Tripp Kramer here from
www.trippadvice.com. Let's talk about sex.
You're going to be meeting a lot of
girls, especially if you're using a lot
of the tips that are coming from these
videos on this channel. And you need to
learn how to give a woman an amazing
sexual experience. I am under the belief
that if you can have a great sex life
with your partner, whoever it is, someone
that you meet for the first time, doesn't
matter, that the rewards are incredible
because you can grow and connect with
that person on such an amazing deep
level. Today what I want to do is I
want to go over some mindsets and a
couple of practical techniques that you
can use to give her this amazing
experience and of course give yourself
this amazing experience because it's not
just about you, it's not just about her,
it's about both of you. Here's the
first mindset and this is one that guys
don't really think about and that
mindset is you do not have to finish.
That's right. You don't have to ejaculate.
You see, when a guy ejaculates it really
robs him of his energy and I'm sure you
know exactly what I'm talking about.
After you're done, you probably get a
little tired, a little sluggish, you want
to rest, maybe just go to bed. You
are robbed of your energy. So if you are
focusing so much on finishing or if you
do finish too quick, then it's going to
be a shorter experience for her and you
want to create a long lasting experience
for her when you're in the bedroom.
Of course you don't want to go too long.
There is a limit here. A girl doesn't
want to do it forever because it can
get to a point where it gets painful, but
either way you want to be able to last
in the bedroom. I want you to think
about this mindset. Don't focus on the
fact that you have to finish. I'm
sure a lot of you guys are like yeah no
problem, that's not what I'm focusing on. I
don't want to finish too quickly. Maybe
you even do finish too quickly and I
have another video, you can find that on
the channel on how to fix that issue.
But either way, you don't have to finish.
Here's the thing, you don't have to
finish at all. I'm not just talking about
making the experience longer and
finishing later. I'm talking about the
fact that you don't have to. You can just
do it maybe the next day or the day
after that. Depending on if you're in a
relationship or whatever it is.
All right, mindset number two.
When you're in the bedroom with a girl,
I want you to focus more on her
experience. So why are you doing
this and what does that mean? Well you
want to be focusing more on her because
it's going to help you get out of your
head. That's right, it's going to help you
reduce your anxiety because a lot of
guys go into the bedroom and they're
just focusing on themselves and
everything that they're doing.
Instead, I want you to focus on her.
Trust me when I say that this is not
going to reduce your pleasure. In fact,
it's going to make it even more
pleasurable for you because when you're
focusing on her, what's gonna end up happening
is she's gonna be turned on and then
she's gonna want to focus on you.
What I mean by this is focus on what
is making her receive pleasure. I want
you to pay attention to if she's moaning
and if she's squirming a little bit when
you're doing any sort of specific move
or technique, whether you're going down
on her or you guys are just having sex.
Find out what makes her really turned on
and here's the best part. You can ask her.
Girls like that, it's okay because every
girl gets turned on in a different way.
It's not going to make you look like
an amateur if you ask her what turns her
on and what she likes. She's gonna be
excited. Wouldn't you be excited if a
girl asked you the same question? I bet
you would. Those are some mindsets I
want you to follow. This is kind of
what you're gong to be thinking as you enter
the bedroom with a girl or wherever you
are. You're gonna be thinking about
not having to finish. It's not all about
you having to finish and you're going to be focusing
on her in the bedroom. I have to
reiterate this here. This is not you just
doing all these things for the girl. I
know a lot of guys we commenting and
saying why does it always have to be about
her and blah blah blah.
No, when you do this she will reciprocate
and you will be having an amazing sexual
experience because you're going to be
more present in the moment. It's going to
feel better and you're going to be less
up here. Now let's go into a couple of
techniques. This is like the 80/20 some
things that I figured out that really
make the most difference in terms of
having an amazing sexual experience.
Use some of these and see how it
works. The first one is this, eye contact.
I talk about eye contact all the
time on the show. I even have a video
that is for practicing eye contact when
you can actually watch a video you look
at the girl at you're
practicing the eye contact. And the
best part about it is this eye contact
goes beyond the initial meeting of the
girl. You can use this in the bedroom and
it creates and really really sensual
experience. Like I'm saying, it's very
very powerful and when you bring it into
the bedroom, it could be even more
powerful because you guys are not just
connecting with your eyes but you're
connecting with your bodies and you've
having this mutual orgasmic experience.
Really you're multiplying all the
sensations when you're able to give her
that really good eye contact. You're
connecting, you're treating her like
she's a human being and she's treating
you the same way. Instead of treating her
like an object and I'm not just saying
that from you know a moral standpoint,
but I'm also saying that from the fact
that it's going to be better. It is
better to be connecting with someone,
looking at someone when you guys are
having a sexual experience. No better way
than giving her eye contact. You
don't have to do that the whole time. It
doesn't have to be the entire session.
You should be doing it throughout at
various times. Here's another
really great tip. Here's what I want you
to do. Before you guys start having sex, I
want you to be doing a lot of foreplay.
If you're already having sex and
you're doing foreplay now, I want you to
triple the amount of time that you're
already doing it and if you haven't done
it before, I want you to do it for a very
long time. If I had to say at least a
number of minutes, let's just say like 10
15 to even 20 minutes. Yes, upwards
of 20 minutes of doing foreplay before
you guys end up having sex. What is this
going to do? This is going to turn her on
and get her ready. Girls need a lot
longer of a time to get ready for sex
and get turned on than guys. For us, it's
a little bit easier.
We can just see a girl, she's naked and
pretty much be ready to go. There are
different things that are happening in her
body and her emotions that have to make
her feel comfortable so you want to make
her feel comfortable with you and you
want to get her turned on by doing a lot
of foreplay. If you have questions on
how to do that I have other videos on
this channel that teach you how to be
really good at oral sex and things like
that so you can check that out. Just
know that you should be doing this for
an extended amount of time before you
guys end up having sex so she is ready
for you. Along with that tip and this
is something kind of over
all. This is maybe another mindset but
also sort of a technique is you want to
make sure that you're going nice and
slow. Of course there is a time for you
to be rough and things like that, but
overall going very slow with the
foreplay with the sex is going to drive
her wild. Girls get turned on when
they're more teased. In order to
tease her, in order to make it really
really sensual, you want to move slow.
Everything is moving slow, everything you
do. So when you're moving slower,
again this is giving her the opportunity
to get more turned on and to crave you
more and get ready for sex. Here's what I
want you to do if you're still having a
hard time creating a sensual experience.
I want you to check out Tripp's Tension
Technique. It's a free video. I'm going to
put a link in the description below and
that video is going to show you an
actual demonstration of me and another
girl doing what I call Tripp's Tension
Technique which is a way to turn her on
before you kiss her. You can watch
this and get some of the mindsets and
ideas from there and see it done live to
get you to understand how to create this
experience for the girl. Check that
out. again that's in the description
below. Like this video and tell me in the
comments below if this is making sense
to you. Does this make sense? Does this
help you? Where do you need clarification?
Let's talk about in the comments. I will
be down there. Thanks for watching. See
you on the next video.