If you’re like most INFJs, you’ll probably take every personality type test out there at least
once in life. Always eager to gain a deeper understanding into their complex make-up,
the INFJ can use enneagram typology in particular to gain the insight they need to differentiate
themselves from other INFJs. Yet, low and behold, most INFJs actually end up with the same enneagram
type, and it’s not exactly coincidental. Welcome or welcome back PSYCH-O! Today
we’ll be diving into the enneagram world of the INFJ personality type.
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Alright, let’s jump right into it starting with answering the question..
What exactly is Enneagram typology and what is the most common type among the INFJ personality type?
So, to put it in the simplest of terms, the Enneagram is a similar personality typing
system to the Myers-Briggs Type indicator, using core beliefs and motivations of
individuals to gain a deeper insight into how they perceive and act in the world around them.
Instead of 16 different types, the Enneagram is split up into 9 main types,
indicated by numbers that can further be broken down into 2 subtypes referred to as ‘wings’.
While nobody is sure of it’s exact origin, the Enneagram typology system is said to either have
ancient Babylon roots dating back to 4,500 years ago or it could have come from classic Greek
philosophy from around 2,500 years ago. Wherever, and however it was discovered - these 9 types can
bring forth incredible understandings and insights of ourselves and others.
And so what is the enneagram type that most people with the INFJ personality type can relate to?
Enneagram number 4, the individualist. Even though Enneagram typology uses a completely
different model of personality typing compared to the 16-type MBTI theory, many INFJs seem to
end up typing as enneagram fours, and it’s not as fluke as it may seem. Known as the
sensitive and introspective type, according to the enneagram institute, type four is known for
being emotionally honest, creative, and personal, with times of being moody and self-conscious.
With two the subtypes of the enneagram number four being the “three-wing”
referred to as the “Aristocrat" and the “five-wing” known as the “Bohemian",
these subtypes unlike the INFJ-A and the INFJ-T are quite noticeably different from one another,
yet most 4s can easily relate to both sides. Enneagram Fours that lean more towards the
Five-Wing are more likely to struggle connecting with others with a deeper sense of introversion.
They have a tendency to over-intellectualize, never really having the chance to turn off
their habits of over-observing situations. INFJs that type as an enneagram four wing 5
are also much more reserved than wing 3s, with an intellectual depth that allows them to see
multiple levels of meanings, it can more easily send them into a depressive episode.
Enneagram fours that consider themselves wing 3s would be considered much more out-going,
ambitious, and may even care a little more about their image compared to wing 5s.
They’re known to be a little more charismatic and driven for success, which is most apparent in the
level of productivity and creative expression they’re able to utilize.
Like we mentioned, most enneagram fours can relate to both wings at different points in their lives,
with one becoming more dominant than the other depending on life experiences and inner growth.
Besides the subtyped wings, and the extensive analysis of the enneagram four, they ultimately
have a very similar goal in relation to the INFJ. All they want from life is a chance to express
their inner selves and their individuality. Much like the INFJ, they crave natural beauty in life,
while trying their best to maintain an undisrupted rhythm in life. However, they also have a tendency
to withhold themselves from others due to feeling vulnerable and estranged, leaving them feeling
out of place when it comes to ordinary ways of living. Like INFJs, Type 4s fear both failure
and an inability to share their unique attributes with their peers. So, they strive to beat to their
own drum whenever feels right, with the hopes of giving something truly unique back to the world.
The Enneagram institute said it best when they described the Enneagram four with this statement.
“While it is true that Fours often feel different from others,
they do not really want to be alone. They may feel socially awkward or self-conscious,
but they deeply wish to connect with people who understand them and their feelings.
The “romantics” of the Enneagram, they long for someone to come into their lives and appreciate
the secret self that they have privately nurtured and hidden from the world. If, over time,
such validation remains out of reach, Fours begin to build their identity around how unlike everyone
else they are. The outsider therefore comforts herself by becoming an insistent individualist:
everything must be done on her own, in her own way, on her own terms. Fours’ mantra becomes “I
am myself. Nobody understands me. I am different and special,” while they secretly wish they could
enjoy the easiness and confidence that others seem to enjoy.” - If that isn’t the typical story
of a misunderstood INFJ, I don’t know what is. Now, just because ‘enneatype’ four is the most
common amongst INFJs doesn't necessarily mean that all INFJs can relate. In fact,
there are a couple other common enneagram types amongst the INFJ population, mostly depending
on life experiences and upbringing. Some of the most common types aside from enneagram 4
are enneagram type 2 the helper, type 5 the investigator, and type 1 the perfectionist.
The INFJ type 2 is extremely warm and nurturing,
with the goal of having the people around them be as comfortable as possible. The INFJ
that relates to the enneagram type 2 the most may come across more extroverted than they truly are,
overextending themselves in a social attempt to support their loved ones and friendships.
However, this can at times result in making their self worth dependent on the extent they
feel appreciated by others. And so, they ultimately feel as if they’re constantly
moving away from feelings of uselessness and towards feelings of deeper connection.
The enneagram type 1 INFJ is contrastingly opposite in a number of ways from both types 4
and 2. Highly analytical and at times critical about the society we live in,
the INFJ type one is on a continual hunt for new opportunities for improvement.
They are known to be particularly drawn to human rights advocacy and actively fighting
for the things they believe in. In fact, a lot of enneagram type ones admit that they feel connected
to a power higher than themselves that keeps their commitment towards their morals so strong.
They rely strongly on their introverted intuition and as a result, are constantly
moving away from feelings of corruption and towards feelings of justice and virtuousness.
And then there's the INFJ enneagram type 5,
that is said to be considered most relatable for INFJs who rely heavily on their tertiary function,
introverted thinking. Known for their less extraverted and more serious nature,
the type 5 rarely acts on a situation before deeply analyzing it as thoroughly as possible.
As a result, they can seem high-strung or intense to be around when in reality, all they're trying
to do is figure out why things are the way they are. In fact, because they don’t accept certain
opinions and doctrines for face value, these INFJs have a strong need to test the truth of
most assumptions for themselves, making it seem like they may be dismissive or challenging others.
Well psych-os, that's it for today.. So, are you an INFJ who also typed as an enneagram 4?
If so, let us know in the comments below, and if not,
tell us which ennegram type you most relate to as an INFJ. Also, please don’t forget to leave us a
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