- So first, let me make this clear,
jealousy is poison to your relationship.
Which short-term might look sometimes even cute,
but long-term can potentially ruin it,
damage it and cause a breakup.
(upbeat music)
Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite,
I'm dating and relationship coach for woman.
For the awesome, high value woman secrets
subscribe to my channel and hit the bell to be notified
when I upload new videos every Wednesday and Sunday.
And just before I share with you the four ways
on how to handle and deal the jealousy in your relationship,
don't forget to take my free self-awareness test,
are you a woman of high value or low value?
Which I dropped down, totally free
in the video description box below.
So without further ado let's start.
So many ladies ask me, how do I make him jealous?
And it might sound as an innocent question
as all you want from the answer
is the strategy to get more attention
and to see does he care,
yet it's not as innocent as it sounds.
Not only the jealousy comes from insecurities,
lack of self-worth, comparing yourself to others,
it can also create anger, resentment, depression, fear,
and anxiety.
Jealousy is toxic and poisonous to any relationship.
Therefore, in this video,
I will give you four ways on how to deal and manage jealousy
in a relationship.
Number one, as I mentioned before,
you might want to try and make him jealous
to get some attention from him, right?
It's cute.
To see how much he cares about you,
to see will he compete for you or to get on an ego stroke,
watching this guy fighting for me, right?
Now, I could tell you a hundred ways
on how to make him jealous, but I will not do that.
Plus we don't know how well he take it.
For example, if he falls for your strategy,
he could react and fight for you
or if he reads your intention for seeking attention
in such a low-value way, he could pull back and resent you.
Ladies, if you want to know how much he cares,
watch his actions towards you.
As that is an obvious and healthy way to find out.
And if you would like to find out the signs
of a guy who loves and cares about you,
please watch my video right here.
Number two, he is making you jealous.
How do you react?
So let's see, now he is thinking office strategies
to make you jealous, to see your reaction.
Will you fight for him, right?
Fighting with another girl, pulling her hair.
Will you get upset?
So how do you handle it in a way
that it does not damage your relationship,
but it makes it healthier?
You do not react to it.
You do not reward his negative behavior with your attention.
In fact, you take your attention away from it.
You can either ignore it, or if it's pretty extreme,
step back after it.
If you do not like the toxic show, do not participate in it.
Take your attention away from it.
That is how he will not get any satisfaction
from his toxic strategy
and when the strategy doesn't give you the results
that you are looking for,
you stop using the strategy, right?
Yet he of course, might try to use the strategy,
that doesn't work, a few times
before he really understands
that it doesn't work with you anymore.
Number three, being jealous of the other women.
Do you find yourself ever dropping that dirty look
to the girl who might be prettier or wiser than you?
Maybe her life looks way better than yours
and you feel like she doesn't deserve it.
Like she got it too easy and life is not fair.
So what you start to do is display your disappointment
to others by talking about her
and gossiping behind her back.
Now, why do we do this?
We do this when we feel a lack of self-worth and self-love.
We do this when we feel insecure.
Jealousy to others comes from your own insecurities.
We put people down to validate ourselves
that we are good enough or better than them.
Ladies, the bliss in life comes
when you are not jealous of other people's success,
but when you are happy for them.
And this happens when you know your value and worth.
When you truly love yourself.
And how to love yourself, I have an amazing video,
which is for sale and I will drop it down
in the video description box below.
Number four, you are jealous of him.
This happens a lot too,
if your other half is more successful than you,
if he's really charming and fun to be around,
can get anything he wants for himself.
He looks always happy and has an awesome lifestyle
which might start to make you feel insecure
and resentful towards him.
And what a lot of women start to do in this case,
is we start to demand more from a guy as he has more.
So, number one, if you start to demand from people,
instead of letting them give you freely,
they can potentially end up resenting you
even if they do have more.
This is what you do instead.
Do not compare yourself to him.
He is not your competition.
If anything do not compare yourself to anyone in life,
apart from yourself.
Everyday strive to be better
and compare yourself to you of yesterday.
It's important to remember
that God gives people different gifts in life,
therefore find your own gift,
be grateful for it and maximize on it.
Same as he maximized of his gifts
and that's why he's so happy.
And when complain, get jealous that he has more,
'cause he works like a busy bee,
well then my advice would be,
get off your bum and do something.
All ladies these are my four tips
on how to handle jealousy in the relationship.
If you like this video, please press like.
Let me know in the comments below,
what did you think.
Join Greta's High Value Women School
where we are all in the same boat,
learning how to be woman of high value
and bring out the best in our man.
Me on my Instagram, which is called
ladies_relationship_coach
and for one-on-one or group coaching,
please book me through my website,
which is called Greta Bereisaite.com.
Yes, I have a new fresh website.
I will drop it in this video description.
And if you would like to learn
on how to stay attractive for your ex,
how to get your ex back, self-love,
how to control your emotions,
manipulative games men play on womans,
so you learn their games and you know how to handle it.
I will also drop a link as a pin comment
where you can get those videos.
So, thank you for watching.
Kisses from Manchester.