so hi everyone Adrienne Everheart right here your love and relationship coach I have
a great video for you about how you can attract and keep a high quality man
coming your way so if not only attract a man but if you have a man right now and
you're beginning to fill a little distance perhaps he's not texting or
calling as much I'll actually show you how you can attract him back to you
using a great energy technique and also one of the most important tips and
powerful things you have as a woman to attract and keep your man coming your
way so hang with me during this little tutorial I'm going to show you how male
energy and female energy interact and why this is so important to have a long
lasting loving fulfilling relationship with a man so I'm going to explain it
all let me get my little pin on here well as you know from my figures here we
have the male energy this is a guy and we have female energy this represents
the female if the dress didn't give that away now a lot of times we have a hard
time understanding men we have a difficult time understanding what
they're doing so we as women spend a lot of our energy focused on the man and the
more our energy is focused on the man this pushes the man away so more energy
you put on the man the man goes further away but yeah if you lean back and you
put your energy all on you and your life the man will suddenly begin to have
interest in you alright so why does it work this way
why is masculine and feminine energy why does it even work this way let me
explain that a little bit male energy is that of pursuing hunting finding this is
what male energy is all about feminine energy is a receiving energy we just
lean back and receive male energy wants to hunt find claim right so the problem
is is that women we can sometimes get into our male energy which is a great
thing for a lot of reasons because this is how we get things done this is how we
are you know at work at home this is how we make things happen in our life how we
got through college how we're supporting our kids only on one income is your male
energy all right that helps you get things done but when it comes to a man
it actually sends him like we said in the other direction so you also have
feminine or female energy which is what a man is highly highly attracted to and
drawn to now one of my favorite examples for this is have you ever cried at work
as a woman have you ever cried at work because I know I have and a lot of my
female clients will admit they have cried at work now if a man were to cry
at work it would be career suicide so this is a great example of how we're so
different the man is in a much different world all day long
than the woman is at work especially so the man is actually drawn to you because
you do have this soft feeling wonderful energy about you and he wants some of
that he wants to be in this safe place where he is loved and accepted and he's
able to Phil as well have feelings express his
feelings now he maybe had a relationship with his mom where he could do that or
his grandma or a sister or an auntie or really good female friend but he was not
having amazing sex with that woman I hope not so that's where you come in
because you can be the hot sexy girlfriend who also emotionally gets him
and he's in a safe place with you emotionally all right now let's talk a
little bit about what a man wants what he really really wants ultimately
a man wants a confident and secure woman who has her own life her own ambitions
and her own energy coming right at her all about her world the man loves that
in a woman he also wants you to be warm and receptive and show your feelings so
I don't know about you but I was actually rewarded as a child if I was in
my male energy and I pushed my feelings down so a lot of times as little girls
growing up we believe we're supposed to hide our feelings or push our feelings
down or we think about what we should say or how we should be right now
instead of just what we're really feeling and remember man is in that male
energy world all day long so when he comes home who wants to go
into the feminine female feminine energy world he wants to sit around and be
there with you he's not necessarily in this female energy but he just wants to
observe it be around it it feels comforting it feels wonderful to a man
that's what makes him attracted and drawn to you all right so a lot of times
when you're just dating a man you're not really in a committed relationship
and we're just dating he begins to lose a certain amount of value in you because
have a lot of reasons a man can suddenly just begin to change their mind about a
relationship it usually has something to do with what the woman is doing in her
own life and how much energy she's putting on that man so I want to start
off with talking a little bit about how you have changed so how you've changed
so when you first started dating this man were you calling him were you
texting him were you waiting at every moment to hear from him and liking all
his facebook updates thinking that that's how you would you know make sure
he knew that you liked him we're probably not when you first started
dating this man he was pursuing you and you were like I don't know about this
guy and then at some point you really fell for him and you possibly begin to
change and put all of your energy into the man and less and less and less
energy on you and what happened your value changed in his eyes and we can't
