infj stands for introversion intuition feeling judgment being one of the rarest personality types
infjs stand out by their complexity of character and depth of perception infjs
are considered empaths because they strongly connect to the emotions of other people
but some circumstances force infjs to unveil their dark or dangerous side of themselves
welcome back in this video we will be discussing the main traits of the dark and dangerous side of
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one stubbornness infjs are experts at seeing the bigger picture of things being perfectionist
planning ahead of time will always have the upper hand to spontaneity in their mind because of this
intrinsic analyzing clock they do not welcome change and often come off as stubborn but the
key is to give them time sometimes a long time it feels like they're unyielding but they just need
some time to accept the sudden change and as long as it does not oppose their set of values they'll
eventually see eye to eye with you 2. moodiness infjs are persons who deeply feel things they
tend to be more sensitive they experience emotions at a greater depth than others so sometimes they
tend to wallow in a valley of sadness infjs can be laughing out loud one minute and be all gloomy
then the very next minute if your close one who is an infj is going through such a phase give them
some me time to reflect upon their emotions and figure out why they're feeling this way
3. difficulty in opening up to others i saw a meme where the fbi asked a person to open up
and an infj replies no you and it's true because infjs never really open up to others
the reason is their introverted nature so they like to figure out things in their head
they're always true and all giving in their relationships they expect the same from people
but most people shatter their image and hence they develop trust issues easily they desire for a deep
and meaningful emotional connection they're also scarred by their past bad experiences
so they are always in the perplexing dilemma of sharing a piece of heart with others and afraid of
being misunderstood and when other people try to get close to them or ask them something personal
they can freak out and sabotage that relationship by pushing them away and building a wall around
them the wall is so high that it is so complicated to climb it and suppose they finally take the hard
step of opening up to others in that case they might feel apologetic about it because
they think they are burdening you so if an infj ever opens up to you just listen to their words
attentively most of the time they don't want a solution or a critical analysis from your side
they want a comfort person who will be an ear to their worries give them a hug
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4. the infj door slam infjs are the warmest people out there who always treasure their loved ones and
prioritize them but this personality is like a roller coaster full of surprises they can turn
colder than snow when they're deeply wounded by their loved ones infjs are very reluctant to let
people enter their inner circle if they trusted a person with their heart and soul but that person
caused them a great deal of pain it will just take a blink of an eye for an infj to cut them off
having a strong intuition they can foresee the emotional trauma that will come with this journey
and they jump off the car just before it's about to hit a mountain they cease all
forms of communication and basically dump that person into a bermuda triangle of their memory
like that person never even existed and even if they're forced to interact with that person
sometimes later in life they can totally fake it but will have zero regard and love for that person
on the brighter side this shows how courageous they are to leave the toxic people and bear no
more emotional drama but sometimes they're way too fast to ghost people and it might leave the other
person in a puzzling pain of where did i go wrong or what was my fault five they can be manipulative
being good observers and living in their world of quiet introspection infjs can be masters at
manipulating people this is because of their good intuition so they can read people easily
and point out their weakest spots they are good at empathizing and can easily put themselves in
other people's shoes so they can judge people's thought processes and make the people think how
they want them to think being people pleasers they can easily captivate people even go to extreme
lengths to win people over and then use them for their own benefit please note that not all infj
is using this dark trait in daily life most infjs don't even want to think about using this trait
6. treating themselves way too harshly infjs are extreme perfectionists and this way
they hold themselves to an unachievable high standard which means that they can be
really hard on themselves they have a strong tendency to never appreciate their accomplishments
and always have the sense of discontentment that they do not live up to their full potential
they often find it difficult to appreciate their current living situation and are obsessed with
improving those non-existent imperfections to all the infj viewers can you recognize yourself in
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