the expectations can never be met all
the time they may be met today tomorrow
they will not if this was your theory
then the relationship will go on the
rocks today or tomorrow and why will the
expectations not be met because
everybody's chitta vritti is changing
authority is temperament our mind is
made from the material energy Maya the
material energy has three gunas sattva
rajas tamas the shui - the thorough
condition says a jar may come no hitter
Shukla Krishna but we Sri Ramana say
Rupa at yahiko - Shah Mardan oshiete aha
Tina booked iboga this Maya has three
colors white red black in other words
there's sattva-guna Maya rajo-guna Maya
Tamang Gauri Maya the mode of goodness
the mode of passion the mode of
ignorance Lord Krishna has gone into
great detail in the month and eat
elaborating the three gunas to show to
us the nature of the world
whichever guna dominates that is how our
nature becomes so do these guna has come
at a certain time in the day no they can
come anytime during the day do they come
for a certain interval one hour or two
hours no they can come for two minutes
they can come for 24 hours considered
three wrestlers sometimes the first has
dropped the second sometimes the second
has dropped the third or the third has
dropped the first similarly this battle
of the gunas is taking place inside the
kind of environment you get the chintan
thought processes that you undertake
your son scars from past lives they all
raised one guna let us say you are
sitting and listening to a talk on
spirituality now this is a soft weak
environment anger greed everything is
subsided but then when you are walking
out of that little door somebody gives
you a push now the guna has changed from
insight this guy is so insensitive so
callous and supposing he says are you
blind can you not see again the guna
will change you I pull your tongue out
the Mogul mode of ignorance has come the
mode of ignorance results in laziness
intoxication violence anger the mode of
passion results in inflammation of the
senses in materialistic ambitions and a
spin towards the world the mode of
goodness comes to mind and enhances the
virtues of kindness compassion and
knowledge now are changing all the time
you yourself experience that your
temperament fluctuates some day you
think oh yes I must improve myself what
Swami ji talked about growing from
within
I must passionately move ahead in that
the sattva God is creating that
inspiration
the next day you are thinking I will do
it but what is the hurry let me check
the IPL scores first of all the Raju
gone has dominated some days you say I
don't know is this the age to do it
everybody does it in old age why should
I do it right now
tamo-guna has come just like your gunas
are changing everybody else's gunas are
also changing the husband is what are
changing the wife's kunas are changing
when will there be a make ability in
harmony when the gunas are alike and if
there is a conflict in the modes that is
where the friction begins