﻿The REAL Reason Women OBSESS Over A Man's Shoes
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So, a few months back, I’m in Austin, Texas with my son going
to a Formula 1. It’s pretty exciting. We’ve never been to something like this.
And, as we go up there, a woman takes our tickets, looks down and says, “I love your Gucci loafers.”
Notice that she just didn’t just know the style of the shoe, but also the brand,
which leads us to the question, why are women so obsessed with man’s shoes? [sound effect]
Seriously, if you watched any video, read any article about things
a woman first notices on a man, shoes are going to be at the top of the list. So,
the question is, why? [Music]
Well, if you believe Cosmopolitan or some of these other women’s periodicals,
apparently you can tell a lot from a man’s shoes. Women can tell, hey, about his personality,
what profession, what he does for a living. You can even tell how he’s going to be in bed.
All right. So, I’ll admit I made up that last one. And I do see if you’ve got a profession
where you need to be able to protect your feet and need a good grip, where the shoes you’re
wearing will talk about the work that you do. But, in general, I don’t think shoes say a whole
lot about a man’s personality. Yeah, you know, you may wear a pair of shoes like this and it shows
that you’re stylish, but I think guys are a lot more than this. And I don’t think it’s the main
reason that women pay attention to footwear. Now, what about money? What about wealth?
What about status? This is oftentimes linked to footwear and historically,
this is accurate. You go back a few hundred years, shoes incredibly expensive. The only people that
could afford shoes especially shoes with a heel meant that you are riding a horse. It meant that
you have means that you have the ability to be able to have something handcrafted for you,
because all shoes were handmade one at a time. And even today, you could argue that, yeah,
if the guy is wearing dress shoes, this indicates that he has a white collar job.
But, anyone that works in the trades can tell you that’s not a real indicator of wealth.
In fact, there were tons of guys out there that own plumbing companies,
electrical companies that do welding work and make a lot more than a guy working in an office.
So, yes, there are some women out there that will look at a man’s shoes and say,
you know what? This is an indicator that he has wealth that he has status. But, I don’t think
it’s as big of a deal as it used to be because tons of guys out there can get great looking
shoes at 99 bucks. Women know this and it’s just not the wealth indicator it used to be.
So, what about style? Is it something when a woman looks the man’s shoes, she can make an
indication that, you know what? This guy gets it. He’s got style. This guy cares about esthetics.
I think to a level, she can make that decision. But is that important to her? Some women,
it’s going to be more important than not. But to me, it isn’t the main reason
why women pay attention to footwear. So, what about attention to detail? What
about cleanliness? I’ve talked about it many times how women want clean guys. Seriously,
when it comes to your oral hygiene, when it comes to your skin, when it comes to your nails,
the ladies pay attention to this. I mean, it’s obvious, shower every single day, seriously.
Guys, women care about this. They’ve got an entire forum dedicated to why this guy was perfect except
for the fact that he smell. He didn’t take care of his, yeah. Guys, what’s up with that? But,
is that the main reason that they pay attention to our shoes? The answer is no.
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All right. At this point, some of you guys are getting a little bit impatient saying,
“Antonio, just tell me why do women obsess? Why do they care so much about men’s shoes?”
And the answer is the Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon also called the frequency
illusion. The frequency illusion works in that whenever we become aware of something,
we spend money on it, we actually purchase let’s say a nice pair of shoes. We start to notice
everyone else that has a nice pair of shoes. So, my family recently purchased a Subaru Outback,
great vehicle, love it. But, what I noticed is that everybody in Wisconsin and Minnesota and the
Midwest it seems has a Subaru Outback. I didn’t really realize that Subarus were everywhere.
Anyone that rides a motorcycle, Harley Davidson, you notice all types of bikes,
but you particularly notice Harley Davidsons. Jeep riders, everyone, you know, they got the
Jeep Wave. [0:04:57]
Point being is this frequency phenomenon, this frequency illusion is why and these women
that pay attention to men’s shoes, guess what? They’re also paying attention to women’s shoes.
Anyone that spends good money on footwear, gets into boots, gets into any particular style item
even if it’s watches. They start to pay attention to other people that wear watches
that spend good money on quality footwear. Now, gents, if you’re enjoying today’s video,
do me a favor and smash that like button. Seriously, by engaging with that like button,
you are helping men find these videos and stopping men from wearing square toed shoes.
I have no idea why any man would ever want to wear, yes, a shoe like this. I keep this for
instructional purposes. Believe me, it really just it pains me to even hold this thing.
And if you’re curious to find out why square toed shoes are the work of the devil, guys,
I’ve got you covered in this video right here. Seriously, I have a lot of fun in this video.
I talk about some other things that you should avoid. But, yeah, click it right here and learn,
yeah, why you do not want to wear these. [0:05:54] End of audio