might have a very
specific outcome that you're looking for and you don't really want to learn the
whole technology of NLP you just want that specific outcome and so an NLP
model that is focused on getting that specific outcome is probably a better
fit for you because you don't need a bunch of NLP NLP training behind you to
use that model because you're not really you're not really interested in
understanding how it works you're just interested in the outcome that you want
to get and so you can just learn an NLP model and get that outcome and you can
do it really fast and like I said without having a
a lot of NLP background and you don't need a whole lot of NLP skills and
training to do it so to answer the question what is the most powerful NLP
model well first I would say the answer is of course subjective and the answer
to that for me without a doubt is the self-concept model the self-concept
model is a model that was created by Steve Andreas it's the only model that I
teach and it's the only model that I use for coaching and the reason it is so
powerful is because just the name itself tells you everything you need to know
Steve andreas modeled how we create our sense of self we all have a sense of
self and that sense of self is in fact a belief and it's either a very limiting
belief or it's a very open and empowering belief and when you change
something at the identity level that is the mother of all belief so you affect
all the other beliefs all the other lower level beliefs that you have so if
you have limiting beliefs about around what you're capable of what you can do
how accomplished you can become how successful you can become you're going
to find it you're going to find the answer to overcoming that in your
identity in your self-concept and this is why in my opinion by far the
self-concept model is the most powerful model in NLP and not just an NLP it's
the most powerful technology of any mental technology that I've ever come
across now you're much clearer about what NLP
is really all about and not only that now you know what the most powerful NLP
model is but what you don't know is what are the elements of a healthy and strong
self-concept now remember everything comes from the self-concept with a
strong and solid and healthy self-concept everything becomes possible
so I've created a simple PDF checklist all you have to do is there's a link in
the description there's also a pinned comment right down below when you click
that link you can get your hands on that PDF it's just a checklist that shows you
and explains to you all the elements of a healthy and strong self-concept it's
absolutely free so make sure you take advantage of that now that you have this
new understanding and now that you know the most powerful NLP model is what are
you going to do about it what is your next step take some sort of action here
true education happens when behavior changes so what are you gonna do now let
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