anytime I get to a place to where I really really would love to be around
somebody or I really look forward to certain interactions and I end up kind
of in a way put it on a pedestal anytime I do that there is something that I have
to do to take that off a pedestal so that I can then be on the same level so
that then I can experience it and in this video I'm gonna show you exactly
how to take it off a pedestal how detachment is actually the key to you
attracting love into your life and this works very powerfully when you apply it
welcome back in another video my name's Aaron and I owe people expand their
consciousness now in this video I'm gonna be sharing with you exactly how to
really attract love from the place of resonance understanding that attachment
will keep you from actually doing that any type of attachment whether that is
an attachment to some type of story that you have whether that's an attachment to
some type one specific person that you're putting all your energy on and
realize that when you think of someone you are sending them energy and if
you're feeling that lack of love and you're acknowledging that you don't
currently have love you're also sending that energy out and that's why
attachment many times is something that you have to let go of so letting go of
attachment to story letting go of attachment to that of the two different
people to the thoughts you think the attachment to the vacuum which sometimes
you can't find sometimes you can't find because you don't remember where you put
it okay this is very important to understand this whole entire process now
let's first off let me show you something right over here I'm going to
get out the handy-dandy whiteboard for this to show that the vibration wait for
the the light to come back the vibration of wanting verse the vibration of having
are two completely different realities and the importance of this is knowing
that when we talk about desire when we talk about attachment it's an attachment
to a desire and anytime you want something you can't
have it I know that sounds paradoxical but let me let me show you a better
camera angle first so that I could show you this so now the vibration of wanting
versus the vibration of happy understand these are two totally separate realities
and imagine that there's a version of you that wants something and then
there's a version of you that has something the version of you that wants
something feels the lack because if you want it it means you don't got it I want
I got but if you want it and you want it and you want it then you don't have it
and the key to this is understanding that when you see there's two separate
realities what you're first off must understand is that what must change is
your inner reality first because the outer reality is only a reflection
that's it it's just a reflection so when we want something and we're looking to
the outside we then can't actually have it because we don't first off have it
within we must first off have it within so the key to this is understanding that
the other dynamic to this is knowing how important is this how attached are we
now I remember what I first got on YouTube this is doesn't necessarily have
to do with love but let me just share with you an example of how this might
work so back in the day when I before I got on I was on YouTube and I was
starting to grow my channel there were certain people that I wanted to make
videos with there were certain people's content that I liked and I was like hey
let's I'd like to make videos with you and I first off got to maybe 50,000
subscribers on YouTube and I can't reach him out to to a couple different people
that I was like oh maybe eventually I'll be on the radar and we could make a
video together now when I wanted to do that when I really wanted it I wouldn't
really get any response back from either of these like two or three people I'd
reach out to the more I wanted it the more I could not have it now what I had
to end up doing is the more I ended up growing the more then I became detached
from it because I'm like hey my own gravity going on I got my own
stuff going on I don't need that I don't need someone else to put me on I don't
need to be around someone's energy cuz I got my own stuff going on and not only
that I'm starting to get pretty busy here so I don't even know if I have the
time to necessarily go and do that I'm focused as like two three years ago I
was very focused on my videos and what ended up happening is the more detached
I became from the outcome the more it began to align I remember after not long
after I really detached all this sudden I got the text message or I got the the
message and it was actually through Instagram vm's and so hey man one should
come to LA let's do a video together and I was like huh so you see that's the key
is how detached can you become you have to get to a place to where it'd be cool
if it happened would be cool if you don't you almost don't care one worthy
of another you don't care if you do have it you don't care if you don't have it
when you get to that place that's a very dangerous play it's a very powerful
place to be at when you get to the place to where you're cool if you do and
you're cool if you don't that's right where you want to be but if you are
really wanting a relationship really wanting love really wanting things to go
a certain way you will keep wanting till you get tired of wanting the key is to
instead with choice move to the reality of having a lean inside and the way you
have on the inside is by giving yourself the emotions you would feel if you had
the relationship if you had the relationship you would then give
yourself permission to feel certain energy within your field and then you
would be able to feel it and the key is knowing that get rid of the rule the
attachment you have to the rule in your mind that says that you must first have
love on the outside to then feel it on the inside that's all it is it's a rule
