Hey guys,
so the keys to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times
is going to surprise some of you.
Because what you've been told
or perhaps sold
is that women want a certain kind of guy.
But social media,
Hollywood and women themselves
aren't actually telling you the truth.
Women say they want a nice guy
what do they really want?
Let's look at the fibs
of sober and drunk women,
the truth about bad boys and players
and the one quality
that all women instinctively find irresistible.
Because when you know these three keys
to attracting and seducing
high value women in modern times
you will be miles ahead
of all the guys out there including pickup artists
who are working with the wrong
Intel and assumptions
and of course,
the guys who are bowing out entirely.
Welcome to just the tip.
So, the keys to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times
is about understanding what women really want
and need
and not what everyone is trying to tell you
that they should need and want
and this brings us to key point number one,
women don't consciously know
what they really want.
Sober women say they want a nice guy
but then they go for bad boys.
Drunk women or honest women
say they want a tall rich guy
but eventually settle down with
a nice guy or a beta man.
What's going on here?
But they don't end up respecting them
and society is telling women
that they should want the nice guy
but guess what happens to nice guys.
That's right you've probably experienced it at least once.
They get friend zoned
or used or ditched
or cheated on.
Is that the kind of relationship you want?
No, probably not.
It's no wonder you're so confused
about modern dating and what women really want.
And the reality is
that what women really want
and need and respond to
falls somewhere in the middle,
which brings us to key point number two,
women unconsciously or subconsciously
respond to what they really need.
So, while women can't consciously articulate
what they really want and need in a man
their bodies, our bodies know
because our bodies respond
to what we really want and need in a man.
So, no matter what they are telling you
women have not evolved past their own biology.
Example, so Ashley tells you
that she doesn't really see you as more than a friend
even though you are a nice guy.
But she's really looking for someone
who's six feet tall
and making at least the same as her or at least
you know six figures.
(Laughs)
But then Ashley meets Brad
who's five nine,
just finishing school has a ton of debt
and is just starting his career and she likes him.
What?
Brad is direct with Ashley,
he does tell her that he likes her
and wants to see her again
or see her at some point in time
this is how it starts.
But then he doesn't always make time for her
he sometimes forgets to reply to her text
and leaves her hanging for days
and he often cancels plans.
He's direct, unapologetic,
and puts his needs first.
She likes this guy
he's not nice, he's not tall,
he's certainly not rich
so what gives?
And yes, this is actually based on a true story,
but it happens a lot more often than you think
and the answer falls in number three
of the keys to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times.
Number three,
women are attracted to dominant men.
Now, this is where some of you are like
see they want bad boys.
Not, not, not that's not true.
Remember it falls somewhere in the middle.
So, there's a newer study out
and it shows
that women actually find men more attractive
who appear more dominant than other men.
Not who appear more good looking than other men.
And what is dominance?
Dominance essentially
is influence and power over others.
Now, a bad boy will use this with nefarious purpose
whereas the good guy, a good man will not.
Let's explore in dating and relationships
dominance includes influence and power
self-discipline over yourself.
And one of the keys
to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times
is knowing the difference between unhealthy dominance
and healthy dominance.
Reality check, emotionally damaged women
go for emotionally damaged men
who practice unhealthy dominance.
Our emotionally unhealthy women
the kind of women you want
I will answer for you no.
Unhealthy dominance is about
power and influence over others
for self often at the expense of others.
These traits often
help the dominant,
unhealthy dominant man or person
but hurt other people,
even the people that they're close to.
This is where using and abusing comes into play,
this is where bad boys who are really bad
and selfish come into play.
Controlling, berating,
manipulating, punishing, and mind bleeping
are unhealthy dominant traits.
Key point,
a selfish unhealthy dominant man
may use or abuse
an emotionally unhealthy woman
but his dominance is attractive to her
because somewhere deep down in her psyche
she knows that if he can dominate her
he can dominate others.
What's the most attractive feature?
Appearing to be able to dominate over other men
that's the most attractive more than good looks.
Which means that he can protect her
even though he might not well, he probably will
but he'll be the one abusing her at home or wherever.
On the other hand, healthy dominance
is about dominance of self
that can benefit others
either directly or indirectly.
Drive, ambition, directness,
commitment, dedication, self-discipline
are all healthy dominant traits.
An emotionally healthy dominant man
doesn't use or abuse women
so his dominance is actually
a measure of internal strength.
His dominance is attractive
because he can still influence others,
he can protect himself
and her and potentially their future family.
Example, let's look back at Brad
and then I'm going to share with you the one little word
that ramps up her respect and attraction to you.
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Okay, back to Brad.
The reason Brad is so attractive to Ashley
is because of his healthy dominance.
He exhibits dominance over himself
to go for what he really wants,
which includes Ashley
but not at the expense
of his values and goals.
The reason he doesn't always get together with Ashley
or reply to Ashley or sometimes
has to cancel plans with Ashley
is because he's focused on his priorities and goals.
Like focusing on finishing his studies
and working to pay off debt,
going to the gym to make sure that he stays fit
all of, which benefit him
but also whoever he "chooses, chooses"
to have by his side.
Key point,
yes, you have to contribute to a relationship.
But an emotionally healthy woman
who sees the value in your values
is actually going to feel safer with you
when she sees you commit to your values
even when it means she needs to compromise
or be second priority sometimes.
She will trust that you know
what your priorities should be.
Remember, we're talking about high value women here
not selfish entitled princesses.
If you know how to prioritize
what's important for you
and those things will be important to
a relationship with her
or with a family
she trusts that you can lead.
Personal responsibility and accountability
to mutually valued priorities
make women feel emotionally safe.
Key point,
if she doesn't value your priorities
it's either the wrong time
or the wrong woman.
So, one of the biggest keys
to attracting and seducing
a high value woman in modern times
is establishing dominance
over yourself and your life's priorities.
Remember, women don't know what they want
but they respond to what they need
and that's why they respond to bad boys
because bad boys have
the positive traits of dominance
even though they have all these
also negative traits of dominance.
A woman will still take a man
who's dominant and bad
over a man who's got no dominance
and is good or the nice guy.
So, when you understand
a woman's true biological and psychological needs
your interactions with them
will be a lot smoother and more fun.
And the little word
that effectively communicates your dominance
and your commitment to your priorities
is no.
If you want to know
when and how to use it
to increase attraction
and when to definitely not use it
or risk getting rejected by a good one,
then you're going to want to watch my video
99% of all women are turned on by this word.
Go ahead and watch that now.
Thanks for being here, God bless.
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