Hey there, my name's Adam LoDolce and I'm the founder of SexyConfidence.com where I
teach the 21st century woman how to create a love life that she absolutely freaking loves.
And in this short video I'm going to teach you the 10 things that women should never,
ever say to a guy.
Listen, we all say things that we know that we shouldn't have said.
Trust me, I've been there.
Recently I actually told the woman that I was talking to that I do naked sit-ups in
the mirror every morning.
Talk about a weird mental image.
So in this video I've compiled a list of 10 things that women have actually said to me
either when I was out on a date with them or when I was actually dating them on a regular
basis.
And these are things that I believe women should never, ever say to a guy.
1.
Number one, I've lost track of the number of guys I've slept with, but I know it's a
lot.
Listen, I am all for women's rights to be sexually promiscuous and be able to sleep
with anyone they want.
Same with men.
But I'm absolutely not for anyone's right to advertise it to everyone.
And that's, of course, true whether or not you're a man or a woman.
This is just the ultimate turn off.
So please, if your number is a little bit up there with the number of people you've
slept with, please keep it to yourself.
Guys don't want to know about it.
2.
Number two.
I honestly hate men and I definitely don't need a man in my life.
Listen, there are a ton of men out there, including definitely myself, who deeply desire
an independent, strong woman.
And I don't believe that a woman needs a man in order to be happy.
But with all that said, men still need to feel needed and appreciated in a relationship.
And if they don't feel needed and appreciated, they'll just go somewhere else where they
are actually needed and, of course, wanted.
3.
Number three.
So I know we just met tonight, but are you looking for a relationship?
And, quite honestly, to that I would probably say yes, you're right.
We did just meet.
And to answer your question, no.
Not with you.
A first date is never the time to see if a guy is looking for a relationship.
Please save that talk until at least the third date.
4.
Number four.
I feel fat.
Adam, do I look fat in this outfit?
Oh, my God.
I can't believe I'm going there.
Let me tell you something, men love women who love their bodies.
And I know that that's not always possible, trust me.
I know that that's not always possible.
But please just don't ask guys this question.
We're dating you because we love your body, we like your body.
And on top of that, it's not like a guy is ever going to say yes to that question.
Yes, you look fat.
So please don't even ask us.
Don't waste your breath.
5.
Number five.
Just a warning, my Dad never likes the guys I date.
Then he probably wont like me and hopefully is not a member of the NRA.
I get it.
We all have crazy families, we all have crazy parents.
But please try to make a man feel confident when he goes to finally meet the parents.
Assure him that there's no reason why they wouldn't like you, even if you're telling
a little bit of a white lie.
6.
Number six.
I don't care what other girls say.
Trust me, Adam.
Size definitely matters.
There's only one circumstance when you can say anything like this and that is if you're
dating a male porn star.
Otherwise, please keep your opinions to yourself because if he's insecure about sleeping with
you and about his size, then you know what?
Size won't really matter anyways because he won't be able to perform.
7.
Lucky number seven.
I just always seem to date jerks.
I mean, does that mean that I'm a jerk?
8.
Number eight.
Why is it that guys disappear after a few months of dating me?
You'll never leave me, right?
Ok, well we've only been dating for a month or so so I cannot wait to see what's in store
for the next month.
Sometimes it's best to just hold back a little bit of information about maybe some of your
negative past dating experiences so you don't scare off some of those guys who are just
genuinely interested in you.
9.
Number nine, almost there.
Ugh, Adam you remind me of my ex.
Awesome.
What's his number?
Maybe me and him can go hang out.
No one, and I mean no one, wants to be compared to an ex.
I mean, the guy is an ex for a reason and guys definitely know that that is never a
compliment.
10.
Number ten.
Nothing's wrong.
I'm fine.
Hm, she said she's fine but she doesn't seem to be fine.
Man, if only I could read her mind.
If something's on your mind, please speak it.
Communication is critical in a relationship and if there's something that you need to
tell him, then please face your fears and speak up.
So there it is.
10 things to never say to a guy.
And if you've said something to a guy that you totally regret, just remember we have
all definitely been there.
And if you do naked sit-ups in the mirror in the morning, don't talk about those either.
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I'll speak to you soon.