blame the man this is really about DNA again his DNA wants to pursue and claim
and hunt and if something is readily available for him and their energies
coming out and making him nervous making him feel under a microscope your value
goes down so how do you make your value go back up you go back to being the
woman he once fell in love with and if you didn't have a ton of things going on
back then now's a great time to expand and really ask yourself how can I make
my life rich full juicy full of things that I love full of people I love things
I love to do where have you been missing out and not putting yourself the number
one in your life because that is why man is attracted and drawn to you now we
talked a little bit about what pulls a man in and what keeps him there and I
mentioned your secret secret most powerful tool you have with a man and
that is your feelings under my why so your feelings here now a lot of men they
will write in their online dating profile I do not want a lot of drama and
then will even say it I don't like drama I don't do drama so we might think our
feelings are actually about drama how can we tell someone how we feel and all
these things were having without drama well you can when you've learned how to
do that one incredibly most powerful thing you can do that will secure the
man's heart he will know he has found a woman that can open up her heart to him
let him see that beautiful world that we women live in feelings and softness and
warmth and making everything okay in the home making this world a beautiful place
to live in that is what women do we're very soothing creatures and a man is
drawn to that so learning to express your feelings without drama is key that
is what you want to do that is your most powerful tool you have as a woman so how
do you do this how do you share your feelings without drama well I teach a
great tool that you just express your feelings by using the words I feel I'm
feeling right out and you practiced it with everybody in your life you practice
it on kids on your coworkers on anyone that you speak with start getting in
touch with how I'm feeling and it can be something as simple as oh I'm feeling
pulled in this room hurowitz I feel so hot outside
or oh I'm feeling tired I'm feeling sleepy I'm feeling hungry I felt scared
in that movie oh I felt happy when I reached the ending of my book just get
in the habit of trying to find what you're feeling is because so often we
say what should I say to the man what should I do and that's when you're
you're thinking boy energy that's you and your masculine energy when you're
thinking about what you should say to him oh you feel your way through and at
the 'coach that's one of the things I can help you with in fact that's what I
do more than anything I help couples who have broken up get back together I've
actually helped successful marriages I caused marriages I prevented divorces
and I have gotten a lot of women reconnected with the man that they love
after a breakup because all we did was go back into these very important places
here and and get it working again so that's what we do and that's what I hope
you do now we've talked a little bit about changing
and I want to talk to you about things that you may be doing to push your man
away that you don't really know are pushing him away or not aware of it and
a lot of women again with your energy is on the man and on the man you're trying
to change him you're trying to control him you're getting him to do something
different you're hoping to influence him and a lot of times we do this on
Facebook even on Instagram and messenger we text and text and text and text we
like all these photos we make comments and you're just pushing your energy all
over him and the do what he's going to go in that
direction as fast as he can and he's going to find other women to talk to who
are not putting a ton of pressure on him and are not just engulfing their energy
all over him and that is the quickest way to lose a man it's by just always
being there always doing for him and pursuing him because that's you and your
male energy you're pursuing you're doing the man wants to be in his male energy
pursuing you doing for you you have to learn how to lean back and let him do
this and for a lot of high-powered powerful dynamite women leaning back and
trusting the man that he can turn the ship around it's very difficult for a
lot of us let go about control does take practice and again that's what I'm here
for I hope you get it right so I hope that
this video has been helpful for you about the male/female energy exchange
and if you have any questions or comments about this please use the
comment section below you can always email me at ever hurt coaching at
gmail.com and of course visit my website ever hurt coaching com
I hope to talk to you real soon and I'd be happy to answer any questions you
might have about this energy exchange and how you can reconnect with the man
you love pull them closer and keep him there so even have a long lasting
successful relationship of the man in marriage for years and years you will
still be using these very same tools forever and they'll feel wonderful once
you really learn how to use them everything becomes very easy very
effortless this is not a lot of work so you go from a place of wandering and
figuring it out and thinking about him and
trying to solve this to a place where you only receive and it feels good to
him and it feels amazing to you so I hope to talk to you soon
take good care.