Comes back for you,
Are they loving you? Do they want you back?
That's coming up in this video.
Hey there, I'm Rebecca Zung.
I'm a narcissist negotiation expert, I'm also a lawyer and
I've seen it all and
you want to subscribe to this channel,
because I've helped millions of people through this channel and
thousands of people in my law practice and
I've helped people escape these relationships and
go onto lives of peace and escape the fear,
that gripping fear.
So, and I want to help you guys do the same thing.
I literally sit here every day doing this and
I've helped so many people.
That's what I'm doing day in and day out now,
because I'm on a mission for you guys.
The reason why is because of exactly the subject of this video,
because I've seen this happen so many times,
especially during the divorce process,
we've been in the middle of negotiations and all of the sudden,
here they come, after the discard,
Where are they? They're in your face.
It could even be after all the papers have been signed and
What are they doing?
And I want you guys to remember this,
I want you to come back to this video and
I want you to save this video and
I want you to just have this,
so that you can put it on repeat and realize
that this is a big massive red flag.
This is not about you,
they're going to say that it's about you,
that you were meant to be together,
or whatever it is that they're saying,
it's a huge manipulation, it's a massive manipulation.
A lot of times they've cheated on you, they've left you,
they found their whatever at this High School reunion,
or they found that other source of supply,
somebody different, somebody better,
somebody else, they moved on and
then they came back over here and they say whatever it is,
they try to stay, they make it sound like you're so much different,
or they're better, or they’re improved, they went to therapy…
They're not changed!
They're not better, they're not different,
whatever it is they're saying, don't listen,
or “You're different”, or “You're better”,
“You're this”, or “Everybody's changed…”,
It’s NOT! Nothing's changed!
Nothing's better, nothing's different,
they're still who they are.
I mean, I was recently only talking to Marissa Pier,
which you all are going to get to see,
incredible program we’re putting together for you guys here soon,
but, when I was talking to her,
she's one of the best therapists in the whole world,
she won't even treat narcissists
because she said they can't be treated,
they can't be rehabilitated.
So, you can't fix them.
You're going to feel worse than you did before, backsliding,
all they want from you is to get that supply from you,
they want to see if there’s something left
in the form of supply they can get from you,
they want to store it up,
like people store up jars of jelly for the winter.
They're looking for something left in the jar, that's it.
Is there something left that they can get?
Like a vulture coming back to a carcass,
to see if there is anything left on the bone, that's it.
You're finally getting better, you’re finally healing,
you're finally feeling like you can breathe again and
here they come back.
I mean, I did a divorce for this woman,
she had been taking care of her mother who had Alzheimer's and
her husband, gets on Facebook,
gets with this woman he had been dating in college,
starts to have an affair with her,
while she's taking care of her mother who has Alzheimer's.
Her mother dies, then, she gets breast cancer,
she's battling breast cancer,
meanwhile husband having an affair, leaves her for this woman,
she ends up having to move in with her daughter,
they go through the entire divorce,
the girl from college ends up throwing him out,
he ends up with nothing and no one,
back on the doorstep of the wife, ex-wife now at this point,
begging her to take him back, of course, and
she doesn't take him back, thank goodness.
But, this is what they do,
no one else wants him at that point, so back over there,
I mean, don't do it, don't do it,
it's a massive red flag.
That's what's going on and they just want to see,
is there any supply left?
You are going to be left again depleted,
left again with your soul sucked dry and
they're going to do, say and manipulate their way
saying whatever they need to do to try to get,
or to try to work their wiles back into you and
you need to be strong and just realize that whatever it is,
It's not true.
It's a big massive red flag and just shut it down.
That's not happening.
I have a whole video on narcissistic hoovering,
just go check that out,
What is it?
That's what's actually happening there and
watch that video,
put boundaries in the comments and
just realize that's what's actually happening there and
they just are vulturing for the narcissistic supply,
it's a massive, huge, red flag and you don't need it.
Move on with your life, get on with your healing,
get on with finding people in your life
who are going to bring you joy,
surround yourself with people who have high vibration,
you are the culmination of the top five people in your life,
the people you spend the most time with,
spend time with people who are going to bring you joy,
who are going to lift you up,
that is not that person.
So, that's what's actually happening and
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Remember today is always a great day to start negotiating your best life.
It's never too late wherever you are,
is the jumping off point.
So, I will see all of you guys in the next video.