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In the back of your mind, are you scared that I'll walk away?
Yeah, what if you met someone new?
What if you felt that this person without a past
You know, it's just exactly I am, no past
no accompaniment, no liability.
Especially you get to travel, you travel a lot.
As my partner, it's so far away.
I only get to see you on FaceTime or Skype.
I don't really get to touch you, to see you, to spend a current time with you
What if, you know, when you need me and I'm at work because a time difference-
What if someone is there for you before me?
You know, what can I do about it? I cannot do anything.
R: Mm-hm
You just need to have faith and trust in me then.
C: Yeah
And, I'm living on that.
You see, I know the need-
why it needs to be done.
It just...
I can't help it.
Yeah, when I-
Am I worried?
Yes, all the time.
I mean it's like, from day one
I always tell you that
I always need to be away.
And I know where you come from.
So, I'm very watchful about what I do when I'm overseas?
I have fun, I go I meet friends, you know
But it's always at the back of my mind
I know that I have a girlfriend back home, waiting for me.
Yeah, not only you, I have a family to you.
Who's really looking for me to be back?
And I don't want to lose that for any reasons.
I will never, never lose that for anything.
I think especially the last year,
when I was really really going through my
C: Lowest point
R: Lowest point in my life.
C: 9 months
Nobody else was there, besides you.
And if you can be there when I was sitting my rock bottom,
definitely you deserve to be there when I'm back ahead, at top.
I'm waiting for that back.
So no, walking away is not even an option for me.
I love you.
I love you more.
Hmm
How has my divorce affected our relationship?
R: Not at all
You know exactly what you want.
You are no longer the type of girl that you used to be.
When you were young- you have grown up a lot.
You know exactly the meaning of a family.
You know how much you love kids, how much you want to start a family together.
And how much you want
from your man.
Being in a wrong, long relationship and getting out of it
is the same experience. The only difference is just the paper
So being divorced or not, I think is-
it's the individual yourself.
See what you learn from your past
then you try not to make the same mistake again.
Then you move on from there, for a better future.
And I think
not in anyway, your divorce affects me.
None.
When you feel closest to me?
Probably when you are vulnerable.
Because when you are vulnerable you don't have any guts.
You just lower everything down.
You have nothing.
And that's where I really can read you
I get to you.
I understand you.
And that's when I feel the most closest to you.
No, this is just poking my leg.
Try harder.
What's the pain in me you would like to heal?
The pain of you to- wanting to have kids.
I think that's the...
the biggest.
And there will be definitely
one of it.
Stop crying!
C: I'm crying!
Yeah, your love for kids and
how much you want to have your own kids.
C: Thank you
R: Thank you
How much you want to have your own kids.
C: Yeah
Whether it be because of your medical condition
or the circumstances doesn't really allow you to do so,
C: Yep
R: Yep
I think that's the biggest pain that you have.
C: That's true.
R: Soon, soon, soon
C: I would love to have-
R: I would love to have kids with you.
Definitely.
C: Yeah
R: More please
C: No, I'm not
R: Next
Is it mine or yours?
R: Yours
Ah, why do you love me?
C: How can you not love me, right?
R: No, I'm thinking where do I start?
C: ooh okay
Why do I love you?
Why do I need to find a reason to love you?
There's always a reason to love.
There's always something that intrigues you, to trigger you to fall in love with me again and again.
I assume.
R: Everyday, definitely
C: So why?
It's just the way you are.
Like from day one.
C: the million dollar question
R: Definitely not the million dollar question, no
that will hit me big time, if it was someone else
but luckily it was you.
Yeah
C: You're fine
Why do I love you?
I think it's...
how you are towards me.
I don't worry about how you are towards the rest of the people
or anyone around you.
But what matters most to me is how you are towards me.
And you love me unconditionally,
definitely.
I got no doubt about it
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