hey guys is Tim from success insider here and in today's video I wanted to
explain to you what I never got a talk from my parents in regards to life and
before I continue I just wanna say the fact that you know no matter what
they've done or what they've not done I'm always gonna love my parents because
without them I would not be here and I'm not just talking about not being born
I'm talking about where I'm in my life without them teaching me the things
they did right I wouldn't be here without them nurturing me without them feeding
me so I'm just forever thankful you know that life has blessed me with parents
who have managed to bring me up in the way they did and so in regards to what
I'd be explaining today like you know don't take me wrong I'm not gonna
love them less because of that you know I truly believe everything in life
happens for a reason and I believe that I meant to have stumbled across this
message you know during my seven-year self-development journey so guys this is
what I learned about life you see people who are striving for success and you
know are always setting new goals let's say to become a lawyer to become that
fancy title job to gain that money put that money in the bank you know parents
are always in force and these fancy job title names to us because they want
security for us they want that certainty so they want us to live a very
comfortable life so you have to realize that first of all they're doing it out
of love even when they're angry if they didn't
love you they wouldn't be going through all that effort of hating you and be
shouting at you right they're doing it out of love and so you know this is
something that I've noticed amongst parents they're always saying go chase
this career go set that big goal big ambition but what they forget to really
enforce on their child is basically fulfillment and gratitude and how it's
actually met in reality is not met like how Hollywood or the news or the media
want us to think you know in the media they brainwash you to think once you
feel significant once you're there once you make it that's when gratitude
happiness everything is met when in fact if you look at the suicide rates amongst
millionaires and billionaires the people who are the most significant the most
famous is that they're all-time high compared to the people who are in
poverty why the moment your significant your
separate from right your special therefore you feel even more lonely
right and the moment you get more money you don't end up with less problems you
get more problems right ask that ask that to any millionaire if you know any
but I definitely do because I know millionaires and I've asked that
question you know first thing they say is you know you just get bigger problems
when you're more successful anyways in regards to fulfillment and gratitude and
feeling good about your life that's something that we never really get
taught by parents right they say go achieve this go achieve that but
they never say stop stop be present I've never heard that from my
parents I've always heard go do this it's almost like this analogy it's like
imagine this at the top is like you becoming a lawyer right and there's like
go chase that and you get to the top and you're looking around you're like is
this it I thought this is when I'm going to make it this is when I'm going to get
that you don't sense of happiness the feeling of happiness but you get to the
top only wanting to jump off just as quick so you look around and you're like
ok I see another mountain just even taller maybe this is earning your first
million dollars get to the top and you're like is this it I thought there's
more to life and you're looking around now and you see even bigger mountain the
Mount Everest you like this is where it's going to be this is where I'm gonna
feel grateful for my life this we're not gonna feel significant this is
when I'm going to feel secure and you get to the top of that mountain wanted
to literally jump off just as quick you see people in life are brainwashed by
the society to chase rabbits that they will never ever catch and usually when
we set goals we as we're chasing an emotion say we're chasing happiness say
we're chasing fulfillment right whatever it may be we're chasing it in the motion
at the moment we're chasing an emotion we'll always be like a greyhound on a
racing track chasing that rabbit we will never catch that rabbit why
because by design you're not meant to catch that rabbit and a lot of people in
life are chasing something that they will never catch the moment you set a
goal when you're chasing a feeling guess what you're setting yourself up to do
this is why millionaires and billionaires the suicide rates are all-time
high because they get sold into that perception once they make it they feel
this feeling when in fact that's not true you have to realize that
fulfillment and gratitude comes right now therefore if you're not grateful if
you're not fulfilled about your life right now no matter which goals you
attain you're just gonna be the same if you're not happy right now many it's
not money's not going to make you happy end of period if you're not happy right
now getting a girlfriend getting a boyfriend or whatever is not gonna
make you happy and this is what I never got taught I got taught into chasing
feelings chasing that next goal so this is what I wish I was got taught but I
truly believe right life doesn't give us what we want life gives us what we need
and this is the lesson I needed to learn myself so I'm grateful for everything
the way it turned out because if it hadn't I'm sure that I wouldn't be where
I am today the fact that I took this journey of self-development is due to
the fact that I I felt unfulfilled you know I felt grumpy I feel sad I felt
depressed and I'm glad you know I finally discovered the fact that
gratitude fulfillment comes right now and the moment you pause in this moment
and you're present and you silence that mind that's saying you're not good
enough that's saying you need more that's saying give me give me give me
you realized there's actually nothing wrong with this moment right now in this
present moment every single second it's a moment in our life slowly by surely
taken away and the at the end of the day guys
in your funeral on your deathbed you're not gonna be asking for your mahogany
framed MBA certificate you're not gonna be asking the keys to Ferrari you're
not gonna be asking for your million-dollar receipt cheque that
proves you got you know a millions of the bank you're gonna be asking for
the people you love you're gonna be asking the people inspire you people who
make you feel like your alive it all comes down to love at the end of the day
so it's about finding fulfillment right now in this moment and how would you do
that well you know this is something I go deep deep into in my coaching clients
but it has to give you a little short snippet the reason why majority of
people in this planet are not happy and are not fulfilled it's due to the fact
that the life they are living in doesn't fit the picture of what they think the
life they should be living when in fact if they just pause and be present they
realized this is life this is all there'll be that now is the only moment they'll
ever be in your life so if you're not happy if you're not fulfilled right now
no matter what you attain right it will never happen right and if you actually
think about this for a moment the reason why people are usually unhappy is
because they're just focused on themselves right you're focused on
yourself true fulfillment comes from growth and contribution it's about
helping others and I assure you soon as you start helping others and you start
growing yourself you will have this sense of fulfillment and as soon as you
start being present to this day and you start meditating you start mastering the
power of now you will really really have this like an uplifting energy and
vibrant energy about yourself because you're present to this day you're
present to this moment as this moment is all they'll ever be so
that is the lesson I wish my parents taught me about life but you know I'm
glad I've discovered it myself want to say guys if you're new to this
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