you can decide to give yourself that love and the more you focus on giving
yourself that love the more you will actually feel it so the key is knowing
that the more you feel it on the inside and the more you can really
get to a place of detachment is the more that then you're going to resonate at it
from a deeper level okay let's go switch the camera angle now alright now the
next part of this is understanding that any time we have attachment and Buddha
himself said that the root of all suffering is attachment and it's
specifically attachment to desire now let's understand this if we desire
something then it means we have some type of attachment if we have some type
of attachment then it means we are at some level suffering or resisting if
we're in the vibration of resisting then we can't perceive of the love that could
come into our life because we're on a different radial frequency think of
these as different radio frequency channels and if we're on the channel of
wanting it means we're on the channel of lacking if we're on the channel of
lacking then we're on the channel of resistance and if we're feeling
resistance we're not going to experience in a reality where amazing things come
into our life or we find that person that were meant to be with or whatever
the situation is that we want to experience the key to this is
understanding that the attachment here is the problem the attachment is the
problem and when you can get to a place where you're cool if it doesn't happen
or does happen that's where you are at the self perpetuated emotion and
momentum you generate that feeling from within
you have your own gravity of things going on now I've had this happen so
many times to what I when I first get like it to a relationship with someone
or something like that and you know and you start texting a lot and you ever get
to a place to where when you're texting you're like oh it'd be cool if they
texted me back right now or something you won't know what's going on right how
many times do you think about it and think about it and think about it and
think about it and then it's not the coming because you really want it you
really want that reply to a text message or something like that and then what
happens is you forget about it you forget about the text message because
you start doing something else you forget about the desire you literally
detach from that emotional desire that you have and what happens then you get
the text message you the response now the key is knowing
that's not the way in the place you want to be the place you want to be is
detachment complete detachment you have your own gravity going on and the way
that you detached from this is you realize first off that you have the
desire that you have the desire the desires within you I have this
attachment to desire and realize that anytime you want something you will
never actually have that thing you want because by the time you have it you've
moved from the vibration of wanting to having sometimes people use action to do
that because when you're doing action you're then in that momentum in that
movement and then you allow yourself to move from that to this it's almost like
the action also becomes into some some way believable in a way for that to make
the transition but the key to this is an understanding that the root of all the
pain is from the attachment to the desire and the more you want love the
more you resist love and the key is understanding that instead of suffering
get rid of that suffer by detaching it releasing it release that suffering into
the ethers release the desire into the ethers and understand that you're good
either way and some of this could be you just becoming aware of your label or
belief that rule that you need to be in a relationship to be happy or that
anything on the outside has to change first that anybody has to be a certain
way when you stop trying to control the outside and that's pretty what it is -
we're trying to control the outside reality and when we are attached we're
attached to that control of things be in a certain way people be in a certain way
our thoughts our beliefs were attached to it and when you allow yourself to
become aware of the attachment to become aware of the desire you can then let it
go you can then say who would I be without that oh I'd be free I'd be free
I wouldn't be doing things for other people to like me
I'd be doing things because I want to do them I would have my own gravity I would
go in a certain direction to be the star of my own movie that's the key that's
the energy dynamic it has that play but I'll tell you right now that one of the
most powerful ways for you to attract love or relationships into your life
is for you to let go of the desire altogether and really let it go not say
I'm gonna let it go so that I could actually get it we try sometimes to do
that we'll try to like let go of something and then it's like okay I let
it go like it's imagine like looking at a mirror and it's like okay I'm gonna
change that reflection on the mirror that's like okay I'm gonna change it and
you change your expression for a second and you look and you try to make sure
it's a funny idea but we do it all the time we tried to change the outside and
by trying to change the outside that's where the resistance comes that's where
the resistance comes the key to this here's here's actually what's even more
powerful than even just releasing it it's it's almost in a way allowing the
universe to let it do it for you to I by trusting in it by just trusting that
it's going to bring you exactly what you need when you need it it's like the more
you try to control the universe the more you're putting your hands at the throat
of it and you're like do workout this way
the eat little ego thinks it knows everything and the Eagle didn't is
attached to this perspective it's like it's in that amusement park imagine it's
in an amusement park and it's like I just want to ride on this one ride and
