hey everyone and welcome to top think today we're going to learn about seven signs you've found your
soulmate now let's begin number one unconditional support your soulmate is your biggest fan they'll
stand on the sidelines cheering you on every step of the way because they want to see you
succeed they want you to accomplish your goals and achieve your dreams because your happiness matters
to your soulmate personal happiness is a common source of conflict in relationships partners
care about their own happiness and the happiness of the relationship but does your partner care
about your personal happiness do they want you to succeed and achieve even if that means sacrificing
their own wants and needs all right let's say for example that you get an amazing opportunity for
your career to pursue this opportunity you have to travel overseas now a selfish partner may stop you
from going they don't want you to leave them alone for so long or maybe they're worried that your
relationship will fall apart now a soulmate would never stand in the way of your personal dreams
because they know that your dreams will make you happy and that makes them happy so even if they'll
be lonely without you even if they're worried about what might happen in the future a soul mate
gives you their unconditional support because your happiness is their number one priority
number two vulnerable trust a soul mate feels like home spending time with your soul mate eases your
nerves holding their hand cuts your anxiety in half just talking to your soul mate puts you
in a more positive state of mind in other words your soul mate helps you relax and escape from
the rest of the world why do soul mates make us feel comfortable and safe well the answer revolves
around one word and that's trust your soulmate is someone you can trust with all of your heart
you trust them with your secrets you trust them with your weaknesses you're not afraid to show
them every aspect of your personality in the same way your soulmate isn't afraid to show you their
weaknesses either because you both genuinely trust each other without this strong bond you'd never
really be comfortable around your partner you'd stay on your guard every time your partner's in
the room according to relationship psychologists a distrusting relationship significantly increases
your stress levels but why is that well because you can't be yourself all right let's say you
get home from work and you just want to relax but you're afraid to let your partner see you
in sweatpants or without your makeup if you don't trust your partner enough to bring down your walls
well they may not be your soul mate but if you can be yourself around your partner
if their presence feels like a safe haven well then you may have found your perfect match
number three core similarities do you and your partner share the same values soul mates can
be very different people you may be shy and risk averse while your partner's outgoing and impulsive
you may love reading for hours on the couch while your partner likes to be athletic and social your
personalities may differ in obvious ways but the core of who you are may be exactly the same while
interests passions and preferences are important our beliefs and values decide what kind of people
we really are do you value kindness above all else does your life revolve around your family are you
constantly in pursuit of greater goals or do you simply want to make yourself happy in the present
your answers will lead you down different paths in life they fuel your most important decisions
and they motivate your greatest sacrifices so do you and your partner share the same values
are you both work oriented do you both value family which is more important to each of you
loyalty or self-respect adventure or stability you and your soulmate share the same core values
even if you seem like different people your lives will be headed in the same direction
you can understand how and why the other person makes their decisions because you
understand each other's points of view and you share a similar perspective on life so don't
worry if you and your partner have opposite traits don't worry if they like things that you don't
the truth is if you have like-minded values your differing personalities may complement each other
perfectly number four love at your worst has your partner seen you at your worst i mean hitting rock
bottom scares people off sometimes when the going gets rough you can tell the difference
between a regular partner and a soulmate imagine you just lost your job after years of motivation
and success you begin to struggle your passion fades you fall back into old habits and the
quality of your life crumbles would your partner stick by you or leave you to survive on your own
if your partner loves you at your best but leaves you at your worst well you've not found
your soul mates because your soul mate will love you no matter what state your life is in
whether you're struggling or succeeding this person is by your side every step of the way
they're always rooting for you they're always proud of you and they're always excited to see
what you're going to do next so don't settle for someone who only loves you at your best
instead recognize the people who stick through thick and thin if you
find someone who loves you at your best and your worst you may have found your soulmate
number five finding your teacher a soul mate is not just a friend or a partner a soul mate enters
your life to teach you something a soul mate challenges you pushes you and helps you improve
they encourage you to chase your passions and motivate you to abandon your vices throughout your
life your soul mate will be one of your greatest teachers and also your favorite student because
your soulmate isn't there just to teach you you have just as many lessons to teach them just
think about your current partner or any of your past relationships did your partner challenge you
did they push you did they motivate you have you ever known someone who breaks down your walls
recognizes your insecurities and works with you to improve now on the other side of the spectrum have
you ever done this for your partner if the answer is no then you've likely never met your soul mate
but hey that's okay you shouldn't live your life pretending that you're with the right person
it's better to break up than force yourself into an unhappy relationship but remember this when you
do come across someone who challenges you don't run away from them so many soulmate relationships
dissolve early on because one partner refuses to acknowledge their mistakes or they get scared of
change it can be extremely difficult to learn and to grow but if you've found your soulmate
then you've found someone who will push you to new heights and learn right alongside you
number six reciprocal strength do you feel more confident around your partner
does your partner give you the courage to confront new challenges soul mates are a source of strength
in your life a soul mate will always be a rock you can count on in good times and bad
times your soul mate will be there to support you because they're fully invested in a relationship
a soul mate doesn't view your partnership as something temporary they don't play down their
commitment to you because hey they're all in that means they'll be there when you need them
when life beats you down they'll pick you back up and you'll do the same for them because soul
mates offer strength to each other they'd rush to your side as quickly as you'd rush to theirs
now of course soul mates don't just catch you when you fall they also empower you to try new things
so when you try to improve yourself soul mates give you confidence and courage
even if things don't work the first time your soul mate will stand by you again
and again if you've found someone who gives you strength you may have found your soulmate
number seven the magic of hard work the final sign that you found your soulmate is hard work
a perfect relationship will not fall magically into your life if you think you're the one lucky
person who stumbles upon their soulmate think again because great long-lasting relationships
take an incredible amount of time and effort many people when they hear the word soul mate
imagine love at first sight we've all seen stereotypical soul mates in movies right
we've all read about perfect relationships in books if you believe the media you may be
waiting for your ideal partner to appear before you as soon as you and your soul mate meet you
may imagine living happily ever after but the magic of finding your soul mate isn't magic at all
it's the product of years of commitment loyalty and hard work a soulmate isn't flawless or even
ideal in fact your soulmate could look and act nothing like you expect yet you're drawn to this
person you feel it in your brain you feel it in your heart and you feel it in your gut they may
have flaws but so do you your relationship may take years of work but every good relationship
does so don't expect the magic of the universe to tell you when you've found your soul mates
instead pay attention to the way your partner makes you feel examine the role your partner
plays in your life and really envision your future if you can't imagine life without your partner
well you may have found someone who's worth the hard work hey thank you for watching
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