On today's video I feel very inspired because yesterday's video was all about
how to get a girl to chase you over text message which is great. But then how do
you know if a girl is flirting with you over text? Be careful, don't get too
caught up in text messages okay. I really need to give you this advice. You need to
understand this. The second you get too caught up in crafting the perfect text
message, finding out if she's flirting with you
and all those things, you get into trouble. I know I'm making videos for you
to understand these things but the key to texting, the point to texting
is all about getting her to meet up so eventually you have to seal the deal.
That means that you need to be in front of her. Use texting to get in
front of her. To learn how to do that and to pull the trigger to get her
in front of you, I want you to get my 7 text messages that she can't
resist. I'm gonna put a link in the description below so you can get that
okay. Remember texting is all about getting her in person. Let me show you
real quick with someone wrote in my secret Facebook group called Tripp's
Corner. Check this out. Fellas what would be a good response to
say when a girl texts you saying this, you never texted me back loser. Let me
spell this out to you really quickly. That girl is into you. Here's
the thing this is why flirting is difficult for men. The reason is because
flirting can sometimes seem very counterintuitive. It can seem like the
very opposite of what you would have to do to get a girl attracted to you and
this is a prime example of that. She's saying in here oh you
didn't get back to me you loser. This is not her trying to be mean. This is not
her mad at you. This is her flirting with you in two forms. First. she's
teasing you. She's calling you a loser. She doesn't really mean that. She's not
really mad at you. If a girl didn't like you, she just wouldn't text you. She wouldn't
bother calling you a loser and the second thing is she wanted you to text
her back. She's actually frustrated that you were not trying to get in touch with her.
Listen I get it man, it's weird, it's very strange it's like why if
someone is interested are they acting sort of uninterested? Why does teasing
work when you're with the girl when you're flirting with her what is it?
It's something about the idea of being subtle
that makes things just a little bit more attractive. It's like wanting what we
can't have. It's like we're trying to show
them subtly that we're not interested, that you can't have us and that makes
the chase that much more fun and that's what builds the attraction that creates
an emotional spike when you're doing something like this and that emotional
spike is what creates attraction.
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Now here in Ao Nang staying at Slumber Party Hostel. Gonna be here for a
little under a week and I don't know what's gonna happen because apparently
this is a crazy party hostel. In fact their Wi-Fi password is go **** yourself.
How else are you supposed to be able to tell if a girl is flirting with you over
text? Well if she's texting you and she's texting you first, that's a big sign. That
means that she wants to talk to you, that means as interested in communicating
with you and that my friend is flirting. Now here are some more obvious
ones if you've missed these; if she's sending like heart emojis, wink face
emojis, lots of lol's because she's laughing and giggling because you guys
were saying funny things. All that stuff is flirting over text but there's really
no biggest sign that a girl is flirting with you, other than this...she's agreeing
to meet up with you. Remember earlier I said that you want to check out my 7
deadly text messages that she can't resist to be able to ask her out?
When she says yes I mean well what am I saying this is
beyond flirting, she likes you she wants to meet with you. The ultimate sign that
a girl is interested in you is that she wants to spend physical time with you.
She's in person with you so make sure you're asking her out. "This is break.
When you stand, you sit and you move side." Yeah, I've driven before. She was
acting like I've never driven a scooter before. Come on does it look like I've never
driven a scooter before? We got in a bike accident.
Yeah maybe. Al right got my new scooter off back to the co-working space to
upload at this exact video. Just had an almost very close call with this camera.
Just got completely caught in the heavy downpour literally ten seconds
before I made it to the co-working space. This is gonna be an interesting week.
Before I end this video, let's talk really quickly about response times. I
know that guys get really caught up in this idea of when she responds, how fast
she responds, how fast should you respond. You're overthinking it honestly let's
stop overthinking this. Response times don't matter.
The only response that matters is her saying yes to going out with you. She can
say that a day later if you send a text. I don't care she can send it two seconds
later. It's her responding to it all and engaging with you and communicating with
you and eventually going out with you. How fast do you respond? I don't know maybe
I'll make a whole other video on that because there is a little bit of a
technique there. Even if you never end up watching that video, it doesn't matter.
Just send the text messages. That's it for now, keep following my journey for
the next week here while I'm in Ao Nang and Krabi at the Slumber Party Hostel
and I'll see you on the next video. Keep in touch. I'll see you in the comments.