i have officially unsubscribed from the
new year new me narrative
it's inauthentic a ton of unnecessary
pressure and a fight to be perfect
if you mess up
then your whole year is ruined
that's not how i want my story to go
the idea of new year new me manifests
the constant fear of us not being enough
we need to be better set an unrealistic
amount of goals and beat ourselves up if
we revert back to being an actual human
being and effing up once in a while
unfortunately we use other people's
instagram feeds as a measure for how
well we're doing a measure for our
self-worth and instead of enjoying our
last bit of christmas cake
we feel guilty before it enters into our
stomach
oh the constant pressure and fear that
surround the new year
i don't know if anybody needs to hear
this
but you don't need a new year to improve
shift your lifestyle go after your
dreams what about new day best me
how about that
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okay
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is
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uh
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you're ready to make a snow angel
okay wait what about my boots
who uses a shovel to gather snow so in
what universe
lots of smoke
now you pick it up and you roll the ball
you roll it and you keep rolling
i never use a shovel
oh comment below if you used to shovel
because that i've never i mean maybe
some people do
okay if you want to bring it just in
case yeah
just never
when i just i guess i had a very
different childhood
my husband has never done a snow angel
before snow angel virgin
it's so deep
it's so deep look at this it's up to my
knees
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like
wait okay ready
you don't have to dive in you can lay
down
ready go
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it's
heavy i know it's packing snow
keep going keep going
i know it's heavy
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perfect that's perfect it's very packy
which is great for like
for snowmen great
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how is it
good good
good professional professional
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i want you to try this this year
instead of focusing on being a whole new
you
focus on being more of who you truly are
that is your purpose
be devoted to what matters to you
instead of what matters to everyone else
focus on the here and now and what small
steps you can take in this moment it's
about the in-betweens the moments you
create for yourself the present that
leaves room for more fulfillment and
abundance to float into your life
i'm giving you absolute permission to
unfollow remove mute those you might be
subconsciously comparing yourself to
continue writing your story with excited
and curious energy and most of all let
go of all outcomes that's how you
manifest incredible things into your
life
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it's beautiful
we need to take a picture with it
what we need to take a picture together
oh yeah
cute
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we just built the snowman and now we're
going for a little walk
we're right by the mountains in
beautiful toyama japan
and it's so hard to see the mountains
behind me you can kind of see it the
clouds are kind of covering it but the
sky look at the sky it's like so
gorgeous it's like a orangey blue
oh i love it and i miss snow
this is the first time i've seen snow in
a long time actually
yeah
there wasn't so much last time it was
just kind of like rainy
cloudy so right behind me right here
this is not a field
this is a rice field
it's a field but it's like a rice field
so it's like much deeper so if we jumped
in it we would go really really deep
into water so i couldn't you can't tell
oh yeah look at the ice
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yes
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this
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if you're not looking straight ahead at
your own path you end up wandering onto
somebody else's that's not meant for you
this is your sign to make the choice the
choice to become your favorite version
of you to take everything at your own
pace and start living for you and only
you nobody else can change the course of
your life but you
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she has lots of gifts she has chocolates
and
some oranges and sake
this one is very loved
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i just want you to know that you are
perfect the way you are
it's just about amplifying that make it
a goal to be perfectly imperfect
set intentions instead of goals and
embody a life you're obsessed with it's
all here for you right now you just need
to claim it so let's shift the narrative
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