you have put in all of the hard work the impressive dates the flirting
using the right body language and saying all of the right things so why does the
girl that you are dating seem uninterested it is at this point that it can be hard to tell
if she likes you or not it's important however that you tell quickly otherwise you could spend
ages chasing this girl only to realize she's not actually interested in you romantically then not
only have you wasted your time but you've missed out on the potential of other ladies that were
interested in you it's a lose-lose situation and it's a shame because it's one that can be avoided
and in today's video i'm going to tell you what girls do when they don't like a guy romantically
and once you know the signs to look out for it's much easier to withdraw from a situation early
and be able to move on rather than get friend-zoned like and subscribe let's go
she takes ages to reply to your messages when this happens we normally start to come up with
all sorts of excuses as to why the other person is not replying to our messages we find ourselves
checking those messages over and over again our phones feel like they are strapped to our hands
at all times and it can even drive us a little bit crazy you might tell yourself that she is
just really busy or she's working all the time the truth is that if someone really wants to speak to
you they will always make the time there's always five minutes in the day to send someone a message
and let's face it we all have our phones on us all the time right we see everything that goes
in and out there's no excuse so if she takes ages to reply to your text it's because you are not
as important to her as you may think when she does reply to your texts her answers are always
blunt when she eventually manages to reply it's short and sweet you could call it blunt even
there's no excitement or happiness in those messages you send her long messages asking her
about her day and talking about how your own day is going only for her to send you one word answers
kind of feels like she's icing you out and that's really well that's what she's doing she's trying
to show you that she does not like you because if she likes you romantically she will be sending you
lovely long messages not short unemotional ones a lot of guys may refuse to admit the truth and
they could think uh she's just busy or she's got a lot going on now of course this can be true
however if someone is busy and they end up sending you a blunt text they will think oh my gosh i've
ruined all my chances and then she will offer an apology and make up for it put it this way if
you were just starting to date someone you would always be putting your best foot forwards right
she constantly flakes on dates you've plucked up the courage to ask her out and she accepted
so you organize a super romantic date only for her to cancel at the last minute you feel disappointed
and very confused why would she cancel right before you are both going to meet up it's because
she's probably not romantically interested in you and she's kind of leading you on it's not a nice
thing to do at all so take it as a sign to move on and let her relationship with you end naturally
when you do see her she avoids physical contact if she does turn up to the date you will notice she
avoids physical contact completely she sits or she stands away from you and never tries to touch you
if you put your hands on her shoulder she's going to look uncomfortable and kind of shuffle away
this is a classic sign that she does not romantically like you when we like someone we want
them to touch us and we want to touch them we try to break the touch barrier so if someone is trying
to avoid it it's not good news she might actually be very cautious of touching you or nervous so
maybe look for other signs that she is suffering from nerves before backing away completely
she talks about other men she makes little comments about good-looking men that she sees
when you were both on a date or she mentions some guys that she's been spending time with
she might not be doing this on purpose but she's doing it because she's not romantically interested
sometimes girls automatically do it when they don't like a guy to try and gently let them
know that they don't have any feelings if you notice this you should bring it up with her and
ask her to be truthful about how she feels about you she brings up her ex-boyfriend a lot if she's
constantly comparing you to her ex-boyfriend and talking about past experiences that she has had
with him she's probably still in love with him and might not even realize it when she does though she
will leave you and chase after him so you are much better to notice this pattern of behavior as soon
as possible and leave her before she leaves you she never makes the plans and leaves that to you
she never asks you if you would like to do something or go on a date she leaves it all up
to you you suggest and organize every date which at the beginning you might not even think about
but after a while though you will realize that you are doing all of that heavy lifting and she's just
turning up girls are normally natural organizers and they love to arrange things so if she's not
offering to do this it's most likely because she's just not that interested or invested she looks
uninterested when you are talking you are telling her all about your day at work and she has that
plain look on her face she's not nodding back to you or replying to what you are saying she's
simply uninterested you might think that she has a lot on her mind but as i've said earlier on in the
video if she really liked you then she would put in the extra effort to impress you this is a sign
of how she feels and you are better to just break things off she never asks you about you you find
yourself always asking about her but she never asks you about yourself you ask her questions
about her job hobbies and friends she answers them and tells you what you want to hear but then does
not reciprocate it by asking you any questions she is not romantically interested in you at all
sadly she might just have wanted to go on a date for some free food and to string you along
she never makes any effort she does not phone does not text arrange dates she doesn't talk to you
very much and she forgets those important things that you have told her basically she puts in
zero effort into you and the relationship and this can really knock your confidence and make
you feel like you are not good enough you are good enough you are not supposed to be with this girl
who will bring you down there is another lady out there who will fall in love with you and treat you
much better you are better to tap out early to avoid too much of your confidence being taken the
longer that you stay the more painful it will be when it ends she tells you that she's not into you
if she sits you down and tells you that she's not into you it's important that you listen
sometimes we block out things that we don't want to hear we ignore what someone says because we
don't want to get hurt this is not the solution though because if she does not feel the same way
there is no point forcing it you could try and go on more dates with her but you were just wasting
your time because she's made up her mind and you know the answer it's much better to leave things
on a good note as well because you never know in the future you might meet again and she might fall
head over heels for you there you go we've reached the end of the video
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