if you treat someone like a celebrity then many times they will treat you like
a fan but the key to this is understanding that power dynamic in to
this video I'm going to show you exactly how to switch that around so that they
chase you welcome back to another video my name is Aaron and I help people
expand their consciousness now in this video I'm gonna show you why chasing
someone else is the problem in of itself and the energy dynamics that are going
on anytime we are chasing someone and I'm gonna show you exactly what to do
instead because when you switch this around it actually has the power dynamic
work in your favor now in general anytime you are attracting a specific
person into your life a lot of times what happens is we end up putting them
on this metaphorical pedestal so we put them high up on this pedestal and then
they are automatically further away now in my own life I've had many times where
this has happened especially early on when I began dating I started dating a
little bit later in life I was probably about 16 or 17 and I remember that one
of my first girlfriends that I ever had I really liked her we started dating and
then what happened is she started to pull away she started to pull away and I
started to feel that resistance and I would be thinking about her IV wondering
what is she doing and I would go and get in my head about it now
what happened was this was a time when my my dad divorced my ex stepmom for
those of you that don't know my story my extant mom was emotionally physically
and mentally abusive and controlling so my brother and I weren't allowed to have
friends before that so all the sudden you know when my dad divorced her at 15
16 years old now my brother and I are allowed to have friends now my brother
and I are allowed to even date so I had one of my first girlfriends and this is
like a whole new world and at the same time we started today I started to put
her on a pedestal and then I started chasing her hoping that she would like
come back to me and just like me and validate me and then what happened is I
started to realize that I started to become friends with a new group within
high school so there was like a new group of
that I started to be with and at the same time there was a couple you know
girls in that group that likes me and my brother both of us we were called the
Doughty Bros now what happened was is as that started happen my attention went
away from the one that I was chasing and all the sudden she could feel that
energetic pool of me not feeding her the attention and her and me not chasing her
anymore well I remember when that happened she then started to become
interested me again it was like she felt that energetic pool and then I remember
she would call me for like 2 or 3 weeks and I just wasn't as interested because
now I have this whole new group of friends and I realized that there were
many more opportunities than me putting this one person on a pedestal and it was
like 2 or 3 weeks of her colony calling me and then eventually it was just like
we just kind of got the hint got the picture however what changed was my own
energy once my energy changed that's when everything began to change with
this process is I didn't view her on the pedestal plus I then wasn't being the
cameo in her movie when it comes to attracting love into our life if we put
someone on a pedestal what we do is we put them vibrationally separate from us
we say I want you I want you and if you say I want you it means I don't have I
don't have you so and you know people aren't possessions anyways but the idea
behind this is that then we feel resistance we feel the resistance
because we feel the lack of that person not being in their life
now also think about the frame of this perspective when we come at it from the
frame of I want you and I lack the love and I wouldn't want you in my life
because then I can love myself more that's vibrationally what we're saying
without even knowing it what we are doing is externalizing our own happiness
plus we are trying to be the Cameo in their movie
now imagine this energy dance dynamic right here I really really want you I'm
chasing you if I could just have you in my life then I would feel so good so
complete and so whole would you just please come to me what if I was like
would you watch this video and like it would you please like this video I'd
really appreciate it if you would just like this video it makes me so happy do
you see that energy do you see that energy dynamic now the key is when
you're doing this when the specific person and you're putting them on a
pedestal you are trying to be the cameo in their movie and until you become the
star of your own movie that other person that you think as the star won't find
you attractive just like the quote at the beginning of
this if you treat someone like a celebrity they will treat you like a fan
the key to this is seeing it as natural as a part of your self-image for you to
be loved seen as natural for you to have your own things going on because you are
the star of your own movie you are the star you're a star honey let
me tell you that right now you're a star you are meant to be loved because you
love yourself you see and this is an interesting thing too I used to work
with this girl and she would she told me this event
always kind of stuck with me even though it's been a year it's been in probably
like six years she said that anytime she was in a
relationship and she was starting to date someone when that would happen she
would get hit on by like eight or nine guys in a week but prior to that if she
wasn't in that relationship and feeling that love from someone else she wouldn't
get approached eight times in a month or eight times in six months what is
happening there well what is happening is there's a different energy dynamic
that's going at play and when somebody then has someone else in their life they
met they then give themselves permission if you that love other people feel that
off of them they may feel more loved or more attractive and then everyone all
the Sun is hitting on that person so can you give yourself enough love can you
realize you are the star of your own movie can you develop your
gravity when you do this this is when the energy dynamic changes it is when
you switch up the vibration of what you are putting out now the thing to this
process that it's about its linking up your current self-image see let's just
use this metaphorical example if you view someone and you put them and you
say on a scale of 1 to 10 this is getting very superficial I understand
that on a scale of 1 to 10 this person it's like oh man like a 9 point 8 out of
10 and I though see myself as like a 5 well guess what when that person is
around you you're probably gonna feel resistance you're probably gonna hope
everything goes a certain way you're going to be very attached to outcome and
because of that that puts you into scarcity mode that puts you into
scarcity now when you're in scarcity it's not as attractive it doesn't have
its own gravity the other person will feel that resistance people feel what
you feel about yourself so when you change how you feel what will then
