Absence makes the heart grow fonder...or so we’re told.
But let’s face it: absence only works if your guy is actually missing you during that
time.
So how can you make sure that his mind is on you even when his hand isn’t in yours?
My name is Amy North, I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC and today I’m going
to share with you some powerful, proven tips for making your man miss you.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a longstanding relationship you’re trying to spice up,
a recent breakup you’re trying to undo, an argument with your man that you’re trying
to resolve, or you’re trying to pin down your dream guy, making him miss you is the
secret ingredient in your love potion.
So, what I’m going to share with you today are some proven ways to make the guy you’re
miss you.
Before I do though, I just want to quickly say that if you enjoy this video and would
like more dating tips for women then subscribe to my YouTube channel and check out my other
videos.
Now without further adieu, let’s get started!
1.
Leave on a high note.
Nothing will leave you lingering on your man’s mind like when you part ways on a high note.
And this is especially true if your relationship has been shaky lately.
When you and your man leave each other on unpleasant or overly serious terms, there’s
a good chance that the time he spends away from you will be full of questions about whether
or not he’s better off without you.
Instead of giving him the chance to question your relationship, make him miss you by leaving
cheerfully, with hugs, kisses, laughter and promises to reunite soon.
2.
By mysterious.
When you’re trying to woo a guy leaving a little mystery is one of the best ways to
ensure that he’s still thinking of you once you’re out of sight.
So instead of pouring your heart out or letting him in on all your thoughts and secrets, choose
to hold back in little ways, and avoid the classic pitfall of oversharing.
If he asks you questions about your past, be coy, but not annoyingly so.
Answer his questions honestly, but don’t dish out loads of information.
A little ambiguity is the best way to make him want to spend more time with you.
If you want to find out more ways to keep your guy thinking about you then hop on over
to my website and check out my full length video presentation.
The url is www.CoachNorth.com , but I’ll be sure to post it in the description below.
3.
Highlight the fun parts of your life.
Now this doesn’t mean that you should spend all of your time trying to prove that your
life is a wonderland, because if you do, he’ll smell your bluff.
Instead, just be positive.
Tell him about the amazing concert you went to, the new sushi joint you tried, or the
crazy night you had out with your girlfriends.
Fun stories like this, as opposed to moaning about negative issues, prove that you’re
a great person to be around whether or not he’s there, and believe me, he’ll want
to be there.
This is a solid tactic to use after a breakup when you’re trying to show him how much
duller his life is without you around, and it can also show him how breaking up won’t
be the end of your life.
4.
Be good in bed.
Now this one is a bit smutty, but trust me, if you know how to rock his world between
the sheets he’ll be missing you in no time!
If you’re in a long distance relationship than this can especially be true because your
man is going to need something to get him through those long, lonely nights.
Being a sex goddess won’t only having him missing you, but he’ll also want only you.
I mean, why would he throw away mind blowing sex for a fling that less than amazing?
If this sounds frightening, relax… the very fact that you know what your guy likes and
dislikes gives you a leg up on the possible competition.
If you want to learn some new tricks to spice up your sex life then visit www.CoachNorth.com
and check out the free video presentation.
5.
Show subtle interest in someone else Did you know that in France a crime of passion
can get you off the hook for murder?
Well, that doesn’t fly in many other places, but jealousy is useful tool for making a guy
think about you.
So how do you use it to your advantage?
Jealousy is best used when you’re trying to get the attention of an ex-boyfriend or
a guy who hasn’t yet committed to you, which is why it’s an amazing technique to make
a man want or miss you.
To do so, shift your attention from your real love interest to someone else.
When you’re around that person make sure you’re dressed well, laugh often, flirt
lots and use gentle touches on hands and arms.
In this case, you want to display your so-called interest in this person for all to see.
When the man you are wanting sees this it may be the push he needs to work on winning
you back.
A word to the wise, don’t over do it.
6.
Leave him wanting more.
The best way to get a guy to miss you, whether he just met you or you’ve been together
for years, is to leave him wanting more.
More kisses, more stories, more laughter, more creativity, more of your mother’s amazing
secret meatball recipe, more dirty talk, whatever it is, just leave him wanting more.
By letting him know that he can look forward to the same treatment the next time he sees
you, he’ll be eager to see you again and will miss you in-between.
7.
Cut off contact
If you are constantly calling and texting the man you’re into then he won’t have
any time to think about missing you.
Take a break from the daily phone time and wait for him to call or text.
When you stop calling or texting he’ll wonder why, and this will cause him to start thinking
about and missing you.
If you're someone who is constantly updating social media with your activities then try
limiting how much you post so that he really feels the burn of no contact.
Social media posts are an easy way for people to stay connected and never feel like they’re
missing you.
When you post less, your guy will start to miss learning about what’s going on in your
life.
8.
Look your best Still wondering how to make him miss you?
Here’s an easy one: look good.
Not to sound shallow, but if you and your guy just broke up and there’s still a chance
you might get back together then looking fantastic is one of the best way to do it.
To do this, workout, wear flattering clothes, show off your sexy assets, do your hair, makeup
and anything else that makes you feel good about yourself.
Enhancing your natural beauty not only makes you more physically attractive, it also gives
you appealing confidence that will make him miss you even more.
9.
Be your own woman One of the best ways to make him miss you
is to stop depending on him for your happiness.
By showing him that you’re happily pursuing your own personal commitments, hobbies, interests
and friendships you’ll be on his mind more than you can imagine.
Be your own woman.
Well that’s all for this video, I hope you can take some of these ideas and put them
into action so that your guy starts missing you!
If you have any questions about how or when to use these tips then feel free to post in
the comments below and I’ll do my best to answer you.
Again, if you’d like to check out some more of my videos or learn more dating tips for
women you can do so by subscribing to my channel.
As always thanks so much for watching and until next time, take care!