gentlemen this is Mantella gence today
we are showing you 11 first date tips
that are actually useful
so you've asked out a gorgeous girl and
you want your first date together to go
well I get it it can be stressful but
that's why knowing these tips which tell
you exactly what women do and don't want
on a first date is so important so here
are 11 first date tips for men number 1
be normal be normal
might sound vague but all it means is
show her a normal experience and not one
that's weird or unusual don't take her
to an overly violent gory or graphic
movie don't show her at dinner how you
can burp the alphabet and don't bring a
magic scent with you on the date and
surprise her with an illusion instead
being normal be considerate polite and
down-to-earth and take her somewhere
normal fun casual and light-hearted
number 2 show up on time this tip
shouldn't surprise you as it's generally
polite to show up on time but why is it
so important on a first date
well because being late shows her one of
two things
either you're too lazy and/or
irresponsible to plan your day to be on
time or you don't value her time enough
to make your data priority plus waiting
for you is just annoying and that is the
last impression you want to make on a
first date right number three be proud
of your appearance and dress well you
don't have to spend all day getting
ready for your date but that doesn't
mean you should only spend a few seconds
getting ready she looks her best to show
you that you're worth the effort so why
wouldn't you want to do the same for her
put on a nice clean shirt groom your
beard and hair and please shower show
her that you care enough about her to
put in the effort to look your best
number four have a well-designed
date this might be the most important
step in first date success and luckily
with the right formula planning a fun
laid-back date is easy so what's the
right formula simple
a meal plus an activity take her to a
good meal somewhere nice but not overly
fancy then to an activity like minigolf
ice skating or an arcade this
combination gives you a fun easy way to
get to know her without the pressure of
formal dinner number five don't let her
know the whole plan have a plan for the
first date but don't let her know
exactly what the plan is
women love surprises especially on a
first date it shows that you're
spontaneous fun and will always show her
a good time now it's important to let
her know some information about the date
like if she should dress up bring
something warm or avoid high heels but
don't tell her everything she'll love
the excitement and surprise of the
unknown number six complement her every
woman loves thoughtful and appropriate
compliment but what do we mean by
thoughtful and appropriate well
thoughtful complements are specific to
her not general or vague and appropriate
complements are neither too serious nor
too sexual
guys just like you want to know what
women are thinking women want to know
what men are thinking especially if it's
something nice so compliment her it will
help make that second date all the more
likely number 7 don't just talk about
yourself you won't make her like you by
overloading her with information about
yourself not only will that push her
away but it's also a huge turnoff to
women so instead ask her thoughtful
questions about her her family her past
her interests and her goals go into the
date with the goal of getting to know
her as much as possible you'll notice
that showing that much interest in her
makes her liking more and it makes her
want to get to know you better
number 8 think about your first date
questions and conversation starters both
men and women dread too much silence on
a first date so plan out a few
conversation starters though you can ask
her like if you had the entire day off
work to do whatever you wanted what
would you do
where in the world do you want to travel
most or how would you spend a billion
dollar
even if you don't use these it's nice to
know you have them as needed
number nine know if you should kiss her
most girls expect a kiss on the first
date
but if you think about it you're much
more memorable if you don't kiss her
then you'll be different from overeager
guys who've kissed her right away in the
past and she'll be even more excited to
kiss you on the second date
so consider waiting to kiss her for the
first time and make her really want it
by the time it comes on your second date
number ten land a second bait you might
have heard the rule to wait three days
before calling a girl after a date but
that rule is absolutely ridiculous
and the reason is simple she doesn't
want to wait around for three whole days
to figure out if you like her enough to
go out again so call her the next day
and schedule your second date number 11
keep in touch after a great first date
it's important to keep in touch with her
so call or text every few days to let
her know you're still interested why
should you do that
if you don't contrary to what a lot of
guys think it will not make her like you
more it will only make her angry and/or
confuse so keep the good impression from
your first date and keep in contact with
your girl
that's our 11 first date to use them to
nail your first date and even land a
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