Okay my wonderful friends, you loved the last one so much that it's time for
another. We are talking about five more things guys do that girls love. And
I have a super essential secret for you. You need to know this if you want to get
the girl of your dreams. It is quite literally the difference between being
alone and single or settling, or having the absolute love of your life. So you're
not gonna want to miss it. Before we get started be sure to subscribe and ring
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Now I recently did this video which is Things Guys Do That Girls Love and you
guys loved it so much that I wanted to make another one for you. Let's start
though by talking about that secret I promised you. This little secret makes
all the difference when you are looking for and trying to attract the girl of
your dreams. A quick story to illustrate. I grew up in the same neighborhood as
two brothers. And guys, these guys are both really good guys. They're fun and
funny and really enjoyable to be around. They kind of grew up in a situation very
similar to me in that they had kind of a broken home life. Not terribly broken
but it was a little bit broken and they didn't really understand attraction or
how to get what they wanted. Now one of the brothers, he just decided that
whoever his dream girl was, she needed to just love him for him and that God was
just going to place her in his life. His entire strategy to find his dream girl
was to just kind of wait for her to show up. The second brother, he kind of
realized "Hey, I kind of feel like I'm a little bit awkward and I kind of feel
like I don't know what I'm doing and I feel like the example I had at home is
maybe not the best example." So he decided to learn some things. He learned
about how to interact with girls and how to flirt and how to dress super
attractive and how to get women attracted to him. And this brother had
women around him like 24/7. Everyone wanted to date him. While the other
brother just kind of watched from the sidelines. Can you guess which one of
these brothers found his dream girl? The first brother is almost 40 and can't
figure out why he hasn't found his dream girl yet. The second brother has been
happily married for years. He has adorable children and a very very happy
life. What is the difference between the two brothers? The second brother
understood that it takes effort. Sometimes we're afraid when we hear that.
"Oh no! Effort means perfection!" Effort does not mean perfection. If you knew
this second brother it would be easy to see that he is in no way perfect, he's
actually a little bit of a ditz, and I say that in a loving way, and obviously
has things that he's working on. But that's the point. He was willing to put
in that effort and because of that he became a heartthrob. The other brother
felt like he needed to put no effort in and consequently he's still single and
unless he changes something he will be single his entire life. So the secret to
a finding and attracting the girl of your dreams is to be willing to put in
effort and know the right kinds of effort to put in. Because you can put in
the wrong effort all day long and it won't matter. But knowing the right
effort and being willing to do that is what makes you a heartthrob. So let's go
over five things guys do that girls love. If you are not doing any of these things
that's okay, just a little bit of effort will make you that heartthrob. Alright,
let's get started. And we're actually gonna start with one
of my favorite things guys do that I personally love and women all over the
world love as well. And that is smelling nice. If you follow me on
Facebook or Instagram and you have seen my stories, P.S. if you don't you totally
should, check out the links in the description below. But if you follow me
there you have probably heard me say in the past that I [laughter] will be walking
through a grocery store or something and I will catch a scent of men's cologne
and I will go "Holy cow!" I do not know, like I haven't seen him yet, I don't know
who he is, I do not have any idea who this guy is, but I can tell from the
smell that he's probably a very very attractive. For some reason, as women, we
are just incredibly attracted to men who smell nice. Men tend to be very visual,
that's how God made you, women are actually less visual than men and smell
is something that really really speaks to us. This is why when I haven't even
seen a guy but I smell him I automatically assume and feel like he's
an attractive guy. I mentioned in past videos that I also used to go dancing a
lot. And you know, you kind of get used to like "Oh, that's the super hot guy who
smells super good." The way a man smelled definitely had a huge huge impact on how
attractive I viewed him and other women viewed him. It's actually kind of funny,
I'm kind of short, and when you're dancing, I have long hair obviously and
so my hair would brush up against guys a lot and I would go under their arm a lot
as they would like spin me around and stuff. And I
would come home and my hair would smell like men's deodorant and men's cologne.
Which is kind of weird but at the same time I got used to the guys who smelled
like super good and the guys who, yeah maybe they didn't smell bad, but the guys
who smelled amazing really stood out. So consider using some nice smelling
deodorant and take it a step further and get some really nice smelling cologne.
Obviously you don't want to go overboard with this, but guys, smelling nice is like
really hot. The second thing that guys do that girls love
is when you are really good with children.