happen is they will then change how they feel about you as well all reality is on
the outside is a reflection of your internal state of your internal
vibration you could say vibration is another word for saying your your energy
state and when you change it you see it from that point of view this is where
everything begins to change now here's something I realized as well when it
comes to you know the thing with a specific person when we're trying to
attract a specific person out of the seven point eight eight billion people
however many people are on the planet and it's growing every day how many
people are on the planet we're saying that out of everyone on the planet I
only want you and when we do that what we end up doing is many times we get
into a scarcity mindset we get into scarcity because if things don't go
right with that one person there's no other options because I'm only focused
on this one specific person now this is the key to the process it is realizing
there are eight seven and a half plus billion people out in the world and by
putting only one person saying I want this one specific person you are
limiting your options and your ego wants that specific
person as well what if the universe could bring you someone that you
resonate with at even a deeper level what if any relationship you've ever
been in has been so powerful and it's showing you that maybe this one person
that you want to be with maybe it's showing you that there's
someone out there that could be even a deeper connection but you're not aware
of it because you're so focused on this one person he'll everything goes so the
key to this is understanding that you can shift into abundance mindset by
realizing your own self-worth by realizing your own value and when you
focus on your own value and you focus on really also doing what you love when you
do what you love you're at your core energy and your moat you always attract
what you are and if you're at your core energy you're gonna attract that
specific person to be in alignment with you or not in alignment with you but
you'd rather them know who you really are
I noticed that any time I was in prior relationship any time I would have that
of working a job I didn't like I would always attract relationships with people
that also work jobs they didn't blink because you always attract what you are
am doing I'm not doing what I love they also don't do what they love which means
we're there wasn't as much passion because we're not really happy with
ourselves what we're doing so the key is knowing that when you do that first and
you have the gravity first you then will have enough gravity and you could then
focus on being the star of your own movie and when you're not chasing them
when you give up the chase that's when everything begins to change imagine that
right now you are chasing a butterfly chasing a butterfly many time you won't
shit you won't catch that butterfly but if you were to just chill and relax you
may find that butterfly perches itself on your shoulder and what did you have
to do all you had to do was relax all you had to do was chill out a little bit
I used to work with this co-worker as well and we noticed that there was this
one guy we worked with and he was always a JC woman she
and chasey woman he wanted me in a relationship or wanted to date some
woman and she said something very interesting she said do you notice that
when anytime someone's chasing someone else it implies that the other person is
running you see so what if by you thinking you had to chase them you're
also resisting them and it's there in a way just playing off that energy dynamic
so if you switch that energy dynamic by going out and having fun with yourself
if you switch that dynamic by changing the way you relate to them you'll find
that then your energy becomes more attractive I've seen it happen so many
times with people that are in a relationship they break up one person
may be very devastated about it one person may really want it to work
out and maybe texting that X that other person then what happens is they go out
they have fun with their friend just kind of I was talking about the
beginning that happened when I was in high school they go the friends they
start to forget and not put so much attention on the other person that
they're thinking about and then all of a sudden that other person feels that
energetic pull and then taxes them says hey so what are you doing what are you
up to because they can feel that energetic pull go away so the key to
this is understanding that energy dynamic and knowing that you can pull
away by knowing your own work do things every day that you love doing realize
you are the star of your own movie focus on your own state of being focus on
doing what you love focus on about vina around friends now the thing is as well
have more fun have more fun normally attracting a specific person is so
serious would you just please like me it go out with me and everything just go
well if we have that perspective we put it on a pedestal and what ends up
happening from that point is we fell resistance they feel resistance then
they're running and we're chasing them and we're just trying to get them to be
in our movie would you just be in my movie I want to be a cameo in your movie
I want to be a cameo in your movie if I could be in your movie it would feel so
much better I'm gonna keep chasing you I'm gonna keep chasing you I see you
running I see you running can I just get a
I just get your number can I just talk to you this is the energy of chasing
instead imagine you just walk in and you're just suave cool you're having fun
with your friends you understand that you'd attract what
you are so you choose to be loving you choose to love yourself you choose to
see yourself you've linked up your self-image to knowing that you deserve
if you think yourself as a five and someone else's a nine point eight the
prana pedestal they will probably feel annoyed with the energy you're putting
out because you put out the energy of you are better than me they're playing
off that power dynamic the key to this is seeing yourself as a ten out of ten
and everyone else has a ten out of ten there's no judgment here there's no
ranking people that's just an analogy to show the link up the self image change
your self image and you change your life so this is the key to that process
now that's exactly why I make videos like this to help show you the different
energy dynamics that are at play so you can create the life of your dreams get
out of feeling stuck and if you haven't already hit that subscribe button below
I got a lot more videos coming I'm gonna be doing a lot more videos like this
outside as well also the most powerful meditation that I have for attracting
love it has over 1.2 million views on YouTube read the comments of that so
many people say that that meditation is what attracted love into their life
read the comments to see what's possible then listen to it for 21 days
I'll link it below it's the attractive love meditation listed for 21 days I
think it'll change your life so with that being said I hope you enjoyed this
video peace much love and on the state