We have control of our minute, our hour our day, our week, our month and our year.
Stop running around being on the receiving end of whatever people want to
dump on you. You showed up you accepted that invite you invited these people to
your house you're in a relationship with that man you're in a relationship with
that woman. That's you so how do you feel at the end of your night?
How easy and how convenient is it for us to blame
everything and everybody for the things that we have going on in our lives. There
is a such thing as you being a positive and a great person with the best of
intentions towards everybody and shit is rough and you just can't get a break but
most of you most of you are waking up every day looking for pain, dysfunction
drama, unemployment, being broke,struggling, dropping every excuse in the
book about your childhood and the problems and dysfunction that you grew up in
that's stopping you from becoming successful.
ou don't like your friends so why are you still with them? You don't trust your managers
agents and lawyers so why are they still there? Do you really expect your life and
career to be any different from messing with the same things people and situations.
That's all I'm saying. Are the things that you're doing the
people that you're hanging out with and the places and the circles that you're
traveling in does that reflect a person that actually loves themself? If you
love yourself why would you fuck with those type of people?
ou know what they're saying about you behind your back you know they're
jealous and envious of who you are and the things that you got going on in your life, in your career.
You know that they don't like you and they've made it clear
they've sent you every sign imaginable that they could possibly send you and because
you're so desperate to have people around you and in your
life you continue to go back you continue to show up to everything they
invite you to knowing what they're saying about you.I'm not preaching
separatism. I don't want a bunch of people to just be alone at home doing nothing
with no friends no family and nothing to do I'm saying that at this point you are
old enough and mature enough to understand the difference in good people
and bad people and when you're hanging out with negative dark and dysfunctional
people you cannot expect yourself to go to sleep at night and rest. You cannot
expect yourself to feel good about your day when you're including negative and
dysfunctional people in your day.
Stop being a lazy person that's full of excuses, sitting around on the pity party
coming up with every excuse in the world as to why you ain't winning. You are the
reason you're not winning you keep messin with negative evil and
dysfunctional people and expecting positive results. It's time you get off
the pity party stop complaining about being out of
shape when you never go to the gym stop looking at your stomach when you get out
of the shower and your body and complaining about the way you look when
you're eating everything in sight and never going to the gym. You are the
reason you look the way you look, you're the reason you're unemployed, you're the
reason why your surroundings are so dysfunctional and negative. You could
still be in the hood, broke and living a peaceful life. It's a choice. We are being
raised in a generation of people that come up with every excuse in the book as
to why they are not winning. You have that as a choice. You actually do. You
don't wake up in the morning and negativity, dysfunction, problems and
issues just randomly pop up. These are the people that you have decided to
include in your life so the outcome of your day, your hour, your minutes, your
week, your month and your year is always draining, always dysfunctional and
always crazy because these are the type of people you've decided to include in
your day to day life. You got 24 hours in a day. When you go to sleep at night how are
you going to feel about your day, all depends on who you decide to include in
your day. Stop running around acting as if you don't have a choice, you do have a
choice. Excuses sound best to the people that's making them up. You got every
excuse in the world. That's why you ain't moving, that's why ain't nothing change and
nothing will change because you have convinced yourself that everything is
wrong, everything is neva - negative and nothing will change and guess what? It
won't change. Change your mind and it will change your life. Change, if nothing
around you changes, change the things that are around you. I'm tired of it. I'm
frustrated with the amount of people that are not successful because they
have thought their way into a depression you have thought your way into
negativity and misery you have thought your way into holding on to a dude or a
girl that you broke up with a year or two ago and you're still sad and miserable and they've moved on with
their life. It's all in the mind change your mind and it will change your life you just
have to you just have to wake up you just have to break that negative spirit
you have to break through all of that shit that your in care of. I don't want to
to I don't feel sorry for you you feel sorry for yourself that's the problem
even when positive people are trying to give you all this good energy you have
tricked your mind to turn every positive thing that they say into something
negative every time they say anything to try and motivate you and inspire you you
you turn every negative thought and every you turn every positive thought
every positive intention everything that they trying to to boost your spirits up
you flip it shake it manipulate it and you if you are so determined to be
negative and miserable. It's unbelievable. So what you grew up
with them? So what they're childhood friends? So what they're family?
We have a responsibility to walk in the direction of peace I want to laugh I
want to smile, I wanna enjoy myself. I actually want to feel good about the
people that are around me because you're inviting me doesn't mean I want to show
up because you're calling me doesn't mean I'm going to call you back because
you want me to be there doesn't mean that I want to be there because we're
family because we're friends because we grew up together doesn't mean that I
want to be a part of any and everything that you want me to be a part of. Why?
Because my experience with you hasn't necessarily made me feel good about my
my life or my experience at the end of every night because you go to sleep at
night doesn't mean you're resting. Because you close your eyes at night and you are
asleep physically doesn't mean that you're actually resting and the reason that you
don't rest is because while you're awake everything and everybody thats in and around
your life is so full of issues problems insecurities dysfunction negativity your mind
is and your spirit is in turmoil. Issues problems arguments yelling screams
dysfunction I want you to stop playing the victim you are not the victim you
decided that those are your friends you decided that those are the people that
you want to spend time with you decided this is what you wanted to do with your
day when you get invited to places doesn't mean you have to show up no one
wants to be alone why spend the rest of your life being miserable frustrated and
insecure? Not really feeling as good as you have a responsibility to feel
feeling good isn't just an opportunity feeling good is a responsibility that we
all have for ourselves and guess what I actually don't care what you say about
me I don't remember the last time I lost sleep over a hater and the things that
people are running around saying blogs websites conversations tweets and I don't
lose sleep over haters. Why? Because I know exactly how I feel about me and
even if something appears to be very different than what it really is I don't
even mind that you're talking shit about the things that you're assuming that's
really going on the question is are you just going to
look at this video and decide wow that was some powerful shit and do the same thing?
But it's a new day... it's a new day.