Does it matter what others think of us? - it is a question that more and more people are
asking themselves.
Just as you have the right to think what you want, people have the right to think what
they want.
But what people think about you shouldn't change you.
This is your life and you must cherish it.
Today we will tell you why it is not good to waste your time wondering every day if you
should worry about what others think about you.
People like to be praised and we want to be attractive in the eyes of those around us.
Compliments almost always make us feel good and give us a sense of accomplishment.
To be liked by someone else and to receive the attention of those around you is an innate
feeling, a desire that appeared the moment we appeared in this world.
When we receive the approval of those around us, we begin to want to do more.
Many of us monitor our social networking sites to see how many likes or comments we got on
the last post.
But things are completely different when we feel the disapproval of those around us.
A critical remark or a cold reaction can seriously affect us emotionally.
We react to everything that happens around us and we have high expectations of how people
should behave towards us and our actions.
Feeling accepted is an almost universal human desire and the need to belong to a group is
in our DNA.
Sometimes what others think about us is more important than what we think about ourselves.
This can have a profound effect on the way we look at ourselves.
However, it would be a mistake to ignore what people we can trust.
In fact, it is a benefit when those around us observe our behavior and actions.
For example, all of our work could not be improved without your feedback on these videos,
and thank you for being here.
But what about the opinion of others?
Public opinion can often be unfair.
Opinions that are born of envy or prejudice must simply be ignored.
Therefore, we must show discernment and react wisely when it comes to the opinion of those
around us.
Living a life that follows the ideal notions of what others believe is a terrible way to
live.
It's awful and exhausting.
And that has to stop.
Believe it or not, we are all guilty.
We waste our days thinking about how other people might judge our actions.
But the truth is, those people think the same thing.
In fact, when we have time, we think of ourselves - not others.
In 2014, the Global Change Data Lab claims that in the US the share of people who believe
that most people can be trusted is 30.70%.
Basically, if we have three friends, we will only trust one.
The National Science Foundation conducted a study in which it claims that people have
an average of 50,000 thoughts a day.
This means that if a person has thought of you 25 times a day, it represents only 0.05%
of the daily thoughts generated.
Do you still think you should worry about what others think of you?
When you try your best to please everyone around you and grow in their eyes, you fall
prey to the analysis of those around you and you will lose your personality.
The truth is that some people never think of you.
You may nurture your inner fears and self-confidence.
If you keep thinking about what others think about you every day, you will simply lose
your life.
In conclusion, people will always think what they want and we cannot control their thoughts.
No matter how carefully you behave, speak or act, this does not mean that you will be
good enough for other people.
Therefore, try to be true to your beliefs and values.
Never be afraid to do what you think is right.
So what do you think is right?