The idea of meeting your soulmate isn’t just the stuff of rom-coms. It’s for everyday people, too.
Hi viewers and welcome back to another Bestie video! A soulmate is someone who has a profound
impact on you. She is your fellow traveler on the journey of life.
Unfortunately, it’s common to go for decades without finding “the one”
and may start to feel like a foolish fantasy. However, if you look around,
you’ll see there are couples who prove that soulmates are real. In today’s video,
we’ll talk about signs they’re your soulmate. From motivating you to be healthy,
making you feel complete, remembering everything, respecting your differences
to supporting you like no other and more, watch till the end to learn about all of them.
She brings out the best in you:
When you’re with your soulmate, you’ll probably be comfortable doing things that would have made
your former self think “absolutely not.” She will put you at ease even in the most
anxiety-inducing situations. Singing karaoke together in front of a huge crowd? No sweat.
Quitting your jobs and moving across the country together to pursue your dreams? Done deal. Not
only will she support your good qualities, she’ll bring out strengths you didn’t even know you had.
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She motivates you to be healthy: Whether it’s to drink more water, scheduling a follow-up with your
dentist, or intervening before you eat a whole box of cookies pushing you to be healthy could
be a sign that she’s your soulmate. This is because she wants to keep you around,
and she’s not afraid to challenge your bad habits so you become your best, healthiest self. As long
as you’re not feeling forced into changing who you truly are, we’d call this a win-win.
You’ve survived a road trip together: Cruising down the open road with your soulmate seems
idyllic at first. You’ve got your playlists, your snacks, and you’re ready for an adventure.
But inevitably, there are probably going to be a few bumps along the way. Flash forward
to about six hours into your 20-hour journey, when you’ve been sitting in the same cramped position
for hours, one of you is tired of driving, and you can’t agree on windows up or down.
No matter how much you and your partner love each other,
being confined in such a small space can amplify even the silliest of disagreements.
Arguing doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed, in fact,
successfully recovering from any disagreement can actually strengthen your relationship over time.
If you’ve had a less-than-romantic road trip with your partner and lived to tell the tale,
it’s a good indicator you’ll be able to handle similarly tense moments in the future.
She challenges you: Your soulmate should bring out the best in you, and that could mean pushing you
a little. Yes, you should admire and respect your bae and who they are. But you should also motivate
them to reach their goals, to try a little harder when they need a nudge, and help their personal
development. Relationships are all about growth and soulmates help each other grow together.
Her hugs work like magic: After a bad day her arms are your “go-to” place.
Even a two-minute hug takes all the stress away. Her hugs are more effective than spa treatments.
When you are in her arms, all the worries related to your work or family just vanish.
If you’re wondering how to recognize a soulmate connection, pay attention to how that person
makes you feel. If she feels like home or a safe escape from worldly worries, she’s your soulmate.
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She’s different but similar to you: You may be polar opposites in more ways than you can count.
One may like rock music while the other might like jazz.
Yet, you still fell for each other. When you both connect, you find you’re actually quite similar.
You both could share qualities like empathy and generosity, which you connected on before really
knowing one another. This is because your soul recognized the real person under all those layers.
She gets you: You may have been misunderstood all your life, until finally, THIS person just
gets you. That’s what makes crossing paths with your soulmate so special.
She will always know the right thing to say or do when you’re having a bad day.
Whatever you’re thinking, you don’t need to say. She already knows.
She makes you feel complete:
There are parts of you that you never understood. Maybe it’s your hot temper, your awkward jokes or
your horrible cooking. Somehow, this person is able to do the things that you can’t,
can feel things that you don’t, because you are made to complete each other.
You might be an extrovert and she might be an introvert. The point is, you have individual
differences that, when combined, creates a complimentary person. These differences bring
you closer to each other. She makes you a better person by balancing your strengths and weaknesses.
She remembers everything in your relationship: Outside of your relationship,
your partner could have the worst memory in the world. But if she’s constantly surprising you
by recalling little things that have happened throughout your relationship, it’s one of the
biggest signs that someone is your soulmate. We’re not just talking about remembering
birthdays and major milestones. A soulmate will make mental notes about the little things.
Things like the first text you sent or the moment she knew she was in love with you.
She supports you: We are sometimes weighed down by the difficulties of life.
At such times, a supportive shoulder would be appreciated.
You can be vulnerable around this person, and know they’re in your corner.
In the same way, if she isn’t afraid of showing you her most vulnerable self,
she might be “the one.” The bottom line is that partners who always
bottle up their vulnerability are not bonded in quite the same way.
She respects your differences: If she ridicules your beliefs, hobbies, and interests, she might
not be your soulmate. A loving partner is supposed to recognize, respect, and support your choices no
matter what. Besides, you can’t have everything in common, that would be like dating a mirror,
and very boring. A partner that doesn’t shame you for your beliefs and values is one in a million.
If she doesn’t respect your differences, doesn’t respect you, chances are you might be in a
toxic relationship. Learn more by watching “17 Warning Signs You Are In A Toxic Relationship”
Now, back to Unbeatable Signs She’s Your Soulmate
She lets you be yourself: In every new relationship, it’s normal to project
your best self to your new lover. But if you always catch yourself putting extra effort
to look perfect or be on your absolute best behaviour - you aren’t soulmates.
Soulmates often feel familiar around each other. It's easier to relax into that person and allow
themselves to be vulnerable. Soulmates are always comfortable and relaxed around each
other so that they can display their true selves despite their imperfections. So,
if you can easily be yourself around your partner, you may have found “the one”.
You’re always talking about her: Now there are two aspects to this. At the beginning of the
relationship, you can’t stop talking about them and you definitely can’t stop thinking of them.
And then, a few months into the relationship,
you see a sudden shift. You think about her all the time. She’s constantly in your thoughts.
But it’s not obsessive, and you don’t see the need to talk about her with others.
You feel a calm sense of euphoria about being in a relationship with her.
And you see no need or reason to talk about your relationship with others. You’re blissfully happy,
and someone else’s opinions or their feedback makes no difference to you.
You have no second thoughts, and no need to prove your love for her.
She’s your best friend: There’s a myth that romantic partners can’t be close friends.
But really, a strong friendship is a foundation for any lasting romance.
When you meet your soulmate, you also meet your best friend!
It is still important to have friends outside the relationship. Being your soulmate's best
friend simply means you just “get” each other on a deeper level. You share a sense of humor,
and you quickly become each other’s number one source of support.
Finding your soulmate is one thing, the more challenging part is making sure that relationship
lasts. And that requires continuous work and a lot of other things. Learn more by watching:
15 Proven Ways To Build A Strong Intimate Relationship
Or
14 Ways To Keep The Spark Alive In Your Relationship
So go ahead and watch one or both the videos if you want your relationship
to last a lifetime. Do you have a soulmate? Let us know in the comments section below!