I'm gonna be really honest with you guys, okay? Whether she knows it or not, when
she is getting to know a guy she is asking herself, even if it's just like
not consciously, she is asking herself "Would I like to spend the rest of my
life with this man? Would he be a good husband to me and a good father to
future children?" And the way you interact with kids has the ability to just like
melt her heart. It is the cutest thing in the world and speaks volumes to a woman
when you are good with children and when you're playful and sensitive. When a guy
is a jerk to kids that is an instant no, deal-breaker, it's over.
So consider taking some time if you don't know how to just learn how to be
good with kids and be patient with them and playful with them. That right there
is super super hot. And we're to the third thing guys do that girls love and this
is when you have muscles, okay? Like it's no secret that muscles are very
very attractive to women. You're a man, she's a woman, and the differences
between you and her are what attract her. Now if you saw this video you know that
you do not have to have muscles like Captain America in order to be
attractive. So do not freak out about that. If you're worried about that be
sure to watch that video there's a link in the description below and it will
comfort you a ton. You do not have to be a mountain of muscle in order
for her to be attracted to you, but guys, muscles are attractive. Society sometimes
it makes men feel like you have to be like this Thor or Captain America
physique in order to be attractive, but research actually shows that most women
prefer a man who is muscular but not massively built. And the good news is
there are simple things you can do to build muscle at home while you're
watching TV. There are plenty of things you can do to build that muscle easily.
I've actually been thinking about doing a video on that, if you think I should
comment "MUSCLES!" and I'll put together a video for you on that. I'm actually a
certified health coach in addition to my other certs
so if that is something you're interested in let me know. And speaking
of the comments I want to hear from you in the comments.
Should I make more videos on things guys do that girls love? If I should comment
"YES!" in the comments below and I will know to make more for you. The fourth
thing that guys do that girls love is when you have really nice skin. When
you make it a priority to take care of your skin and to look nice. Again, all of
these things just come down to knowing where to put your effort. A little bit of
effort goes a long way. That is very true when it comes to your skin. We kind of
associate taking care of your skin with something that just women do, but the
truth is, as humans we are designed to scan each other's skin for health
because your skin reveals how healthy you are. So health is 100% always
attractive, that's how God designed us. So if you want to be really attractive to
her and stand out from the crowd just take some time to have healthy habits
and have a really nice skin. The truth is, there are some really simple things you
can do that make all of the difference and just making sure that you
have nice skin is super super attractive. And we are to the fifth thing guys
do that girls love and this is when you have like that five o'clock shadow, like
a little bit of facial hair is incredibly attractive, okay? It just is. If
you've been watching me for a while you know that I have this thing with
jawlines and that is a really good way to accent it and just look
super attractive. Again, as a man, you're a man, and she's a woman. And so whenever
you can accent some of those differences between a man and a woman
it's just like super attractive to her, because she is attracted to you because
you are a man. Now if you saw this video you know a little bit about what I've
told you about facial hair. And it's so important to keep your facial hair sharp
and classy looking. And that that kind of like five o'clock shadow is a really
good way to do that. Honestly, keeping keeping yourself trimmed and sharp
looking and classy is always a good rule of thumb. So make sure you're doing that
with your facial hair. But if you're thinking about a way to take your
attraction to the next level that is something to consider because it's very
attractive. Now remember that our big secret today is that effort is what
matters, not perfection. Women do not want perfection unless she's a toxic
woman and you don't want her if she is. But effort makes all of the difference.
You have to make sure you're putting in the right effort,
otherwise it won't matter, so be sure to check out my course How to Get a
Girlfriend where I teach you exactly what you need to know to get the girl of
your dreams. You'll know exactly what kind of effort you need to focus on and
it will be a piece of cake because you'll just have everything you need to
know right up front. There's a link in the description below so be sure to
check it out. Remember, if you want your dream girl you have to be willing to put
in as much effort as she does. And just knowing what to do makes everything so
much easier. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend. If you do not
yet have my free guide 17 Traits Christian Women Want Most in a Man be
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thank you. Thank you so much again my amazing friend
and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
Why wont my hair do what I want it to do? Just sit there
look beautiful, that's all I'm asking you to do. Is that too much to ask?
And we are- [laughter] I really
like these videos. These videos are fun to make. [laughter]
Okay, shake it off. And we are to the third thing guys do- [laughter]
I'm trying not to blush, guys, don't judge me. Okay.
And- [laughter] I'm sorry. Okay, keep it together. In the zone. [laughter]
The truth is, most
women prefer a man who is less muscular than most men feel they have to be. Our
society has kind of made men feel like you have to be [grunt] you know, like super built. That's what
that means. [grunt] That's super built. [laughter] Okay. [laughter] Okay, how do I recover from that? Okay.