are you one of those people who is always not taken seriously?
your friends constantly disrespects you and your family still consider you a little kid.
Its really frustrating when people make fun of you and dont really take you seriesly.
It damages your self esteem, crushes your confidence and makes you feel misrable.
Of course there are many reasons why people take one person more seriesly than the other
but it mostly depends on your actions, on how you behave and how you present yourself
to others.
Its all about psychology, once you understand how it works, you can take advrange out of
it and can make anyone respect you and take you more seriously.
Thats why in the next few minutes i will share with you 4 tips that will change your situation
immediately.
SO lets start with the first one.
Create Value through scarcity
the problem with us is that we are incredible good at saying things we should not say, we
dont think often properly before we speak our mind,
there is no problem in expressing yourself but the way you do that has a significant
impact on the perception that people create about you.
The more you speak, the less valueble your words will be, so if you want what you say
be taken more seriesly, all what you should do is to speak as less as possible.
The same applies to how much time you spend with certain people.
Dont expect to be respected and be taken seriesly when you are 24/7 with your fiends.
Its normal that after spending certain period of time with people, your presence start seeming
normal and people feel comfortable Disrespecting you.
disappear for a while, get busy with other things, let the people miss you.
let them realize that you are no longer around.
let them feel that they want you to be around but you are not there.
So that once you are with them again, they will appreciate your presence more.
2.
Anger and emotions are counterproductive
when people aren’t taking us seriously or disrespect us in general, the first thing
we do is get angry.
Your emotions get in control and that makes it even worse because that will lead you to
take even more irrational decisions which will give others more reasons to disrespect
you.
Anger might make you feel little better at the moment but its counterproductive.
When people realize that their actions are making you angry, they purposely will do it
again, Because now, they know how to control you, they found out your weakness.
You should learn how to completely get rid of your emotions and be calm even when there
are thousands of reasons to get angry.
Appearing calm when others are trying to make you feel otherwise is a sign of strength,
it will make you appear more powerful.
Dont let anyone know how what could possible affect you, be unpredictable, let your weaknesses
be known only to yourself.
when the people realize that they can’t effect you by making fun of you for example,
they will loose interest in doing that
4.
Protect your reputation
Your reputation is what will push people to take you seriously.
We treat people base on the idea we have about them, base on that preconception that we have
created about that particular person overtime.
If we see them weak and defenceless we are more likely to disrespect them.
And vice versa of course.
that image that you create about yourself overtime is mostly what will determine weather
you will be respected or not, especially with the people you spend your time most.
With a reputation who doesn’t tolerates disrespect, people will are likely to take
you more seriously.
So be mindful about what kind of reputation you are building.
5.
If you don’t take yourself seriously, why should others
People always complain about not being taken seriously but if pay a close attention to
their life, you will realize that they don’t take themselves seriously.
You cant expect people to respect you and treat you the way you want them, when you
do nothing in your life except complaining about everything.
Some people who are watching this video will say, what the heck is wrong with you, now
u want me to control my words?
u want me to control my diet?
i am free to say to do or say what i want.
Thats true, but if you want to be treated in a certain way, you have to behave in that
artucal way and that starts with the way you treat yourself.
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and I will see you in the next one.