hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart I'm your dating and relationship coach now most of you
know me as a reconnection expert I'm the person you come to when you want to get your ex back
get your lover back or mend a relationship with your husband even and hopefully avoid divorce
now I'm lucky to say that I've actually had some couples get remarried I've had several couples
not get divorced at all we've been really able to turn around some things where they otherwise
didn't think that they would turn around and we were able to repair it from the inside out and
this is where one of you and that would be you this is where you can actually begin to take
steps and do things in your feminine energy so that the man will begin to take notice and also
change because the theory behind all of this is that when you change he is also going to change
now one of the most important things you can do to get a man back and get his tension back is
to go ahead and allow him a certain amount of time and space to figure out whatever is going
on with him now so often if you're already experiencing distance from your man you're
going to want to jump in and try to fix whatever is going on and this is actually going to just
repel your guy further away now usually at the point where women contact me they're already in
that energy of trying to fix it trying to solve it they're already at that place so if you're
there worry not it's not too late to go ahead and lean back and give this man some time and
energy and space to do whatever he needs to do and figure it out so by jumping in and stopping
that process it's only gonna delay him figuring it out and finding his way back to your heart
now I've noticed in breakups that men usually leave because of something we have said or done
can have a cumulative effect usually or it could just be something you do one day that it just hits
them the wrong way and that's it it's over but either way I can promise you there's probably
something cumulative something that's been building up inside of him so this is why it's
so important that if you have experienced that moment where the man says I want a break or even
if the man has said it's over I don't want to be a boyfriend I don't want to be a husband I
don't want to be involved with it you anymore that you go ahead and allow him to have that power and
that freedom of ending things with you now this is where I want to talk a little bit more about
no contact and what that really means so a lot of people think of no contact as a rigid set amount
of time that you don't contact anyone at all so so often I have people email me and they say well
he's written to me but I've sworn no contact so do I write him back and you see how that can cause a
problem here so the man will sometimes say I want to break up I don't want to be together anymore
and you have to say oh my goodness I feel so sad yet take all the time in space you need now a
part of you is gonna want to jump in and try to start fixing things figuring out how's it gonna
work out what does this mean give me my stuff back here take your stuff you know we're gonna want to
react and get in a very reactive place so this is where you're gonna have to harness all your
strength and willpower and really speak from your heart speak from your heart your ego is gonna want
to jump in and just tear that person to shreds emotionally in some way or you know say some
hurtful things to them or act out if you're not one of those women Bravo for you because most of
us react very strongly to a breakup we have a big emotional reaction to it if you've already done
that you're watching this video most likely it's a little you know you're little past that point
but it's not too late to go ahead and allow that man when he does reach out to you even if he says
hey I want to pick my stuff up today you let him know you know if it feels so good to see you and
I'm so sad that things had to end but absolutely here are your things and I will have everything
waiting for you what you don't want to say is I understand I understand that you feel this way
no you don't you don't understand you know you're not here to be understanding and nice you're here
to start opening your heart to him how do you open your heart to him when you're heartbroken this is
again where it's going to take learning new tools new methods new processes that really awaken your
feminine energy now your feminine energy is what makes a man pursue you this is in our DNA it's in
the cells of our body it's the difference between the sperm and the egg the egg sits there and waits
to receive that's feminine energy and the sperm is busy it's active it's moving it's pursuing so
you want to be able to be in your feminine energy so this man can go back to feeling behaving acting
and treating you like a masculine energy man so sometimes this allows for some very uncomfortable
amount of time to pass between you two you don't really know if this is ever gonna work out again
and that's really like where you let go of the balloon and you let it float away and you start
rebuilding your life nine times out of 10 the man comes sniffing around again absolutely he does but
you have to let him do it he can't be lured back to you in any way now if you want to learn more
these tools and processes the formula to really get your man back and keep him for good I actually
have a series you can download at my website is to ever hurt coaching calm slash ABC get him back
in the ABCs stand for absolute best chances I was once exactly where you are heartbroken having no
clue how to put this back together downloading all sorts of programs written by men that were
telling me they knew exactly what a man needed to hear and none of it worked I was in and out
of my therapists office I was doing everything I was journaling I was you know seeing psychics and
getting tarot readings I was doing everything to figure out that how can I manipulate it into him
coming back and it just does not work that way for some reason it does work that way it's not gonna
last very long so let me warn you and perhaps that's why you're watching my video now because
you did a couple of manipulative things and it got him back a little bit but then he just left all
over again so I want to teach you a way that works a way that's gonna work for the long haul I want
you guys to get happily married and be you know a couple and your masculine feminine energy and make
it work that's what I have with my guy you know we had three different very painful breakups and we
recovered from them and we rebuilt something much stronger than people who I show you how
to do this I show my clients how to do it every day and you can learn how to do it too it's over
ever heard coaching calm slash ABC get him back and I wish you all the success and I'm sending
you lots of extra hugs if you are going through heartbreak right now all right much love to you