Sienna Miller recently called it quits on her third engagement.
The actress was engaged to Lucas Zwirner , but sadly, the pair split nine months later.
This isn't the first time the actress has had her heartbroken, but it's nowhere near
as much of a public scandal as her most infamous relationship with Jude Law.
With three failed engagements behind her, we can't help but wonder why things haven't
been working out for Sienna.
Is it possible that the damage Jude did to her heart was irreparable?
Stay tuned, Juicers; in this video, we're going to take a deep dive into Sienna's most
recent engagement and why she's never been able to make it down the aisle.
The 40-year-old actress and 31-year-old art editor, Lucas Zwirner, were first spotted
together in December 2018 when the couple stepped out to attend her ex-fiancé Tom Sturridge's
birthday party.
The following month, they were spotted engaging in some PDA while walking her dog on the streets
of New York City.
If there's anything Sienna learned from her very public and nasty split from her ex-Jude
Law, it's that she now keeps her love life pretty private.
So when it came to her new romance with Lucas, she did her best to keep their relationship
out of the spotlight as much as she could.
But as far as the public could tell, they seemed happy together.
In 2019, the pair attended both Ellie Goulding's wedding to Casper Jopling and Jennifer Lawrence's
wedding to Cooke Maroney . Perhaps it was all the celebrations of love that gave the
couple an itch to get engaged themselves because, at the beginning of the next year, Lucas popped
the question, and Sienna said yes!
While they never publicly confirmed their romance, it is thought Lucas proposed at the
Sundance Film Festival in January.
An insider close to the couple shared, "They're so in love.
Her daughter has a nice and close relationship with Lucas too.
They're excited about this new chapter."
Sienna was overjoyed, she couldn't wait to make Lucas her husband, and she was so excited
to finally get married.
The insider also gave a little insight into what their dynamic was like as a couple, sharing
that Lucas loves how family orientated his fiance is and that she loves how fun and youthful
he is.
Unfortunately, just 9 months after the announcement of their engagement, the fiances called it
off.
As it turned out, it was perhaps their 9-year age gap that led to the split.
While the actress claimed to have loved how "youthful and fun" Lucas was in their relationship,
a source close to Sienna confessed that she soon felt like he was too immature for her.
While a 9-year age gap might not sound too significant, it's important to remember that
Sienna is a mother to her 9-year-old daughter, Marlowe.
Perhaps it was because Lucas had no kids of his own that he didn't understand the hard
work and dedication that goes into being a parent.
Thankfully, the source also shared that Sienna "isn't torn up about the breakup and has been
spending time with her sister," the source added Miller is "focused on her daughter,
Marlowe, and taking care of her and homeschooling her," which has been an "adjustment," but
she's "been enjoying all the time she has with her daughter."
Speaking of her relationship history in a new interview, Miller said: "I've dealt with
very public heartbreak.
I was never somebody who dreamt of getting married.
I've been engaged a few times, but I've never been married."
Showing her sense of humor, she said of her broken engagements: "It's better than three
divorces, I think."
Well, we guess she does have a point when she says that.
Everyone knows how messy celebrity divorces can get, so if anything, she's been lucky
enough to avoid them.
When it comes to her love life, Sienna confessed that she's not the type of woman to enjoy
dating.
She explained, "Once I'm in, I'm in.
And I'm also quite shy.
My life has sort of unfolded in a different way, and I'm fine with it.
My life was never going to be orthodox."
Speaking of orthodox, her life has been far from it.
The father of her child is actor Tom Sturridge, and they started dating back in 2011.
The couple got engaged around a year into their relationship and, just 6 months later,
welcomed baby girl Marlowe.
Speaking of their relationship, Sienna shared, "He's grounded, intelligent, kind, and an
intact person.
That's amazing to be around.
That's the father of my child.
There's no drama."
However, the "no drama" part might not have been as true as she stated.
After having their first child together, it was reported that Tom wanted to have more
children and was pushing Sienna to finalize their wedding date.
But the actress wasn't ready for more children or marriage.
At the time, she was content with simply being engaged and having one child.
Unfortunately, it turns out that that wasn't enough for Tom.
After four years of dating, the couple called off their engagement.
But believe it or not, their split was incredibly amicable.
Sienna considers Tom to be one of her best friends, and they still live together … well,
kind of.
Even though they only live a few blocks away from each other, they often stay at each other's
houses and even travel together.
When it comes to their daughter, they're doing the best that they can to co-parent her and
spend as much time with her as a family.
They never had any formal custody arrangements with their daughter, and the actress said
herself that the way that they're doing things isn't conventional.
"It's great for our daughter that she has two parents who love each other and are friends.
He's definitely my best friend in the entire world."
The actress also shared that she and Tom still love each other, but it wasn't an easy journey
figuring all of these things out in the beginning.
Sienna explained that with any breakup, there's going to be someone who has to be "cruel in
order for it to be traditional," but because they have so much respect for their shared
history and their daughter, they've always made sure to keep things civil.
"Everybody will stay over, or we'll all go on holiday, and that's because we genuinely
want to be around each other."
So, six years later, Miller may think they're unconventional, but these former lovers seem
to be making it work in ways other exes could only dream of.
Following the end of her relationship with Tom, the actress was single for 9 months,
and she claimed it was the longest time she'd been single.
As it turned out, she really enjoyed it.
"I really like my own company.
I quite like being independent," she explained.
"But the dating thing, which I tried a couple of times?
That I don't envy."
So perhaps her moving on from Tom to Lucas was a little more complicated than she expected.
Since Sienna and Tom have such a great relationship post-breakup and are doing their best to co-parent
their daughter, it can be difficult bringing a new boyfriend into the circle.
We can imagine that maybe Lucas was a little intimidated by the close relationship that
the actress has with the father of her child and felt like he wasn't ready to partake in
becoming a father figure himself to her daughter.
Whatever the case may be, Sienna now seems to be single and enjoying her time with her
daughter.
What's more, is that she learned her lesson from her very public heartbreak from Jude
Law, that she prefers to keep her love life out of the spotlight, and we really can't
blame her for that.
Everyone knows that it was just a few months after Jude proposed to Sienna that she found
out that he was involved in an affair with his children's nanny.
The actress's love life was splattered all over the tabloids, and every aspect of their
relationship was looked at through a microscope for the world to see.
Speaking about Jude's affair back in 2020, Sienna confessed, "That was one of the most
challenging moments I hope I'll ever have to experience.
Because with that level of public heartbreak, to have to get out of a bed, let alone stand
in front of 800 people every night, it's just the last thing you want to do."
So, perhaps Sienna has guarded her heart ever since it was so publicly broken all those
years ago.
It didn't take long after she and Jude were engaged that he betrayed her, and despite
her search for love and finding the right one, maybe she's never been able to fully
trust someone not to break her heart.
It doesn't seem like Sienna's given up on love since she has moved on and enjoyed her
time in the romances that followed.
But all her romances came to an end around the time that wedding plans should be getting
made.
Maybe the actress is not ready to commit fully, but for now, Sienna seems happy with where
she is in her life, and we see nothing wrong with that.
Whether she decides to get married or not, the most important thing is that she's happy.
We only want the best for Sienna, and we hope that despite the relationships that haven't
worked out for her, she's able to heal her heart and live a happy life.