What’s up guys, Brad Browning here, and today’s video is about figuring out whether
or not your ex has been lying to you about your breakup….
Even if that’s something you haven’t really thought much about to this point, I suggest
you keep watching... because, as I’m going to explain in this video, it’s extremely
likely that your ex hasn’t been fully truthful to you.
Before I dive into that, just a quick introduction -- I’m Brad Browning, as I mentioned, and
many people know me as “Breakup Brad” because I specialize in breakups and helping
folks like you get back together with an ex.
And of course, that’s what I’ll be focusing on in this video, except this time I’m specifically
going to discuss your ex’s honesty… or lack thereof.
For anyone out there hoping to get back together with their ex, the very best thing you can
do to get started is to watch the free video presentation on my website, BreakupBrad.com.
So if you haven’t already seen that full video, head to www.BreakupBrad.com and give
it a watch before you unknowingly make a mistake that may blow your chances of reversing your
breakup.
Now, onto the topic at hand.
Let me start by asking you a question: do you think your ex has been truthful about
your breakup?
I’m referring specifically to what he or she actually said when they broke up with
you, or during the discussions that took place around that time.
Do you think that your ex was fully honest when they explained their reasons for the
breakup?
For at least 90% of you out there watching this video right now, the answer to that question
is going to be an emphatic NO…
I’ve been coaching people through tough breakups for 11 or 12 years now, so I know
for a fact that almost ALL breakups involve some lies… or at the very least, some partial
truths rather than complete honesty.
The simple fact of the matter is that, in almost all breakups, the person who initiates
the breakup -- or the person whose idea it was to end the relationship -- lies.
This is most likely the case for your breakup, too… the question is, why did your ex lie?
And what does it mean for you and your attempts to get him or her back and start a new relationship?
Ok, to answer the first question, there are generally three different reasons people lie
during a breakup:
#1 - To cover up their deceitful or disloyal behaviours
Thankfully, this is by far the least common reason people lie about a breakup, but sometimes
people will come up with excuses or bogus reasons for a breakup because they’ve done
something that they want to keep hidden from you… usually that means cheating, or becoming
involved with someone new.
As you can imagine, most people don’t want their ex to know that they’ve been cheated
on, so they’ll use excuses or lies to cover up whatever they’ve done and avoid the truth
from coming out.
The lies may be due to guilt, out of fear that their
ex will try to get revenge, or -- as I’ll talk
about in
a second -- to avoid hurting
your feelings.