I still remember my very first breast-gasm
many years ago. It was beautiful, powerful and really blissful. My partner
kept stimulating my breasts and this pleasure energy just kept
growing steadily in my chest area, until it finally
exploded in the most amazing way. And these
ripples and waves of sweet orgasmic energy
kept flowing through my entire system for quite a while,
which really surprised me back then. My name is Helena Nista and I am a sex
therapist and a Tantra practitioner. I make videos about great sex, legendary
pleasure, about Tantra and passionate relationships.
And today I'm going to tell you how to give your
partner a breast-gasm. Most of the people I speak to
have no idea that they can give each other
orgasmic experiences located in different parts
of their bodies. When they are in bed, they typically concentrate on their
genital area, they concentrate their touch and stimulation
on their genitalia. And even if there is some foreplay and
kissing involved first, that kind of touch is
considered more an entree before the main meal,
being the penetration or oral sex. And the truth is the entire body is one big
erogenous zone and we can stimulate the body to an ecstatic peak,
to an ecstatic climax in many different areas - pretty much
anywhere where the body can feel pleasure. So how to give your partner
a breast-gasm? Preparing the space so that your partner can fully relax
is always helpful. Make sure to tidy up the area, maybe bring some extra cushions
or blankets so that she can be more comfortable. You can even decorate it
with some candles or flowers, or bring incense sticks,
or some relaxing music to really help her out.
Next, invite your partner in and start gently caressing and stroking her entire
body. Make sure that your touch is really slow
and gentle, almost feather-light in the way you're touching her.
And let go of any goals at this stage, don't expect
anything to happen. Purely allow your partner to surrender
to your relaxing touch. Invite her to breathe and to stay present in her
experience. We all tend to get distracted, even in
the moments of pleasure. The active minds keep pulling us away
from what's happening in the body. And there's just no way we can have
amazing ecstatic experiences when the mind is occupied somewhere else.
So, keep reminding her to be present and to
breathe deeply. Her breath can actually keep grounding
her in her body so that she can really feel deeply
all the most subtle and the more intense sensations in her
body. When you start touching her breasts, do
it gently and lightly. Allow your fingers to wander
sort of around each breast one at a time and then both of them together.
You can sort of knead them as well and caress them, and vibrate them etc
But don't touch her nipples at this stage, the nipples are very sensitive so
you don't want to start with them. You can sort of come closer and closer
to the areola and then backing away, sort of
teasing your partner this way. You can also
allow your fingers to move out to the rest of her body,
to wander down and caress her belly and her legs and then to wander up to her neck
and to her face, and down her arms. And this will really
help her pleasure energy to move and expand through her
entire body. When she's ready for more, you can
include the nipples. So start by gently tracing
the areola with your fingers, on obviously both
breasts. Then you can start sort of stroking her
nipples in different ways, you can roll them between your fingers or you
can even start pinching them. This will keep releasing
pleasure hormones through her entire body. And make sure here to also
keep varying the pressure of your touch between
lighter and firmer strokes. Edging is a very powerful technique here but
you really need to keep watching her body and noticing what's
happening with her. When she is reaching high states of
arousal, encourage her to breathe and move your
strokes away from her breasts and keep touching & stroking the rest of her body.
And when she's calm and relaxed again
you can start building up the pleasure and charge,
sexual charge in her breasts again. This kind of dance between
arousal and relaxation is going to help her to experience
even more pleasure and to channel that pleasure through her entire system.
This process should take at least half an hour. The more you tease her and
arouse her, the more powerful her breast-gasm will be.
The quick and rushed sessions of breast touch or breast massage are just
usually not enough for a woman to build up enough
erotic charge and energy for any kind of climax.
So, make sure to enjoy yourself here because if you're not
then it's not likely that she will. And if you would like to learn more
make sure to check out my Tantric Mastery for Men online course
which is packed with my most powerful and efficient
tools and practices that will allow YOU to become the best
lover you can possibly be.