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I'm really focusing here on falling in
love i recently dealt with a bout of
heartache over having
fallen in love with someone and then
having lost that first they're not lost
them to death or anything it's just they
decided they had other plans and we've
almost of us have experienced that and
it can be rather devastating to feel
rather devastating it certainly helps if
you understand what's happening to you
and this can be broken down with NLP its
sights have shown that a person who is
falling in love over who has fallen in
love their brainwaves are very similar
to someone who has obsessive-compulsive
behavior are was demonstrating
obsessive-compulsive behavior
this shouldn't be very surprising because
when we fall in love that's sort of what
happens we become a bit obsessive and
compulsive we do things that we wouldn't
normally do because we're feeling such
strong emotions and we want more of that
falling in love is nothing more than a
program just like all the programs that
you will discover when you're learning
NLP and discovering your own unconscious
programs reason why love is so powerful
is because it's so unconscious when we
fall in love it's like we're not trying
to do anything is sort of just happening
our mind fixates on a particular person
and out of that we experience feelings
that we don't normally experience from
day to day and normally with
other people
this can be broken down into an exact
program or process as it happens to you
it can be modeled there is a way in
which you make an image of this person
or movie of the person you're falling in
love with and you're attaching certain
images
to it is like your anchor to those
images or maybe your anchor to that
person's voice from both and this keeps
replaying in your mind repeatedly until
it builds that emotion over and over
until you think that you absolutely
positively need this person and arms
feel that way the good news is you don't
and you these feelings are coming from
you
so having that understanding that you
are creating this lets you know that
this is something that you're creating
and you don't even necessarily need that
the person now when i explained things
like this about an update about love
people kind of get upset they want that
mysterious romantic love that they
experience and as a person who has
fallen in love many times and who
understands how these programs and
processes work i have to say it has
never gotten any less mysterious and any
less romantic it's still wonderful and
beautiful and i will fall in love again
hopefully many times and not just with
people but with my interest and things
and places and this is part of what
makes us humans so to be able to explain
it together break it down to me it it
may answer some questions but it only
creates more questions for example when
we discovered that the earth was round
it didn't suddenly take all the mystery
of the universe actually that was just
probably the beginning of starting to
learn and understand all mysteries in
the universe and more we understand and
learn the more mysterious it becomes and
the more we fall in love with this
amazing life that we're living to
understand how we fall in love and
understand how you're making that happen
as far as what do you hear what are you
seeing your
Colonel experience that can help you
deal with heartbreak that can help you
deal with the loss that can help we
can't control a lot of people that
people have their own minds in their own
feelings and you can fall in love with
them that doesn't mean they're going to
fall in love with you or it doesn't mean
that they're going to stay with you so
why not understand this process and
understand it is a process and in
knowing that you could actually change
some things within how you're creating
it and understanding how you fall in
love through an LP and being able to
lessen heartache and lessen the feeling
of that heartbreak brings along this is
in no way like that Jim Carrey movie
eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
where they're actually trying to remove
the person from your mind remove the
person from i order to remove the
feelings from you this is not about
creating some sort of Indonesia and
pretending like you didn't have this
experience and I don't know about you
but every time I fall in love I haven't
regretted one single time i would not
give myself and asia as my mentor Steve
Andres a spate when I was going through
some of this and he asked me well would
if i could give you a diva and make you
not remember this experience for this
feet so that you could save yourself
this feeling would you do in a set of
course i would not so we don't want to
we don't want to remove the feeling we
don't want to remove this experience
follow everything we fought a lot
especially when we fall out of love are
we we have our hearts broken this
evolves us this makes us stronger it's
like getting sick and then recovering
we get better and stronger s people and
when you understand that love is just a
program that you're going through you
can tweak it and change it so that when
you're experiencing heartbreak you can
lessen that feeling of heartbreak and
not dead in the pain and not make you
forget what happened but put the
pictures and the images and sounds and
certain places around you so that you
can get on with your day and so that you
don't become depressed and that you can
appreciate the experience and still move
forward and leave that door open to
maybe getting back with that person at
that
some changes our mind or leaving that
door open so that you can fall again
sort of like you you drink too much and
you get a hangover and the next day I
can explain to you scientifically why
years why you're feeling like shit off a
hangover is not going to necessarily
make the hangover go go by any faster is
not gonna necessarily make you feel
better but there are some things that
you can do like hydrating yourself and
maybe taking a Tylenol or aspirin to
make you to make you feel better there
are things that you can do and that's
the same thing when I don't be there are
definitely things you can do when you're
experiencing heartbreak that can make
you feel better and get over the
heartbreak faster and at the same time
still maintain the integrity of that
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