there's like 700 other rides but it's like no this is the one right I want and
it needs to work right now and that's a level of scarcity - so then it's put out
that energy and imagine the ride has a consciousness of itself and the rides
like broke way to needy man get away from me
plus some things we're in maintenance mode right now so we're waiting but if
you were just to relax a little bit you notice that maybe you got that VIP thing
that gets you to the front of the line and you'll got it right in lines and
it's much more enjoyable you see but that's all that's all this is this is
about understanding that if you release the desire if you release the desire you
release the attachment it can then come to you you are then in a free space I'm
sure my intention with this video is to free you to free you from your desire to
free you from the reality that says I don't have love to free you from it and
the way you become free is by releasing the desire altogether
you have everything within yourself to feel unconditional love joy peace bliss
and enlightenment that's actually who you are by the way time out is
enlightenment and people say oh how do you attain an Enlightenment the high
level of enlightenment you are enlightenment it's just we got to undo
things that have been done and when we have desire it means that we are when we
have desire and attachment it means that we are we got some knots to undo I'm
gonna say Tam enlightened by the way it can levitate
okay I can't levitate but I'm just saying in general I believe that that's
our natural state in this whole journey that we're all on is about undoing that
is what's been done and that desire to attachment isn't as a desire to a story
that we must be in a relationship it's attachment to different people the way
they should act and trying to control the outer reality not knowing that if
you just let it go then you can allow things and you can then be in a certain
state to where the inner reality has been changed and the inner reality is
also change because it realizes I don't have to do all this I can release it and
then I can be that's why I also what I always talk about attracting love
something else that I always talk about is doing what you love developing your
own gravity because then you really become in abundance I don't kind of so
the key to this whole entire process is understanding that the more the more we
love ourselves and I know it sounds super super cliche is the more we can
then experience what we want but really this this getting rid of desire and
attachment is really just a choice of awareness it's becoming aware that we
have it and then choosing to let it go and in choosing and allowing the
universe to bring something else to us and then becoming free imagine that you
don't have to pretend to be somebody else to attract somebody you don't have
to do what they you think they want you to do it's like you're at the gym and
you see them walk around and you're like oh I'm gonna put some more weight on
this I'm gonna put some more weight on this machine on this machine or this
this bench and then push it I was I was really stuck till yesterday I was
talking about somebody salt like the rock it was like I'm ready to something
somebody saw the rock at a at a gym and he was like he was soaked like
starstruck but immediately he started to pick it up heavier weight and stuff they
kid like the rock was gonna look over at him and be like whoa Rob that's a little
bit heavier weight that I expected you to be using it's like I wanted you're a
cool guy but that's it but all attachment imagine who you would be if
you didn't have that attachment who would you be
you probably be way cool because that's who you are
you probably be an amazing person because that's who you are
but when you're not attached you're free when you're not attached you can be in
the l.o.v.e frequency and remember these are literally different frequencies you
never get what you want because when you want it you lack it when you want it you
lack it sometimes then you'll take action you'll get rid of the rule
altogether you'll just decide to feel the emotion on the inside and when you
feel the emotion on the inside that's when you'll experience love in your life
but all you got to do is release the desire itself release the desire and
allow it to come I shared this lemon last story with you real quick I've
shared it a couple times before he's to work with this chick and she would
anytime she was in she was starting to get a relationship she'd get hit on by
so many guys but when she really wanted a relationship she wouldn't get
attention at all but she started to get that relationship she could hit on like
eight times in a week wouldn't before that be eight times in like eight months
so that's the difference what was different she wasn't wanting love she
was having she was already in it she already felt it the paradox is that the
whole entire time she could have felt that in between and she could have been
hit on by eight hundred guys in eight months now how desiring are most people
I'm just giving because I was like I'm sure most woman would not want that but
in general maybe it's G what if it meant she could find like the perfect person
or something like that but when your cup is already full guess what you're good
you don't need other people's liquids okay you don't need other people to give
you this okay anyways other than that if you want to
attract love into your life there's a meditation below that is the frequency
of love read the comments somebody tagged me on
history on the other day I was like I read the comments and they were
convincing enough for me to start the 21-day challenge
so 21-day challenge attract the love meditation it's my most popular
meditation read the comments to see how many people have attracted love using it
it's because then you tap into that frequency other than that I hope you
enjoyed this video and as always stay on the right spot
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