What’s going on?
It’s Tripp from Tripp Advice.com.
I’m sitting here and I’m at this thing called “Sage Summit”.
It’s this summit for small businesses, entrepreneurs, things like that.
And it’s been pretty cool.
I’m seeing a lot of interesting speakers.
I saw Richard Branson.
The reason I’m doing this video is because I wanted to share with you one of my big takeaways.
Whenever I do an event like this, whenever I go to some summit or some convention or
even if it’s just a night out, hangout out with people; I always try to think about the
one thing I took away from the weekend or the night and just see if there’s anything
that I’ve learned from it.
And I want to share with you one of the pieces that I learned that I think will apply very
well to your dating and sex life.
I think the thing that I took away here, the biggest thing that really stuck in my mind
was something that Richard Branson was talking about.
He was talking about this little nugget of wisdom that he shared with the audience and
he said this one thing that he wanted everyone to take away, one of the biggest things that
he learned.
And that was that you should be focusing on solving one problem.
He was talking to entrepreneurs and business owners and that’s what you should be doing
if you’re starting a business, try to focus on one problem to solve and you should be
successful.
I want to relate that back to you and I want you to write down on the comments, what’s
one problem that you’re trying to solve for yourself?
What’s the one problem that you’re focusing on?
A lot of you guys might be saying something like oh well I’m trying to get more girls
or I want a girlfriend or I want to have more sex or something like that.
These are problems, sure maybe these are issues that you’re trying to solve, but these are
really bigger issues.
What I want you to focus on, is I want you to focus on something a little bit smaller.
Don’t think macroscopic, think microscopic.
What’s the one thing that you’re trying to solve that you’re working on right now
that is going to help you get better with women?
I want you to write it down below and at the very least just think about it because if
you can focus on one problem at a time, it’s going to be so much easier for you to be able
to find a solution.
I’ve always found that when guys focus on too much at once, they tend to never solve
any problems because the time is split up between so many things it gets overwhelming,
it gets really tough.
What is the one problem that you’re going to be focusing on trying to solve.
Write that down below and then like I said, think about this.
I want you to think about this and think about how you can solve the issue at hand.
When you focus on that one problem it’s going to be easier for you to find the solution
because you’re focused.
I just met someone really cool.
Her name is Jackie, say hello.
Hey.
She actually has a Youtube channel of her own called Tweak Style.
What’s it about?
We’re talking about style strategy versus resiliency for entrepreneurs and go getters.
People who really want to communicate who they are and achieve the things that they
want.
Jackie what did you take away from the Richard Branson talk?
The major thing I took away was his whole idea of really creating quality products and
services to differentiate yourself in your industry and really stand out.
That is something I strongly believe in but he just said it so perfectly.
Yeah, he just knows how to talk.
It’s hard to recreate it right now, but I think, we were talking about this earlier.
Those one major takeaways for us and it seems to relate to something even more than just
trying to stand out in your business.
Even as a person.
You were saying something about how it could relate to dating?
What were you talking about?
How do you stand out from other candidates and dating candidates, other guys, other girls?
And how do you want to be remembered as?
Don’t try to do all those common things when you’re trying to pursue someone or
show interest or.
What is one common thing, not to put you on the spot, but what’s one common thing that
a guy has done to pursue you, where you’re just like oh here we go again, another guy
doing the typical whatever.
Does anything come to mind?
Oh wow, I’m so like.
And if you need time to think about it, I can edit it and cut the video.
One of the things that I really found to be kind of a little boring is when people really
go down this list of checkmarks.
When people are going like I have, these are my goals for the next 5 years, this is my
job, I want kids, I want family, all that talk.
Especially on the first date.
A lot of people are torn between this.
I think some people want to know that right off the bat.
But for me specifically, what stands out to me is when someone really intrigues me and
has cool stories to share.
I feel like I could hang out with them as a friend and I feel like I could really have
fun with this person and just have tons of stories to share in your life like an adventure
you went on or an experience.
That would be something, I would remember that cause no one has the same stories as
you or the same adventures you have in life so that’s going to really differentiate
you.
If you hiked the Grand Canyon but have a really scary situation with it.
Just like some crazy story.
Yeah, totally.
I think, and again kind of circling back to what she was saying earlier about what Richard
Branson was saying was this idea of being unique and then this uniqueness and I think
the stories that you tell and the experiences that you had all make you you.
And so I think that’s what we’re kind of looking for.
We’re looking to connect with people who are unique and different and in some ways
inspiring because if you meet someone who’s doing something different and unique, that
can be inspiring to you and that feels good.
You want to date someone who is going to inspire you most of the time and really add to your
life and add this unique value and unique perspective.
I think it would be really boring to date someone who is the same as you or just doesn’t
have anything new to bring to the able and yeah so I love that.
I think it’s really about stepping outside of your comfort zone, which I’ve said before,
and doing something that’s just different.
That you’re not to, a new experience.
I’ll say for me, I don’t really come to these conferences.
I never really do this, but I wanted to see Richard Branson speak.
I thought hey let’s do something I don’t normally do.
I’ll honest with you.
I like to sleep and I woke up early just to attend this at 9am which is not that early.
And look who I met.
I met this cool girl and we’re learning about cool stuff and we made this video.
Goes to show you that if you really go and try to do new things, you never know what’s
going to happen.
I love it.
Rock it.
Boom!